It means that men inherit the masculinity of heaven and women inherit the gentleness of the earth. The sky is not long without land, and there is no life without land. Only when men and women respect their own ways can the world be harmonious and prosperous.
So is the family.
The father is a family, the father has a big pattern, and the family can prosper;
Mother is the land of a family. Only when the mother has a good temper can the family be stable and harmonious.
Only when the husband and wife relationship between father and mother is harmonious can the family be happy and prosperous.
Father's big pattern, mother's good temper and warm and harmonious family relationship are the best feng shui for a family.
The father's pattern determines the lifeblood of the family.
Only those who have a big pattern can have a big realm; Only those who have a great realm can achieve great things.
What is the pattern?
"Ge" means character and personality, while "Ju" means mind and vision.
In a family, the father's pattern affects the lifeblood of the family.
Only when the father has a good personality and a broad vision can the family prosper.
Zhang's four sisters, comparable to Song Ziwen's sisters, are called "the last wives".
The four sisters are Kunqu composer Zhang Yuanhe, beauty Zhang Yunhe, writer Zhang Zhaohe and the last talented woman Zhang Chonghe.
Ye Shengtao once said with emotion: "There are four talented women in Jiuru Lane, and whoever marries will be happy for life."
Later, the four sisters married Gu Chuanjun, a famous Kunqu artist, Zhou Youguang, the "father of Chinese Pinyin", Shen Congwen, a writer, and Hans Hermannt Frankel, a famous sinologist.
The four sisters and husbands of the Zhang family have extraordinary talents, and the six sons of the Zhang family are also brilliant pillars.
All the children are so excellent because of a big father-Zhang Wuling.
Zhang Wuling had four daughters and six sons in his life, and he gave them different names.
The four daughters were named Yuanhe, Yunhe, Zhao He and Chonghe respectively, without the powder of Yingying Yanyan, and each name had "two legs". I hope my daughters can stand on their own feet and get out of their own world.
The names of Liuzi are:, Yinhe, Dinghe,, Ninghe, and each has a "meter". I hope my son can inherit the family style, shine brilliantly, and always have a "home" in his heart wherever he goes.
Zhang Wuling loves reading and Kunqu opera, and has numerous books at home. Whenever he is free, he stays in the library and reads books, or listens to Kunqu Opera in the clubhouse.
The child was exposed, and it was also contaminated with his father's bookishness.
Zhang Wuling has always been very open-minded and encourages children to develop their hobbies freely.
Under such an open education, children are outstanding and knowledgeable, and under the influence of their father's elegant taste, they subtly cultivate an extraordinary temperament.
Ma Yun said: "If our children are not allowed to play, experience and try piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, I can guarantee that they will not find a job after 30 years, because he can't beat the machine."
At any time, elegant interests are the foundation of a person's life.
Zeng Guofan said: "Those who seek great things should focus on the pattern first."
People with small patterns are short-sighted and only look at immediate interests, so life is doomed to go not far, and so is family.
In a family, the father has a big pattern and a long-term vision, guiding his children to great prospects, so that the family will flourish.
Mother's temper determines the stability of the family.
China's Chinese characters contain the profound wisdom of our ancestors. For example, the word "An" has "rice" on it, which means "home"; The following is "female", which refers to the hostess of a family.
It means that a family's mother is gentle and smooth, and the family will be peaceful and harmonious.
As the saying goes, "A good wife and a good husband suffer many disasters, and everything goes well at home" is the most vivid interpretation of the word "security".
In a family, the mother's temper determines the stability of the family.
Bing Xin's mother is gentle and virtuous. She has never had an argument with anyone, and she just laughs at the loss.
She never yells at her children, never scolds them even if they make mistakes, and always persuades them softly.
Once, Bing Xin walked up to her mother and asked, "Mom, why on earth do you love me?"
Mother put down her needle and thread and said gently and without hesitation, "No, just because you are my daughter."
Bing Xin once wrote many words, and sincerely thanked her mother. "Mom, because of your strong and endless love, my three younger brothers and I have the greatest happiness and no regrets."
A good-natured mother makes her children and their families feel warm and loving, and the educated children are sincere and kind;
A mother with a bad temper is likely to cause trauma to her children and her family. Educated children often feel inferior and insecure.
Zhang Ailing's mother is moody and often growls at her children when she is angry.
Once, when her mother gave a banquet to entertain guests, Zhang Ailing found that a chair was missing. Young Zhang Ailing laboriously moved a chair, but her mother shouted in front of all the guests, "What are you doing? Pig! "
When Zhang ailing was ill, her mother had to pay the medical bills and take care of her. Her mother often shouts impatiently, "Anyway, you live to harm people!"
Mother's bad temper destroyed Zhang Ailing's love for her bit by bit, and also cast a shadow over Zhang Ailing's life.
Mother determines the temperature of a family.
When a mother is gentle and kind, the family will be happy. No matter how big the storm is, no matter how big the ups and downs are, we can all walk hand in hand.
A mother with a bad temper will never have peace in her family and will ruin the happiness of her child's life.
Mother's good temper is feng shui at home and the best blessing of a family.
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The relationship between husband and wife determines the fortune of the family.
Educator Liu Changming once said, "Never put children before husband and wife. The relationship between husband and wife is the first important. It is because of the strong relationship between husband and wife that a strong family will be established. With a strong family, children will have a normal and good growth environment. "
The relationship between husband and wife is the pillar of the family.
Only when husband and wife respect, understand and care for each other can the family be full of vitality.
Parents give their children the best love, that is, parents love each other, and children who grow up in loving families will never lose their love for the world.
The husband is like a mountain, the wife is like water, the relationship between husband and wife is loving and harmonious, and the family naturally prospers.
When it comes to loving couples, Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang are the most enviable couple.
Their love makes each other feel like a spring breeze, and also leaves warm and beautiful memories for their children's lives.
Once, Qian Zhongshu Jiang Yang took his daughter Qian Yuan to a restaurant for dinner. Jiang Yang found her daughter staring at people at other tables. Jiang Yang gently reminded her daughter: "Don't stare at others all the time, it's impolite."
The daughter said, "Mom and Dad, look, the parents in that family are quarreling, and the parents in that family don't care about each other. It's too poor to be their child. I think the children who are loved by husband and wife are very lucky, so I especially thank you for making me a lucky child. "
Children who grow up in an atmosphere where their parents love each other better know how to love and be loved, and are more willing to give love, love others, love life and love the world.
Families will fail if relatives are not harmonious. Whether a family is harmonious or not, the most important thing is to see whether the relationship between husband and wife is harmonious.