If life is compared to a chess game, then when a person reaches the age of retirement, the chess game is about to come to an end. Whether you win or lose actually depends on your own chess skills.
Some people have superb chess skills and easily won the second half of the game, while some people trapped themselves in a cocoon and lost all the games in a short time.
In fact, when people grow old, whether they live happily or unhappily depends on their own choices. For everyone, after retirement, they must not show off these things casually to avoid getting into trouble.
Some people had more respectable jobs before retiring, and their status was relatively prominent. Therefore, after retirement, they inevitably cannot change their status for a while, and they still talk and act as before, always hinting at themselves in their words. Status and behavior always imply past glory.
They think that others will respect them in this way, but they do not know that this is the easiest way to be criticized.
A smart retired person should learn to be humble and do things in a low-key manner. Just like Nan Jianlong in "Little Shed", he has tried not to use relationships to solve problems since his retirement. When there is really no other way, he will humbly go to the subordinates who have been suppressed by him to plead for mercy.
When people get old, they must understand the reality of "thirty years to the east of Hedong, thirty years to the west of Hexi" and accept the ending of people leaving.
Blindly talking about status will not only fail to bring respect to oneself, but may also arouse the annoyance of others, who will criticize it. After retirement, if you want to live a peaceful life, you must learn to let go of the past.
After retirement, life suddenly changes from stressful and busy to leisurely and comfortable. Therefore, many people inevitably have nothing to do and only chat with neighbors and friends to relieve their boredom. But the choice of chat content is also a big question.
Some people just love to show off their children. As a result, over time, everyone becomes disgusted with them, and no one wants to associate with them anymore.
In the TV series "Heart Residence", the eldest aunt likes to show off very much. She tells how outstanding her son is and how prominent her family's status is. When the family gathers for dinner, most of the time they are not communicating emotionally, but listening to her nagging. Sometimes even the children can't listen anymore, but she still refuses to give up.
The whole family has a bad opinion of the eldest aunt, so no one is really willing to associate with her. After retirement, it is sad to live like this, and it is even more lonely. The rest of your life will be long and you will not have many friends left.
Life is a lonely journey, so everyone cherishes the time spent with friends, and some people also like to hang out in various wine and dinner parties just to make friends in order to do business. Then one or two important people so that they can be of some help in their work.
It is not an exaggeration to say that this kind of thing happens when you are still young, but if you still like to show off your connections when you are old, you will inevitably be laughed at.
No one likes a person who loves to brag and show off, especially those who show off who they know and what great people they know and what wonderful memories they have, which is more likely to make people feel boring.
There is a saying that goes well:
"Perhaps Ryoma Sakamoto is great, but the people who admire or know Ryoma Sakamoto are equally great."
People When getting along with others, the reason why someone is willing to listen to you and interact with you is simply because you are attractive to them. It is not because you know some great people, so they become friends with you.
Moreover, after retirement, you have been far away from the battlefield. The generals and comrades you met at that time may no longer remember you. If you are still used to showing off them, it will inevitably make people laugh when one day the matter is revealed. .
Retirement is another critical moment in life. Whether you will be happy in your later years depends entirely on your habits and choices after retirement.
Therefore, when you reach the age of retirement, please learn to do subtraction, stop indulging in unnecessary showing off, love life, care about the specific people around you, and don’t try to win respect through vanity. , when people get along with others, the most important thing at any time is to treat others heart-to-heart and treat others sincerely.
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