And wear festive and eye-catching clothes when toasting.
Finally, I hope you can think about it yourself. If your temperament can move this dress, put it on and make yourself more radiant. If your aura is not strong enough, try not to wear it.
Another thing to consider is that if your husband and family have no problem with this, you can choose this. If people don't want to, they don't have to hurt their feelings for a dress.
In short, there is no such concern as you are worried about! Don't scare yourself.