It is best to avoid the three auspicious days in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are all traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, which is full at the beginning of the month, that is, August of the lunar calendar is the most suitable month for weddings.
2. Choose Runnian Runyue
China people attach great importance to the choice of wedding date, and pay great attention to the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. Choose an auspicious day for marriage, preferably in a year with a full moon.
3. The method of choosing the date of marriage
The principle of choosing the date of marriage is based on the date of birth of the bride, and referring to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "When a child is born, a woman is married by the date of marriage". Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in the married marriage and even divorce; On the contrary, it's good luck.
4. Avoid SanNianSha
According to legend, YueLao doesn't lead the red line for SanNian, so that she can't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to fight against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the new couple, so it is not suitable to get married on the third day, seventh day, thirteenth day, eighteenth day, twenty-second day and twenty-seventh day of each month.
5. Real wedding day
If you decide to separate the date of registration from the date of the wedding ceremony, it's best to do it on both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional etiquette of wedding reception and wine setting, because China tradition always regards this day as a real wedding day.
6. Don't choose parents' birthdays
In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not appropriate to get married on the exact day of parents' birthdays, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married in this month.
7. Consider the reality of both parties' work and study
If one party is studying in his spare time, he should avoid the tense review date; If one party is engaged in the major technical research projects of the unit day and night, the other party will wait patiently for a period of time, and then choose "auspicious day" when the good news comes.
8, auspicious day calculation method
Some people think that there should be a stricter calculation method of auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated by the birth date and time of both men and women. However, this practice is quite complicated, and more people would rather go to see the dates chosen by the Huang calendar or listen to the suggestions of people who study Zhouyi.
9. Consider the physical condition of both parties
If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange a marriage, but to make a diagnosis and treatment in time and make a consultation after recovering. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of new life and easily aggravate the physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. When choosing "auspicious day", the man should pay special attention to the opinions of the woman.
1. Considering the reality of both families
When choosing "auspicious day", it is necessary to take into account that both elderly people and relatives and friends have time to attend and can witness the festive and harmonious scene.
11. Definition of a good day
In any case, the definition of a "good day" is always different. No matter what day you choose, try to choose those days that are satisfactory to everyone.
12. unify the wedding date and holidays
if the wedding date and holidays are unified, it may be wise. The advantages of doing so are: memorable; Newly married people put on festive costumes to add interest; Relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, and the atmosphere is warm, and it is economical and festive to entertain relatives and friends and celebrate the holidays at home. However, there are many newcomers who get married during the holidays, so remind you to book hotels and motorcades in advance.