Chen Sicheng’s cheating incident has shocked the Chinese circle of friends. From Lin Dan being photographed cheating on his wife during pregnancy to Chen Sicheng being photographed suspected of cheating, from the previous female reporter jumping to her death because of her fiancé's cheating to the 31-year-old woman who committed suicide with her two children by jumping off the building which has been popular in the circle of friends these days. The frequent occurrence of infidelity has made many people panic and fear about love and marriage. It even made many netizens say sadly: They no longer believe in love. But in fact, there are still true love and long-lasting marriages in this world, such as the two below.
World Chinese Weekly special writer: Teresa Teng
This couple is Anita Yuen and Cheung Chi-lin, who are now known as the model couple in the entertainment industry.
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The two have participated in mainland variety shows in the past two years. During the show, their sweet love made many singles lose their temper if they were not careful. Dog food. The minute-by-minute show of affection made the singles so miserable that they couldn't help shouting: Have you really considered the feelings of us singles?
The two met in 1993 when they co-produced a Hong Kong TV series "Border Town Prodigal Son" in Beijing.
Stills of "Border Town Prodigal Son"
At this time, Liang Liang was already a well-known star in Hong Kong. In 1990, 19-year-old Anita Yuen won the title of Miss Hong Kong and Miss Photogenic with her youthful and beautiful image. Because her image is so youthful and beautiful, she is called "beautiful".
In 1993, she won the Academy Award for Best Actress for her wonderful performance in "Golden Leaves". It can be said that your career is booming in Hong Kong. And what about Julian Cheung? At that time, he was just a singer and actor who had just debuted. There is a huge gap in status and reputation between the two. However, the day-to-day cooperation made Anita Yuen even more fond of the sunny and handsome Julian Cheung.
Stills of "Golden Leaves"
Anita Yuen has a straightforward personality. After filming, she took the initiative to ask Julian Cheung to have hot pot. After the filming was completed, when she said goodbye at the airport, she held Julian Cheung's hand and hugged her. Reluctant to give up. As for Zhang Zhilin, he also has a good impression of the beautiful girl with pure and beautiful appearance and straightforward personality. But when Liangliang told her friends that she wanted to date Julian Cheung, they all unanimously and firmly opposed her. The reason is that there is a huge gap between the man's status, fame and beauty. And it is said that he is a playboy with constant scandals. But Anita Yuan Anita Yuan thought to herself: "If he is as carefree as others say, how can he be so polite to me? If he just wants to play games with me, why is he so patient? I should give him a chance, and also give myself a chance. ." So the two began a private romance. Because Anita Yuen invited Julian Cheung to dinner first, the media always said that Anita Yuen was the one who took the initiative to pursue Julian Cheung. But Julian Cheung himself said that was not the case. In fact, as early as when he was filming at TVB, he often found reasons to hang out at the TV station. In fact, he had only one real purpose, which was to get one more look at the pretty girls. He was already very impressed by her at that time.
But friends are not optimistic about this relationship, because everyone who is familiar with Liangliang knows that she is famous for being straightforward and has a hot temper. She will say whatever she wants and cannot hide it in her heart. talk. If you hate someone, it will definitely show on their face. And what about Julian Cheung? But he is a notoriously slow person. He takes his time in everything. He has a very easy-going personality and can talk to anyone. How far can two people with completely different personalities go together?
However, such a love that was not favored by the outside world has gone away for more than 20 years.
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In 1994, Anita Yuen chose to publicly sing a song "Love Preview" with Julian Cheung on stage to reveal their underground relationship. At this time, Anita Yuen was already an A-list actress who had won the Academy Award for Best Actress twice in a row, and her career was booming. And Julian Cheung is still an ordinary singer and actor. Anita Yuen would not know how much impact announcing her relationship would have on her career at this time. However, Anita Yuen still chose love when it came to love and career.
As soon as the relationship was announced, the media was in an uproar. The media even used the title of actress accessory to describe Julian Cheung. Almost everyone is not optimistic about their relationship: one is a newly released two-time Best Actress, and the other is just an ordinary artist. Such a huge disparity in status and identity makes this relationship look very unequal. Almost everyone feels that these two people will not go too far. But at that time, Julian Cheung said: Please wait and see, one day, if Anita Yuen quits, Julian Cheung's name can still make all the difference.
But it is such a relationship that has not been favored by the outside world for a long time. The two of them insisted on walking down.
But after being in a relationship for a long time, a girl must want to stabilize. Anita Yuen really wanted to get married, but she was too reserved to propose. Once she couldn't bear it any longer and asked Zhang Zhilin: Why don't you propose to me after we have been together for so long? Zhang Zhilin was silent for a while and said the reason: I feel that my current abilities are not enough to support the lives of the two of us. Just wait, wait for my career to improve a little bit. Anita Yuan couldn't help being moved to tears: It turns out that the man in front of me has really made plans for our future lives. That's enough.
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In 2000, the TVB drama "Moonlight on the Fifth of October" starring Julian Cheung and Sheh Siman received good ratings and was widely praised. And Julian Cheung is also well-known in Hong Kong with his characters in the play. Ushered in the first small peak of my career.
