Actually, it is not! At the same time, Bai Jiaer's grandmother lived a different life. How successful Bai Jiaer's grandmother is, how failed Bai Yaping is! Bai Yaping gave people a careless sense of importance as soon as she appeared, but she didn't care. It was an accident that she accidentally fell to death when she came up. How can it cause such great hatred between Guan Jia and Bai Jia? Many people think that closing the house is too ruthless, but Bai Yaping also has an unshirkable responsibility.
At that time, the marriage between Guan and Bai Yaping was the result of the words of his parents' life matchmaker. It is mentioned in the play that Guan Jia is a scholarly family, while Bai Jia is a family of hanging pots, one is a physician and the other is a servant around the emperor, so it is also appropriate. However, the right combination does not mean that the two are congenial, and there is not much explanation about the idea of customs clearance in the play, but Bai Yaping said that she did not like going back to customs at all, which shows that the relationship between the two is not good.
After marriage, Bai Yaping always goes back to her family from time to time. Compared with Bai Jiaer's sedate and dignified grandmother, this little sister-in-law who is always in a hurry is particularly different. As a result, he fell to his death while coaxing the child, which shows that the mother is also negligent and too careless. As a mother, Bai Yaping is unqualified.
As a wife, I know that I have a bad relationship with my husband, and I have no mind to maintain the relationship between husband and wife. Instead, she thinks about how to intervene in her own family affairs every day, but she doesn't care about her own family affairs. When it was time to cultivate the feelings of husband and wife, she did something else and decided to divorce her in the future. After all, Bai Yaping is a giant baby spoiled by the White House. Her age is growing, but she hasn't learned how to grow up and take responsibility psychologically.
It was her own fault that the child fell. It means that the third master scares himself and feels that he will not bear the corresponding responsibility. On the contrary, she didn't blame others. Born in the White House, Bai Yaping was spoiled by her parents since she was a child, which is both her blessing and her misfortune. At marriageable age, she married someone in a fog and gave birth to a child in a fog. As a wife and mother, she didn't learn at all. Although she has given birth to two children, her psychological stage still stays in the Miss White House period. ?
Bai Yaping never seems to know what she wants, but she clearly knows what she doesn't want. With this idea, she only learned to take, not to pay. She seems to be a trapped puppet who can do whatever she wants. In a word, there is the White House behind her, and she cares nothing, so the White House fell and the tragedy of Bai Yaping came. In the final analysis, her tragedy is that she has not learned to grow up and become independent.
Compared with Bai Yaping, we can see the preciousness of Grandma Bai Jiaer. Second grandma, as a wife, is persuasive to her husband; As the daughter-in-law of the White House, when appropriate, she stepped forward and actively made suggestions for family affairs. As a woman, she never felt that women should only be responsible for carrying on the family line, and more should reflect their own values.
Therefore, Grandma Bai's second wife was snubbed by her in-laws from the beginning and gradually became the backbone of the White House. She conquered her in-laws, her husband and everyone in the White House step by step. Growing up, she respected others, no matter who they were, husband or son, and became a pivotal figure in the White House with her own mind. She makes the fate of the White House grow with her own growth, and makes everyone in the White House inseparable from herself. If Bai Yaping can do this in the government, will there be a tragedy later? Obviously impossible, isn't it Therefore, Bai Yaping's tragedy is largely due to her own reasons. She refuses to grow up and think, and always feels that everything has her home. No matter how the times develop, what's the point of not emancipating the mind?