People's judgment depends on whether to pursue heat and profit or blindly follow the crowd. Because the goal is too scattered and the confidence is insufficient, it will inevitably lead to indecision. A person's most important ability is judgment. Correct judgment determines a person's fate. What does that man's judgment depend on?
People's judgment depends on 1 the strength of judgment and the confidence in self-choice.
Legend has it that in the past, immortals were stationed in the mountains for the sake of quietness and nature, so there is an unwritten rule that if an immortal Taoist lives in the mountains, other practitioners should not go into the mountains to interfere with others' cultivation, so they can only choose another good place.
A long time ago, an immortal Taoist named Liu Fu first set foot on Qushan, the main peak of Maoshan Mountain. Liu Fu, an official, was tired of the intrigue of officialdom and decided to travel far from home. At sunrise and at sunset, Liu Fu practiced in the main peak of Juqu Mountain, and his kung fu improved day by day, making him a fortuneteller.
One day, the sky was clear and the mountains and water in the distance were clear at a glance. Suddenly, in the east of Qufeng, there is a mountain full of auspicious spirit and purple fog. Liu Fu thought, "This mountain view is just a song. Why not go there and be influenced by that kind of gas field? " Jiulishan is really good. Liu Fu abandoned his punishment and went to this temple. His Taoism is changing with each passing day.
One night, after practicing, he looked at the main peak of Ququ and whispered, "The top of Ququ Mountain is the real treasure house of Feng Shui, which is many times stronger than the gas field of Jiulishan!" That is, back to the sentence. Unfortunately, it's too late. Mao Ying, a real Taiyuan native, went to Jiangdong to choose the champion and took a fancy to the mountain field vacated by Liu Fu. Liu Fu quickly turned and walked nine miles, but the nine miles were occupied by barefoot fairies.
Liu Fu, a barefoot fairy, said, "Qufang is the place where you cultivate immortality. You should go back there to cultivate immortality." Liu Fu had to return to the foot of Ququ Mountain. Zhen Taiyuan said to Liu Fu, "You wandered for nine miles between Maoshan and back and forth. Didn't you catch Maoshan and lose nine miles? " I will never forget it! "
Taiyuan real people invited Liu Fu to practice halfway up the mountain. Soon, Liu Fu was awarded the title of "Fairy Road" and was named Qushan God. Now the mantra of local critics in Maoshan is "drive Maoshan away and lose nine miles". Indeed, "this mountain looks at the height of that mountain", and you can make a positive result by changing your thinking.
People with different thinking lack judgment, and are at a loss in the face of right and wrong, truth and falsehood, conduct, advance and retreat, and don't know whether to do it or not; Or change jobs frequently, or face a series of opportunities, but choose the best opportunity.
Judgment is also a choice. We can get as much information as possible from newspapers, radios, the Internet and gossip. With so much information, it is not enough for you to distinguish the differences, but also to choose. In our era of information surplus, only by scientifically processing the screened information can we provide a reliable basis for market decision-making.
In the 1970s, informed Americans, from the information of a large volcanic eruption in Mexico, keenly judged that "a large amount of volcanic ash will inevitably lead to abnormal climate and reduced grain production". Rand Company asked the US government to make a decision to reduce grain production, and as a result, it dealt a heavy blow to its opponent, the Soviet Union, which is also a big grain importer in the global food price rise.
Judgment is self-confidence. Believe in your choice, you can reach your goal directly in one step and reach the best state of market positioning, economic regulation and industrial decision-making. If you are short-sighted, eager for quick success, or blindly follow the crowd, your goals are too scattered and your confidence is insufficient, which will inevitably lead to indecision.
Therefore, our judgment depends on our choice. Only when you are confident enough in your choice can you be unwavering and indecisive, and you can unswervingly follow your own judgment and succeed.
One person's judgment depends on two people's lives. Judgment is very important.
