Let's talk about one person first: everyone else sitting in this position is very harmonious and peaceful. Why is it that after you sit in this position, the unit has problems one after another and the interior is not harmonious? Usually we will say that this person's blessings are not enough. What is a blessing? Virtue is bliss. It is enough for a person to have virtue, and it is enough to be blessed. However, we would rather admit that our blessings are not enough than that our virtues are not enough and our virtues are not worthy.
Some managers are satisfied with their team, the team is harmonious, and everyone's income is good; Even if the workload is heavy, everyone will not complain. With the new manager, he is bent on improving everyone's welfare and not making everyone tired. But why don't people want to follow him, and many people still want to create his rebellion? Or his virtue is not enough, and his virtue is not worthy. If he is virtuous enough, sitting in this position must be both inside and outside.
Some people get rich, but they get seriously ill, or their families get sick. We all say it's a blessing. In fact, virtue is not enough, and virtue is not worthy. A person dares to admit that his virtue is not enough, not to say that his blessings are not enough, and then through a method of Xiu De, when virtue is promoted to a certain height, it will be coordinated. If you don't have enough virtue, sitting in a high position, not only you are like ants on hot bricks, but your team is like ants on hot bricks, all on pins and needles.
Where does a person's virtue come from? How to prove his virtue? A person with enough virtue must be generous first. How does a big heart manifest itself? A person does everything without considering himself, without being self-centered, considering everyone's interests and feelings. His mind and mind are naturally big. Enough is enough to accommodate everything. Since your chest contains everything, when you need something, you will naturally have it.
A moral person is bound to bear the burden of shame. Can not bear the burden of humiliation, indicating that his virtue has not really been established. A virtuous person will definitely not proceed from himself, but from the overall situation. For example, if you are a department manager, your first consideration is the interests and feelings of employees in your department. As the general manager, you will consider the interests of all employees in the whole enterprise. Only by considering everyone's interests and feelings everywhere will everyone accept you and support you.
How can I improve my virtue? We must actively help others by doing good deeds, otherwise our virtue cannot be established and perfected. If a person's virtue has not been established, he already has a certain status and influence, and the result is very terrible. It is difficult to convince the world by our ability alone. Even if others treat you on the surface, they are dismissive and have to obey you. The ancients said that if you convince others with your ability, others will create your rebellion; If you serve others with virtue, others will never turn against you, and even be loyal to you and go through fire and water for you.
There must be a reason why a person is liked or disliked. There is also a reason why we like or dislike a person. You can ask yourself: Why doesn't the boss like me? You may say, "The boss is as blind as a bat, and the boss is partial. Why is the boss biased? Actually, no boss is a fool. Every boss knows his subordinates well, but he just doesn't say anything. Any boss who can reach a certain level will have a bigger heart than the average person. Sometimes you don't recognize your boss because you only see his shortcomings and don't see his advantages. If your boss is really as useless as you say, he can't sit in that position. If you are really as capable as you say, why have you been living in the house, not sitting in a certain position and complaining all the time?
Only people with virtue can be called talents, and those with professional knowledge and skills can't be called talents. In particular, people who only have professional knowledge and skills and have no virtue must never use them. Their destructiveness and lethality are very great. Virtue is more important than knowledge, ability and skill. With knowledge, ability, professional skills and no virtue, you will never find a foothold. Unless he first bases himself on virtue and displays his talents and abilities on the basis of virtue. In doing things in the world, many people rely on means and intentions, and they can only be brave for a while, and eventually they will be seen through and overthrown.
Why don't some people like it when they meet and refuse to accept it? Still not virtuous enough. If you are virtuous enough, why don't you get on well with all beings? Good karma is also based on virtue. Throughout ancient and modern history, many people held high positions and were prominent for a while, but they all ended up in a tragic end, that is, virtue did not deserve. Many people have knowledge, learning, ability, brains and means, and have climbed to a certain height through these. It's easy to climb at a high position, but are you comfortable sitting on it? Are you facing a breeze, a drizzle or a storm? Are you attacked by the wind from all directions, or are you from all directions?
So, a word of advice: don't complain when you meet someone who doesn't like you. The more you complain, the less he likes you. Over time, you can't accept him, and he can't accept you. When you meet someone you don't like, or he doesn't like you, there is no other way to change the bad relationship between you except to reflect on yourself sincerely and silently and correct your mistakes. If you have the opportunity to work with him, don't show your wisdom, ability and talent everywhere, but try to cultivate your own virtue, stand in the other person's position and put yourself in the other person's shoes.
Some people are very capable and have done a lot of things, but they are envied, slandered and framed by their peers. Why is this happening? Because he put all his energy into the cultivation and promotion of ability, not Xiu De. So it is best to cultivate morality, not wisdom and ability. In fact, Xiu De will naturally have the ability and wisdom. Even if you don't have the ability and wisdom, there will be foreign aid. People with wisdom and ability will be close to you and become your ability and wisdom. So you don't need to cultivate your own ability and wisdom. With virtue, you have everything. Without virtue, you will get nothing and have nothing. Even if you get what you want through your own wisdom, ability, means and strategies, you can't have it forever, and it's all yours.
Things in the world are so subtle: everyone gives you what you don't want; Nobody gives you what you want. You always want to protect your personal interests. If you are ignorant, you will harm the interests of others, and everyone will attack you as a result. If you have wisdom, change a technique and safeguard the interests of others, and finally your personal interests will be preserved. This is the difference between doing things with wisdom and without wisdom.
No matter what industry you are engaged in, you will meet competitors. At first, competition depended on price, quality, service and credit. What does the game end with? It is character, it is virtue. Without excellent virtues, you can't compete in this world. It takes a team to do everything. How can we unite an excellent team under your command? By means and skills, it is only useful in a certain time and space, and it is useless after this time and space. But with virtue, it is useful to go to any corner of the world at any time.
Wherever a person goes, he has to work, pay and be bound. Wherever you go, as long as you pay, you will get something. But you can't be completely free anywhere. Each of us is an imperfect individual and needs the assistance of other karma to play a very important role, otherwise we can only play the role of five points, six points, seven points and eight points forever. Everything needs a good reason to play a very important role. All we do is bring all kinds of karma together. When there is enough karma, your ideal, his ideal and mine can all be realized.
How to make all the karma fit together? As long as we cut off our habits, hobbies and edges and corners, our own small edges and corners will soon get together with the big edges and corners of the universe, and all karma will be in harmony. Therefore, if you want to cultivate Xiu De, you can't have too much personal subjective will and too much ego. Only by constantly lowering oneself can a person get rid of evil and become good, get along well with others. If "I" is involved, it is not true virtue. In the final analysis, perfect virtue must not contain self, otherwise it is self-expression and self-demand. Everything is not from self-consideration, not from self-starting, but for others, which is the highest embodiment of virtue.
I wish everyone can be selfless, selfless and surpass themselves.