This is another article by Feng Tang. It talks about "the destiny of heaven", "the destiny of management" and "the role of man".
I don’t know how to write articles, but I am learning how to write articles and imitating what he writes. Learn, learn, imitate. As long as you can learn and imitate, you can still make progress.
Is there any destiny? He said there is a "destiny". There is an old saying: "One fate, two luck and three feng shui." The first thing mentioned is "fate". As soon as you are born, the recombination of your parents' genes has already determined your entire genetic makeup. These genetic makeup play an even greater role in your future growth environment than we imagine. With the development of science, people have discovered that many things have been determined when a person is born, but we do not yet know which things determine which things. Psychologist Eric Byrne believes that each of us will form a plan for how to live this life before the age of about seven, which involves how to do something and how to establish a relationship, and then it is stored in our subconscious mind , this is called "life script". We cannot realize it obviously, we can only passively accept and execute it. Sun Wukong jumped out of a stone, and other ordinary people were born to their parents. What their parents gave them was destiny, and it was impossible not to accept it.
Knowing destiny, what is "I"? "I" is very small. I am small, but that does not mean I am nothing. Although it is very small, it is still powerful. When powerful, there is energy. Under the general environment and high probability, your controllability is very small and insignificant. But as long as you work hard, identify one thing, identify a possible probability, go all out, and fight to the death, you may get what you want, and your small ability may be amplified into nuclear power. That's the role of people.
Manage destiny. Can "Destiny" be managed? The answer is definitely "yes". 1. First know who you are? Four taels or half a catty? Don't be arrogant or inferior. What should I do if I don’t know what potential I have? He said "sow widely but reap little", which I understand to mean "trial and error". Try sports, literature and art, business, and writing. The cost of trial and error is not big, but the loss of not doing it will be huge. Just accept that you are capable and perform normally. I remembered his nine-character mantra for success: "Don't be anxious, don't be afraid, be shameless." 2. Do your best, dig wells and springs, and don’t give up easily. Do things one by one, one by one. 3. Never gamble your life. Most of the time, do your best and listen to destiny. Do it when you know what cannot be done. You must distinguish when, what and who, and you must judge the right time, place, and people. If you make a desperate move without analysis and judgment, you will lose nine out of ten bets.