Anyone who is young and brainwashed by many people in society is all rubbish. Some people may say that making money is not the most important thing, and there are still many pursuits in life, including some social culture and TV dramas. They often talk about it, and making money is not the most important thing. People should be content, and you are too poor to eat. What are you happy about? Money is not the first, there will be other pursuits. Money represents your ability and strength, your ability to give your safety to your parents, and your reproductive ability. Do you have the capital to buy a house, get married and have children?
Everyone must realize that in this society, without money, it is absolutely impossible for money to play a role. Those who talk about these unimportant things are fooling your brain and making you unconscious. How can you live well without a clear head? You must have the ability to distinguish between independence and independent thinking, which is very rare. This is why most people are poor. I often tell you that in this world, smart people rule over stupid people. If you figure it out, you can fuck people who are not awake. It's that simple. It is the same for us to make money. You choose an industry, a project, and at a certain point, you will collect all kinds of information and competitors. Books, videos, recordings and cases. From ancient times to the present, you can make money by thoroughly understanding it and then selling it in the market.
Make money through who? It must be earned by people, so I have always stressed that studying human nature can make money, and studying human nature means withdrawing money. Thorough research is an ATM.
Every time people spell it, it is your choice, that is, your judgment is strong enough. For example, if you join our boss community, you have to judge whether thousands of dollars are worth it. You may think you are priceless, but if you don't, you will buy food and clothes. This is judgment. The same is true when we choose projects. Whether the project you choose can make money depends on your judgment, so the judgment of a person's life is the most important.
Man's judgment depends on 3. Judgment is a person's greatest gift.
I have read such a ridiculous and thought-provoking story.
Once upon a time, there was a farmer who took a donkey to the market in the town.
On the way, he suddenly wanted to be "convenient", so he tied the donkey to a tree at will and went to the nearby Woods to relieve himself.
I never imagined that when he came back, the goods on the donkey's back were gone.
Just when he was depressed, a man came over and told him that the thief had gone east, so he could watch the donkey for him and let him catch up quickly.
Without thinking, the farmer began to run east.
Soon, the farmer came back empty-handed. Not only did he not catch up with the thief, but he also found that the donkey tied to the tree was missing.
This made him very worried. He didn't know what to say to his wife when he got home, so he sat on the ground and began to cry.
At this time, another man came up to him and said that there was a lot of gold at the bottom of the pond next to him. As long as he fished it out, he could buy new goods and donkeys.
After listening to this, he didn't even think about it. He took off his clothes without hesitation and jumped into the water.
But no matter how he looked, he couldn't find the gold.
When he swam ashore slightly tired and soaked to the skin, he found that even his clothes were gone.
Blindness for a time, coupled with trusting others, lost the goods that were originally used to replace money and put on their own donkeys and clothes.
It can be said that it is both embarrassing and funny. This farmer is very much like those adults around him who have no judgment and have turned his life into someone else's home.
In this life, the most indispensable ability is judgment. With it, life will not go astray.
1, it takes judgment to deal with people.
In the movie Infectious Diseases, an unknown new deadly virus swept the world in a few days.
The death toll has risen sharply, the situation is complicated and severe, and people are in endless panic.
At this time, Allen, an online blogger with 6.5438+0.2 million fans, posted a video online and lied that he was infected.
In the video, he said that he was very uncomfortable and his body temperature was as high as 38 degrees.
He lied that drinking forsythia tablets would help him get sick. In order to make everyone believe him, he drank it in front of the camera, saying that if he didn't die tomorrow, it would mean that the forsythia tablets worked.
The next day, Alan really lived.
For a time, in order to survive, people who watched the video rushed to major pharmacies without thinking, and queued up to buy forsythia tablets overnight.
Loren, a colleague of blogger Allen, couldn't tell the authenticity of the video content even after watching it, so he believed it and rushed to the pharmacy to queue up for purchase.
The people in the queue learned that the sale of forsythia tablets was restricted, and they were all anxious and rushed in.
Someone even picked up a chair and smashed the window of the pharmacy, and went forward to grab it.
I never thought that in the process of looting, originally healthy people were infected because they didn't wear masks.
So is Roland.
When she was infected, she didn't want to go to the hospital for treatment, nor did she question Allen's words.
