My friend said that since I gave birth to a child, I have changed a lot, directly from the heart of a beautiful girl to the heart of an old mother. It's all about children, in my heart forever. Although, after having children, the biggest change is definitely a woman. However, it is commendable that a man can change after becoming a father, which shows that he really loves this family.
From "Rough Man" to "Child Slave"
A mother said that my husband turned out to be a rough man and he was also anticlimactic. After the child was born, her husband became very delicate and always liked to stay at home with the child, completely becoming a child slave. It turns out that he always likes to play ball with friends and do some sports by himself. However, since I have children, I am particularly willing to play with them. Sometimes when taking children out, you need to prepare something for them. He is more meticulous than me. A man can be so fond of his children and so considerate to his wife, which shows that he really loves this family.
"Hero" outside, "be an ox and horse" at home.
Another mother said that my husband has a good face outside, especially at the dinner table. He never refuses to fall behind others, and he is lively and laughs like a hero. Before giving birth to children, my husband was still a little male chauvinist. He doesn't do much housework and has to take charge of his own life all day. After having a child, in order to make the child happy, he always makes the child happy with his body and does some strange actions. Now the child is almost 4 years old, and he especially likes his father. He often asks his father to come down and ride on him. He really treats his husband like a horse, but he is still very happy. If a man, like a woman, is soft-hearted because of his children and treats his children and family gently, it shows that he really loves this family.
From sleeping as a "dead pig" at night to waking up at the touch.
According to friends, my husband and I haven't slept well at night since we had children. Children always wake up crying at night. Before giving birth to children, my husband especially likes to sleep late. One night when it thundered, all the branches outside the door were broken, which was very scary. As a result, when I saw my husband, he still slept soundly. Oddly enough, the next day he went out and saw the broken branches on the ground, so he asked what was going on. I told him it thundered at night, but he still looked confused. Since the baby was born, he and I have taken turns to take care of the baby at night. Although he is still sleepy, as long as I touch him gently, he will get up and look after the children at once. After having a child, if a man keeps the child in his heart, he will definitely not sleep well at night.
If the husband at home gets rid of many previous habits after the birth of the child and always thinks about the child, it shows that he is really a good husband and father and he really loves his family. If a woman has such a husband, she is really lucky and blessed.