1. Don't plan your wedding with other people's intentions. A wedding will bring many people, such as relatives and friends, and some social groups to your side, but more importantly, it will bring two people together and live together. When you plan your own wedding, you should focus on what you want to do, not what others want you to do. Indeed, it is important to consider the feelings of others. Using some symbolic behaviors will please others, but never make a choice that you don't like originally, but just to please others, and don't make arrangements beyond your ability to pay.
Don't invite those irrelevant people. A simple truth is that every additional guest is equivalent to an increase in the wedding budget. If you have a maximum cost (which most people have), increasing the number of people means reducing other expenses. The increase in guests is equivalent to the decrease in the quality of the banquet. Invite people you care about and people who play an important role in your life. On the wedding day, you must want to be surrounded by warm and familiar smiles, not those faces you can't recognize.
The principle of not being late applies not only to the bride and groom, but also to all those who attend the wedding. Try to get your wedding started on time. If you can't start on time, everything will be postponed. There will be some problems in the wedding place, especially after you arrange another wedding here. If you can't start on time because the guest is not here, the waiting time can't exceed 10 minute.
4. Don't be afraid of chaos. Usually the excitement begins on the morning of the wedding, and some minor problems may not be discovered when they appear. If there is a big problem that you can't solve, don't panic, let others solve it for you. You just need to relax, keep smiling and enjoy your day.
Don't be too nervous. Some brides are so immersed in the desire for the wedding that they use sedatives, alcohol and other drugs to calm themselves down.
6. Don't do things that are not important to you. In a traditional wedding, you will find that some secular and traditional things are not important. If you don't want to, you don't need flower girl, or even bridesmaids and groomsmen. If you think some ceremonies are embarrassing, leave them out. There is no law that requires you to follow certain procedures completely. Try to do it in your own way.
7. Don't forget that hunger is a big problem that the bride and groom will face beyond imagination. Do you think skipping breakfast can make you look slim in a wedding dress? No. Breakfast may be your last meal of the day, and you need energy. If you have a bad stomach, try to eat something salty. If you feel uneasy at the beginning of the wedding, I'm afraid you won't have time to eat again. Many newcomers are too busy receiving guests to eat by themselves. Not eating will make people listless, and in severe cases, they may faint. Therefore, you must eat something before the wedding and try to eat at the banquet.
8. Don't spend too much time receiving individual travelers. It may be difficult, but you should try to receive every guest in as little time as possible. On your wedding day, there are many things you must do, such as toasting and cutting cakes. If you spend a lot of time receiving guests, your time doing these things will be delayed, and you can finally spend some time greeting your friends.
Don't let the guests get drunk. There is no need for the police to maintain order, but the waiter must be reminded of the safety of the guests. Meanwhile, ask your best man to keep an eye on every guest.
10. Don't forget what happened. The wedding will be over soon. Months of arrangements will be reflected on this day. Guests will appreciate your wedding dress and flowers and enjoy the sumptuous banquet you prepared for them. But in the end, everything is just a party. A wedding is more important: it ties two people together and lives together. Try to remember one or two important moments in this busy day. Find the smiling face of your bride or groom in the crowd, so that you can regain this beautiful memory in the future.