But dragged the sick body everywhere looking for forsythia tablets.
As a result, he died while looking for forsythia tablets.
Sadly, Loren didn't know that Allen was not infected with the virus until his death.
In the event of an accident, complete loss of judgment will only make people like headless flies, unable to find the exit in front of them in a panic and at a loss.
There is a saying in the movie The Godfather:
"People who see the essence in one second and those who can't see the essence of a thing for half their lives are doomed to different fates."
Everything has two sides, and what you see and hear is not necessarily true.
A choice without judgment, like a straw caught by the Six Gods, cannot protect itself after all.
Life is a long road. Whether you are a man or a worker, you need to make a judgment first, and then take the next step, so that you won't regret it afterwards.
2, have judgment, can take the road under your feet.
Recently, Zhang Hanyu, a tough guy, became popular on the Internet because of the release of the movie Chinese Doctors.
Looking back on his life experience carefully, it is not difficult to find that his achievements today are inseparable from his correct analysis and judgment of himself at every stage of his life.
He was born in a traditional family in the compound of Beijing Military Region. His father has always believed that only by learning math and physics well can he travel all over the world.
In order to make him have a good future, he is forced to do all kinds of math problems, hoping that he can become a mathematician.
But Zhang Hanyu knew that he was not interested in mathematics, and he didn't follow the path chosen by his father.
When he was in junior high school, he loved dubbing. With his own efforts and strength, he got the audition opportunity of CCTV transliteration group and was praised by the director again and again for his excellent work.
After graduating from college, he did not forget to dub.
But many years later, he found that people in the dubbing industry no longer perfunctory, but could reduce the work content, so he chose to muddle along. He suddenly felt that being a voice actor meant nothing to his life.
After that, he resigned to study abroad regardless of the eyes of people around him.
Abroad, he made friends in international trade.
After in-depth investigation, Zhang Hanyu found that American trucks had a good market in China, and then he introduced them to China and made a lot of money.
Although he walks in business with clothes and shoes every day, his pockets are getting richer and richer.
But he always had an actor's dream in his heart, and combined with his judgment on the development of domestic film and television industry, he chose to come back from abroad and enter the film and television circle.
At first, he acted as a walk-on in Xiaogang Feng's films, playing some small roles that didn't even have names.
In the past seven years, he has achieved nothing and no one knows him. Many people around him advised him to go the other way.
But he didn't listen, but settled down to analyze the reasons for his poor performance and continued to improve his acting skills.
He knows the present situation only because his own strength is still slightly insufficient. He believes that if his acting skills are good, he will be discovered.
Soon after, he finally ushered in his own spring. With the help of Gu in the movie Assembly, he won five emperors in a row and became popular overnight.
Seneca once said:
"Happy people usually have good judgment."
People with judgment seldom worry about their future.
Because they will plan ahead, they will not go all the way to the dark, they will not drift with the tide and lose themselves.
When they encounter something, they will press the pause button first, adjust their strategies according to their actual situation, and find the best way to move on.
The stronger a person's judgment, the better off he will be.
3. A truly mature person needs judgment.
I once saw such a hot topic on the Internet: "What kind of abilities do mature people generally have?"
Among all the answers, "judgment" appears the most frequently.
Praise replied:
"When mature people encounter problems, they don't escape, but analyze first and then make a decision."
In Who Stole My Cheese, the dwarfs Hem and Haw spend every day in the maze, looking for cheese to satisfy their hunger.
One day, they found a place where they could eat cheese for life.
Since then, they go there to eat cheese every day and live a very comfortable life.
However, one day they suddenly found that all the cheese disappeared overnight.
However, they did not immediately think about the reasons for the disappearance of cheese, nor did they look for new cheese, but complained about others.
At first, they cried in the same place hungry every day, cursing the people who stole their cheese and waiting for the cheese to come back on its own.
After waiting for a while, Haw began to calm down and began to think about why the cheese was gone.
After carefully observing the scene, he found that the cheese did not disappear overnight, but disappeared bit by bit.
