1, people generally avoid getting married in April and September of the lunar calendar, becaus
1, people generally avoid getting married in April and September of the lunar calendar, because these two days are Tomb-Sweeping Day and Chung Yeung Festival respectively. In order to respect their ancestors, these two months are usually not conducive to marriage. In addition, getting married in June of the lunar calendar is also taboo, because there is a half-moon wife.
2. Choose "lucky" people when setting the bed, which means wishing a couple good luck. Don't point the wedding bed at the sharp corner of the table, wardrobe or something. After the bed is fixed, it is best not to lie down and sleep until the eve of the wedding night, and try to wait until the wedding night before the husband and wife lie down together.
3, avoid two incense, many traditional families will tell ancestors or gods to burn incense before their daughters get married. In addition to offering cakes, the woman should also pay attention to incense and try not to insert the incense head askew. If it is crooked, don't pull out the incense and insert it again, because the second fragrance means remarriage, which is unlucky for the newly married couple.
4. Don't say goodbye. When relatives and friends leave after the wedding, the couple and their relatives and friends can't say "goodbye" because the word "goodbye" means breaking up and leaving, which is very bad for the newlyweds. Therefore, when the couple sends the guests off, they should nod or wave goodbye.
5, press the bed, generally choose one or two little boys to press on the new bed, I wish the couple a happy baby. Some places will pay attention to the boy's zodiac, such as dragons or not compete with the new boy's zodiac. The little boy's red envelope must also be given. If you are afraid of trouble, you can buy a pair of press dolls and put them on the wedding bed, instead of the little boy.