Dressing, dressing up and dressing up are all synonymous with fashion nowadays. Because we have been influenced by foreign cultures for many years, we face these three things with a bold and free mind, and think that this is correct, so all kinds of unconventional, all kinds of refurbished patterns and all kinds of so-called trends have become the directions and goals that people are scrambling to pursue.
but is this really correct? Has anyone ever doubted it? I believe that everyone has wondered why the once outdated costumes will regenerate the trend. Why the confusion without rationality and aesthetics is called mashup. In essence, clothes are nothing more than two functions: keeping out the cold and being ashamed. As for the pursuit of materials, styles and patterns, they are all signs of material and civilization progress, but when this pursuit reaches the extreme, it reflects the connotation of civilization itself.
This is what I want to tell you today. In fact, before the pursuit of the western trend reached its extreme, China culture had already reached a higher realm of humanistic pursuit. This is something that the chaotic freedom of the west can never reach.
In the traditional culture of China, what you need is not good-looking, fancy or novelty, but appropriateness. What does this appropriateness mean? Appropriateness is to express your identity, status and pursuit of life from the outside. If this expression is casual, it will lead to disobedience and even disaster. This expression conforms to your real situation and will make you recognized and even respected.
Many modern people can't understand this point. Why can't they wear what they like? Why can't they wear anything freely? It seems that they feel an invisible bondage and oppression. But if you regard clothes and appearance as a kind of mascot that can bring you luck, will you not feel so capricious immediately? For example, your constellation mascot is crystal, no matter how much you like garnet, you can only give up garnet and bring crystal for the sake of luck. What everyone doesn't know, however, is that the role of clothing is far more than 1 times that of any so-called mascot.
What style, what color, what pattern and what accessories you choose are all caused by your sexual interest, and the source is your tendency expression, and this tendency is influenced by your current reality, changes in your fortune and changes in your environment. Simply speaking, it is influenced by your fate. Therefore, people sometimes find that the clothing taste that they liked five years ago has undergone major changes five years later, which is transshipment.
However, the clothes you wear outside, and your appearance, have an external influence on two aspects. First, the social crowd's intuitive understanding of you, which is often accompanied by opportunities through these external expressions. Knowing that you are a stable and reliable person, there will be some opportunity information to tell you, knowing that you are frivolous and cunning, so I don't explain to you in many cases, and then because you often express this kind of information, there are many fewer opportunities.
This has a second kind of influence, that is, the internal influence on yourself. Because of your frivolous expression, all the frivolous people gathered later, then your emotions and wealth will be devastated. The reason is very simple. You are surrounded by such people, and all of them have this kind of influence.
Some time ago, I met a female classmate at a party, divorced in middle age, and her clothes were not very conservative, and the color was brighter than that of young girls. In fact, everyone knows how she expressed her feelings. She is more eager to get the attention of the opposite sex, and this goal can of course be achieved, but the problem is that she is more eager to pay attention to the opposite sex who can give her a stable emotional life, which is troublesome. To put it bluntly, she dresses like a girl. To be sure, if she continues to express herself like this, it will be difficult to have a really good emotional life.
Similarly, we use the popular mashup as an example. When a person likes and pursues the so-called mashup style, what kind of feeling will it give people, whether men or women? Four words, I don't know what you want to express, I don't know what you want, I don't know what you will do, and what you will do in the next second. No one can speculate, so there are too many possibilities, so chaos arises, career can't be trusted, suspicion will appear emotionally, and then poverty will come unexpectedly. Don't think this is very serious. In reality, if you meet a man and a woman in a mix and match, and always flaunt and show it off, it will be as late as three months and half a year, and your emotions and wealth will be damaged to varying degrees. Then all that remains is to complain about your bad luck and scratch your scalp to find a solution.
For example, you can observe some families around you that attach importance to tradition and education. Their children are absolutely not allowed to wear sexy and erotic clothes, or they are very weird. This has been the case since childhood. The colors and colors of clothes tend to be dominated by plain colors, and their descendants often have different degrees of success. In some families where upstarts suddenly started their businesses and suddenly gained power, their children often dress out of line, and then all of them succeed or fail.
People especially like colourful colors from movies and TV shows, including going out to see foreign countries. They feel so energetic. They feel that it is modern, fashionable and free, but it is so ignorant and simple. Only those who are empty inside desperately need to highlight the outside to fill it, which has nothing to do with how much material wealth they have. Because when a person has enough cultivation and virtue, it is a quick achievement to create material, but when cultivation and virtue are insufficient, it is also a quick thing to consume material.
This theory doesn't mean that people can't try new things. It just means that you shouldn't blindly follow the so-called trend. Don't let others think it's trendy, so you have to follow the trend. This blind obedience will only make you a victim of related junk culture, so behind the hippie culture is a victim of a lot of drug abuse and crime, and behind the mashup culture is a victim of a lot of broken industries and discredited.