When dining in other people's homes, we sometimes unconsciously want to help wash the dishes to express our gratitude. But according to the unspoken rules of the world, you should avoid taking the initiative to help wash dishes. This is not because we are unwilling to pay, but because doing so may bring embarrassment and discomfort to the host.
At the dinner table, we are guests and should respect the status and role of the host. If the host invites us to their home for dinner, they will provide services, including washing dishes. If you take the initiative to help wash the dishes, you may be misunderstood by the host as not trusting them or questioning their family hygiene. Therefore, according to the unspoken rules of the world, we should avoid actively washing dishes.
Etiquette of going to someone's house for dinner and being a guest.
1. Learn to be punctual: Being late is really not cool, especially as an invited party. Punctuality means walking into the host's house at the appointed time, not too early or too late, not too early or having an impact on the host's house. The most appropriate way is punctuality. In modern society, when the details of etiquette are forgotten, please remember not to visit at dinner time unless the host invites you to dinner, which will only cause embarrassment.
2, learn to bring gifts: don't think this is red tape, in fact, this is basic courtesy, empty-handed guests are not sensible in the eyes of mature people. Gifts are not important, just be kind, even if you bring a little fruit, it is also a gesture.