In personnel management, we should be close to saints and stay away from villains, but we should pay attention to the fact that swingers are not a single minority and cannot be avoided, not to mention that swingers are not just villains, they are guided by the situation and bound by institutional norms.
In addition, dealing with the swing is a game of strength. The most vivid way to put it is to make the wind on your side smaller, and when the wind is stronger there, naturally he will fall to your side ~