I just read an article, and there was a passage that was very good.
"There is a saying that the father's pattern and the mother's emotions determine the feng shui of a family.
If the father's pattern is small, the mother's emotions will inevitably occur countless times Collapse, leading to misfortune for the entire family.
In a family that loves its children, the father must first love the mother, instead of bossing around the mother all day long. ”
Two days ago, There are reports online that a stay-at-home mother jumped off a building with her children because of a dispute between her husband and wife.
There have been several such incidents in the past few years, in which stay-at-home mothers chose to leave with their children because of depression or excessive stress.
They have no right to make life and death choices for their children, but I believe they are even more reluctant to let go of their children, worried that their children will live worse without the protection of their mothers.
Someone once said that home is a group of pigs living happily under the same roof.
Therefore, happiness is very important, that is, emotions and family atmosphere are very important.
No one doesn’t want to live, if he lives happily!
No one doesn’t want to be recognized, if given the chance!
Since we have deprived a stay-at-home mother of the possibility of being recognized in the workplace, can we give her recognition at home?
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Who said that it is easy to take care of two or three children at home? Who said that it is easy to keep the house clean and bright with children? Who said that with children, you can definitely prepare steaming meals for your husband after work? Food?
Life is not easy for most people nowadays. It is not easy for husbands who work, nor is it easy for stay-at-home mothers.
But can’t we all talk nicely and understand each other?
Before you go home and find fault with your wife, think about it: do you dare to quarrel with your boss and leader in such a blazing, face-to-face manner?
Before blaming your husband, you should also consider that it is not easy for him to grovel outside and work hard all day!
A family can only be as stable as a mountain if two people support each other, so both Only by being considerate of the other person and restraining yourself, can the father have a bigger picture and the mother's emotions be more stable, can we give our children a warm home!