And he found that cheese would never come back, and he would only starve to death if he waited, so he took action to find new cheese.
Many things happen. After analyzing the terrain of the maze, he finally found a new place to hide cheese.
Hum, who doesn't want to find a way, still hungry waiting for cheese to come back.
Come to think of it carefully, isn't hem and haw the person who will find a way out when something happens in reality?
A truly mature person can always take the initiative to analyze the situation, find solutions and face life problems calmly when encountering things.
Because they know that sitting still will never solve the problem or get out of the predicament, and they will only leave themselves in a passive and helpless situation.
As psychologist Pan Wei said:
"People living in the world are like a ship sailing in the sea. The most important thing is to find the right direction. "
A truly mature person, with judgment, can distinguish the situation and make the most suitable choice on the ever-changing road of life.
There is a "herd effect" in psychology.
It means that in the flock, as long as one sheep runs in front, other sheep will follow without thinking.
People who have no judgment, like the flock of sheep following behind, rush forward without knowing the situation ahead, often putting themselves in a dilemma.
However, doing the following three things well will help you embark on the most suitable road at the uncertain fork in the future.
Keep your mind stable.
On June 5438+1October 65438+May 2009, American Airlines 1549 took off from new york.
During the flight, due to the sudden attack by geese, the engines on both sides were damaged and the plane quickly lost power.
The airport control tower asked the captain Sally to make a forced landing at a nearby airport, but the captain calmly analyzed and found that it was too late.
At the critical moment, he chose to land on the Hudson River. Because of this move, the crew on board was finally miraculously rescued.
Walking in the world, it is normal to encounter difficulties and be at a loss.
But whether things can be solved smoothly often depends on our mood and mentality.
Only by letting the emotions calm down first can the mentality be stable, and we can spare no effort to analyze the problems and find the best solution.
According to the existing experience
Books are seldom hated when used, and so is experience.
If you want to reduce failure, you must learn to accumulate experience.
Because experience is gradually accumulated in the tears we have shed, the injuries we have suffered, the losses we have suffered and the pains we have tasted.
It is helpful for us to rationally judge the current predicament and find a way out.
During the Wenchuan earthquake in 2008, a famous host in China called "condolence telegram" as "congratulatory telegram" in the live news broadcast, because of a slip of the tongue.
When he found this mistake, he could only try to make it up in his mind at once. Finally, he relied on his rich hosting experience to minimize the impact.
Afterwards, he also analyzed the cause of the mistake over and over again, and seriously replied to avoid the recurrence of the mistake.
Lao She once said:
"Experience is the fertilizer of life. What kind of experience will make you a person, and peony can't be raised in the desert. "
If you want to judge things more accurately, you must constantly accumulate experience.
After all, the more experience a person has, the less detours he takes.
Have confidence in yourself and your judgment based on mature experience.
In 2003, during the SARS period, the expert group of China Center for Disease Control and Prevention came to the conclusion that the main pathogen of this epidemic disease was chlamydia.
But after analysis and comparison, Zhong Nanshan found that it was caused by virus infection, so he questioned it.
At first, his conclusion was not accepted.
However, at his insistence, the Guangdong Provincial Health Department agreed with him after careful study.
In life, Zhong Nanshan is convinced of his own judgment after careful consideration, which is also a very valuable quality.
Many times, we would rather trust other people's conclusions than our own judgments.
In fact, we have accumulated a lot of experience in groping, and we can make correct judgments based on experience.
Emerson once said:
"Everything in the world has its own value, and we must also believe in our own strength and value."
Therefore, once a choice is made, it must be firmly maintained.
You should believe in your choice and have confidence in your choice.
Liu Tong, a writer, has a right saying: "What floats on the water is scenery, and what sinks is because of the answer."
In this world, many things are far less clear than we seem, and we need to distinguish them.
In fact, after a certain age, you will find that in this world, those who keep calm and keep up with uncertainty are indispensable for firm judgment.
They don't listen to other people's advice, even if there is a storm ahead, they have their own destiny in their hearts.