There are many interesting sayings in rural areas, some of which are straightforward and easy to understand, and some of which are difficult to understand literally. Only by careful analysis can we know the connotation. What does the saying "men are concave and women are convex, and they are lonely if they are not widowed" mean? What do concave and convex mean respectively?
Concave and convex literally mean concave and protruding, so what do they mean when they are used on men and women? What does male concave mean?
A male depression has two meanings, one is a man's figure, and the other is a man's mental outlook. In the countryside, some men walk hunched, have no masculinity, and look listless all day. There are also some men who are lazy, do not take responsibility, and always pass the buck when something happens. What does it mean that such men are also called "concave" and convex?
female protrusion also has two meanings, one refers to figure and appearance, and the other refers to a woman's behavior. In our life, we will meet some women with high cheekbones and upturned faces when they walk, as if they don't care about anyone. She is also very arrogant and jealous in dealing with others, and always wants to be superior everywhere. Such a woman is called "convex". Why do you say "men are concave and women are convex, and if you are not widowed, you will be lonely"?
The meaning of male concavity and female convexity has been introduced above. Everyone has understood that male concavity and female convexity are not good phenomena. In our village, there is a man who has no responsibility, works outside the home to earn money and only cares about his own expenses, regardless of his wife and children. His wife worries about everything at home and loves to blame others when things happen. Finally, his wife can't stand it, so she divorced him and became a loner.
I heard from a friend that a woman she knows is very strong, and she tells her mother-in-law and her husband what to do at home. One of her disappointments is that she cries twice and hangs herself three times, making trouble at home all day, and the family relationship is also divided. Her husband was in a bad mood all day, and finally he died in an accident while working on the construction site. The woman cried her eyes out, but it was too late. Summary: As the saying goes, "Men are concave and women are convex, and if they are not widowed, they will be lonely", which means that men have no responsibility and can't bear the responsibility of their families. Women are arrogant and high above others, and in the end they can only be ruined by their families.