To sum up, you will find that the three topics that women care most about and care most about are actually gossip, geomantic metaphysics and its poems and distance. Never be self-righteous when dealing with women. You should look at the problem from a woman's point of view, say topics that she is interested in and sentences that she finds interesting, so that she can talk to you again. If she obviously likes stars and handicrafts, but you talk to her all day about football team and politics, it will definitely arouse her disgust, and more times may black you.
Chapter0 1 Boys should never talk to women at the beginning, such as too much work pressure, too little money, and how about their boss and friends.
If women think you are the boss and want to take care of it, that's fine. If she doesn't answer, it's impolite. If she answers, she will feel uncomfortable.
Therefore, men should have a little discretion, and don't forget to keep their position at any time. The first time I met a woman who didn't know what to talk to her, I talked to her about entertainment gossip.
Whether it's a high-ranking entertainment star or an anecdote about seven aunts and eight aunts around you, you can choose a few stories that you think the other person is likely to want to hear and tell her. I believe that all the chat atmosphere will be relaxed and happy, and there will be no embarrassment.
In fact, in the final analysis, both women and boys like to talk about some light topics. Think about it, in a beautiful coffee shop. The girl opposite just laughed and didn't answer. In fact, she scolded you badly in her heart and decided to delete you when she got home. Perhaps, it is not so disobedient to talk about topics in the coffee shop, so if you switch the scene to the children's playground.
You go to the Ferris wheel with the woman you have a crush on. When you reached the top of the Ferris wheel, she was a little worried and stared at you helplessly. But you don't know the world, and you actually start to do stress analysis on the aerial cable car, trying to express that the aerial cable car is strong and not easy to break. She has no choice but to look into your eyes with some gloomy emotions.
As we all know, it is very important to chat with women and discuss topics. You need to try to get to know a woman and talk about something she is interested in, not what you want to talk about. In fact, what he wants to say is not necessarily wrong, but when you get along with women, if you don't consider each other's feelings, then your opposite sex will not be good.
Chapter 03 Boys can't chat, but it's not good to say the wrong thing and talk about the wrong topic. You said that as long as you talk about the emotional rumors about the Ferris wheel, your hug and kiss will be improper the next second. Therefore, when boys really don't know what to talk about with girls, they try to pull the problem to a relaxed aspect.
You'd better say something innocuous and entertaining, just to make each other happy, instead of expressing opinions and talking about some serious topics. Girls love gossip and talk about the topic of geomantic metaphysics, such as the geomantic omen of the twelve constellations. We often say that a woman's imagination is extremely rich and varied.
In the final analysis, this is actually because women always have some brain holes. They like to imagine what is happening in another world and another space. We call it whitewashing. So they are afraid of ghosts and gods, but they like to discuss them. If a man and a woman talk about this superstitious activity, she must be willing to listen.
The matter of geomantic metaphysics is full of people's whimsy, strangeness, suspense reasoning, or horror. These elements that make people feel scared when they listen together are inevitably curious.
Chapter 04 Women have always been good at screening out the information content they need from the chaotic information flow advertisements, and for the vast majority of them, geomantic metaphysics and some data that cannot be scientifically and reasonably explained are what they need most.
So, if a boy wants to follow the trend and quickly walk into a woman's heart, then you can talk to her about this mysterious anecdote. Naturally, in addition to entertaining gossip and the secrets of geomantic metaphysics, women also like men to chat with her about poems and distant places, such as talking about children's "need to have the simplest life and the farthest dream, even if the cold wind blows tomorrow, the mountain is high and the road is far, and the road is long." Another example is Gu Cheng's "The grass is sowing, the wind is shaking the leaves, everyone is standing, and it is beautiful not to talk". In a word, as far away from our daily life as possible.
Women generally don't like to talk about your sadness and pain. After all, that's what they have to face day after day. They like to discuss these things that are far away from them, and there are still many unfulfilled ideals in their hearts. Therefore, men can also talk to women about the beautiful secrets of utopia.
In fact, girls' minds are easy to understand, and the topic of female sexy interest is also obvious. You can only talk to her about philosophy, the future and topics you are interested in, which will make her feel bored and make up your mind to stay away from you in the future. But if you have been chatting with a woman, you can tell her exactly what she is interested in, which will not only stimulate her desire to chat, but also let her see your interesting side and lay a good foundation for the next chat. Why not?
Talking with a woman about gossip, geomantic metaphysics and its poems and distant places can quickly enter her heart. Language is an art, and the topic of chatting is also a topic that men need to explore with heart. Why do some men always make women happy with a few words, while some men get bored with women as soon as they open their mouths? In short, it is the difference between being able to chat and not being good at words. Small talk plays a key role in getting into a woman's heart quickly, so don't ignore it.