The classic is Joe. I remember watching Chun Yan and Debao fight. While they were eating, they fought without saying a word, but their son Niu Niu was even more indifferent than the people who ate melons. He bypassed his parents directly and ate beside his own food!
When I saw this, I was still thinking: this child is so indifferent when he sees his parents quarreling, and he will not be enthusiastic when he grows up! He probably thinks it's perfectly normal for couples to start fighting! ……
Many parents think it doesn't matter, and it doesn't matter if they are noisy. As long as their fists and feet don't fall on children, they won't affect them. This is far from the truth. There is a scholar who will accept all grown-up children. People who grew up in this family environment, whether boys or girls, are more inferior, timid or indifferent, rebellious and extreme.
Chun Yan is a competitive person. He won't hide that others are better than himself. Nan Zhou was admitted to Tsinghua, and even Yue Feng went in, but what about his son? Even less than half of others' grades, let alone Tsinghua. Even ordinary universities don't need him, which makes Chun Yan very angry. She just scolded her son until she drove him away. She doesn't know how to worry, but what's the use of worrying? Niu Niu wouldn't have run away from home if she hadn't forced her.
Fortunately, Niu Niu is lucky. He didn't die in a foreign country like Nan Zhou, and he didn't commit suicide because of the trick of fate like Sun. Instead, I moved bricks for a few days and tasted the bitterness of life before pulling my face and not coming back. According to his previous temper, Chun Yan would have scolded him, but as long as his son is alive, this is more important than anything. She never wants to lose her son again, and even wants to contact and find a class for her son. Fortunately, she has done a good job in the unit over the years. Chun Yan became the vice president. If she wants to put people in, just talk to the leader, but she knows that the bathhouse is not what it used to be, and the pictures between men and women are unbearable. She doesn't want her son to know, so she wants the leader to arrange her son to other units, as long as it is a state-owned unit, no matter what she does. Yan never dreamed that the leader actually found a job for Niu Niu in the crematorium. I don't know what to do, but anyway, it's a crematorium. I have to deal with dead people all day. Niu Niu is less than 20 years old and does this kind of work. Are you sure it won't affect my psychological quality? However, for Yu, the crematorium is the best home for his son. After all, it is an iron rice bowl.
Another strong woman is Zhou Rong. In TV series, Zhou Rong is a self-centered person. 19 years old, she went to the deep mountains of Guizhou and married Feng Huacheng. 10 years later, she has been an associate professor at the university, maintaining the aloof and lofty attitude of intellectuals. At this point, the contradiction between husband and wife began to be exposed. Zhou Rong's marriage is capricious and unfortunate. In a plot, she has been quarreling with Feng Huacheng, and she is not willing to be outdone. Her own living ability is not strong, even the chances of going to the kitchen are few, but she still maintains her physical strength. When couples quarrel, they don't know how to be patient. Zhou Rong's strength in this marriage invisibly made her daughter Yue Feng feel the warmth of her family. In the eyes of her daughter, she is just a biological mother. In the conflict with her daughter, she lacked patience and followed her wayward youth. Finally, her husband Feng Huacheng found warmth among female fans and left Zhou Rong.
Daughter Yue Feng's rebellion, especially her puppy love for Nan Zhou, is mainly driven by her mother Zhou Rong. Yue Feng's dependence on his brother Nan Zhou since childhood is the common feature of a child who can't live with his parents: parents are not their own dependence, but their psychological dependence, so they will definitely find someone to rely on. As a teenager, Nan Zhou depended on him. He grew up and died in Nan Zhou. According to the story in the original book, Yue Feng finally married an old man. This is the result of the original ecological family, especially the strong mother.
Warm but not shy, just like Zheng Juan, she can bear the burden of humiliation, never abandon, never give up and never complain, which makes an originally humble husband have to bear the burden of life. They will struggle tenaciously in every adversity and find their own way out.
When talking about family relations, Li Meijin said: When my mother takes care of me, my father takes care of my mother, and then my mother has to tell my children that we should also help my father, so the family should form a link relationship, not a center relationship.
I hope that every woman who enters the family and marriage will be less strong and overbearing like Joe and more considerate and tolerant like that. Let children grow up in a warm atmosphere.
Give your husband more encouragement and appreciation. At the same time, family harmony is also conducive to the growth of children. If you don't nag, complain or yell, the child will naturally not be disgusted. Even if the child is a little rebellious, it will not make the family full of emotional disputes.
Life is not easy, so that men and women in every family are not so strong and irritable. Husband and wife understand each other, do more, talk less, and cherish it on the road of life.
As for Hao Dongmei, everyone has a good impression on her. Her marriage with Zhou is basically recognized by everyone. Her biggest regret is that she is infertile for life and can't enjoy family happiness. The life of their husband and wife is very embarrassing, and they are all faced with an experienced, experienced and slightly stronger governor's wife.
Hao Dongmei certainly has feelings for Zhou, and she performed very well in the whole plot. However, the dispute between husband and wife made Zhou feel wronged in the home of senior officials. In the plot, Zhou went to the Soviet Union, contacted a warship to dismantle it, and had a story with a woman abroad. The details can only be imagined by the audience.
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Hao Dongmei has a strong mother and a loving husband. At the same time, she inherited her mother's strength and had many disputes with Zhou. Even, because of the separation between the two places, she encountered some minor troubles at work. In a rage, she asked her husband for a divorce. Sometimes, she is easy to vent her emotions and relatively ignores her husband's professionalism.
If I were Zhou and lived in my mother-in-law's house, that is, a senior official, I really felt a little dependent. If the wife is a little stronger, once there is a quarrel, it will increase her sense of inferiority. Hao Dongmei's marriage is generally happy, but her strength does affect the relationship between husband and wife.
In the family, the husband is the starting point of children, and the wife is the feng shui of the husband. We often say that a woman's life is prosperous, but in fact we are talking about the feng shui that a wife is a husband.
Cao Debao, the best young man in literature and art in the world, is out of tune before marriage, flashy and fond of daydreaming. He married a wife like Joe, and the marriage fell into a kind of mutual consumption. Joe's strong personality is also consuming Cao Debao's enthusiasm for life.
On the third day of New Year's Eve, all the children have a party. Every time Cao Debao speaks, Chun Yan Dou rudely interrupts him. Cao Debao was unhappy, but he dared not resist. Such a strong woman didn't give her husband any respect. Do you expect her to have the temperament of a rich husband?
There is also a supporting actor named Dzhanis, who is the wife of National Day. She is competing with the National Day, and her attitude is very blunt. She will never tolerate three points. No matter how many people are in front of her, she dares to quarrel and is not ashamed.
When life really encounters any twists and turns, Janice shows her complaints and fragility. He either took it out on the old people and children, or beat his chest, cried and complained. Living with such a woman is a nightmare.
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