Stills of "Moonlight on the Fifth of October"
The acting career began to develop smoothly. But at the same time, because of their cooperation in filming, the scandal between him and the heroine She Siman also spread widely. It also reached the pretty ears. Liangliang knows her boyfriend's character very well. In the past, every time there was a scandal, she would help Zhang Zhilin clarify it. However, this time the scandal became more and more serious, as if it had become true. Liangliang failed to remain calm and rational as before, and even couldn't help but yell at the rumored heroine during an interview with a TV station. Liangliang couldn't help but question Zhang Zhilin in private. Faced with Liangliang's question, Zhang Zhilin asked her: Are you an actor too? Do you believe that the media is making false claims? Liang Liang was speechless for a moment. But after thinking for a while, she finally found the key reason why Julian Cheung spread scandals: Julian Cheung is very easy-going by nature and can talk to anyone. He also likes to care about people, and both male and female friends like to make each other happy. This kind of character has both advantages and disadvantages. The advantage is that you will have more friends. The disadvantage is that it is easy for people to misunderstand that you have thoughts about her. So she immediately told Julian Cheung seriously: Why did you spread the scandal instead of others? It must be something wrong with you. If you were very clear about your position when facing other women, would there still be scandals? If you want me to trust you, you have to behave in a way that makes me trust you. "After hearing this, Zhang Zhilin was thoughtful and said: I understand.
From then on, he always paid attention to keeping a certain distance from the actress when filming, and did not have too much contact with the actress in private. At the same time, in order to reassure Liang Liang, he would always report to Liang Liang before filming: Who is the actress I will be working with this time, and if it is a heroine that Liang Liang doesn’t like, he will reject the film. At the same time, when he goes out to play with friends, he never forgets to call Liangliang to report his whereabouts, because he knows that girls are naturally insecure in love, and the only way to make the other person feel at ease is to confess to the other person.
In 2001, the two went to the United States to get married secretly without telling anyone, not even their close friends knew about it. There was no romantic wedding or beautiful wedding photos. . There was no luxurious wedding banquet. The two people just went to a small church in the United States and held the wedding quietly under the witness of the pastor. At that time, there were only 6 people including them.
After returning to Hong Kong, the two held a replacement wedding banquet. At this time, the Hong Kong media and the public were surprised to find out that the two had already been married without knowing it.
In 2007, the two were married. The child of love was born, a boy named Zhang Mutong.
However, before the beautiful girl had time to taste the joy of becoming a mother for the first time, a cruel test came to her: she unfortunately suffered from postpartum depression. Her temperament began to change drastically, her temper became extremely irritable, and her mood became very moody. At this time, Zhang Zhilin, as her closest person, became the biggest victim. However, Julian Cheung was very considerate of his wife's difficulties. He specifically rejected many scripts and stayed at home to accompany Anita Yuen. Under Zhang Zhilin's tolerance and care, Liangliang finally got out of that very difficult time. Starts to return to normal.
But tests followed. In an exclusive interview with "Zhiyun Dinner" shortly after giving birth to her son, Liangliang, who has always been straightforward, admitted the fact that she was with a married man when she was first elected as Miss Hong Kong. She admitted that she was blinded because she felt loved, and did not see that the other person actually had a wife. After expressing his regret, he regretted his greed and vanity back then. Unexpectedly, the interview caused an uproar in Hong Kong as soon as it was broadcast. Julian Cheung is always asked this question when attending events. But when Zhang Zhilin heard the reporter mention this incident, his face remained as calm as ever: I regret that I didn't get to know her earlier, so that I could protect her. Everyone has a past. Life will be complete only if you have different experiences. I'm no saint myself. I'm not perfect either.
Those words left those reporters who wanted to take the opportunity to make a fuss speechless.
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After marriage, Liangliang almost completely quit the entertainment industry and chose to be a full-time housewife at home, caring for her husband and raising her children. And Zhang Zhilin's career also began to improve. Especially in 2011, the image of the handsome captain in the movie "Up to the Sky" became deeply rooted in the hearts of the people and became a first-line star.
Stills from "Up to the Sky"
At this time, Julian Cheung was just forty years old, which is the most attractive age for men. Moreover, due to his casual personality over the years, he did not like to be with others. People fight. So the appearance is frozen in age. There is almost no change in appearance compared to 20 years ago. And what about Anita Yuan? Because of childbirth, my body began to gain weight and my waist began to become thicker. A double chin and wrinkles started appearing on my face. And as Julian Cheung became popular, the media paid more attention to this couple. From time to time, the media photographed Liang Liang quarreling with Julian Cheung in public. In the media's portrayal, Liangliang has become the image of a teacher's nurse who is out of shape, youthful and has an increasingly bad temper. And Liang Liang is a famous bag enthusiast. I'm in a bad mood and want to buy a bag. If you have a happy thing, buy a bag. Anyway, just keep buying, buying, buying. But Zhang Zhilin is very tolerant of his wife's hobby. If she wants to buy it, buy it for her. The most important thing is that my wife is happy.
This earned Julian Cheung the title of a doting wife maniac. But have you ever known that Liangliang and Zhang Zhilin have been in love for many years and neither of them bought a house until they got married and had children. To this day, I still rent a house. Julian Cheung spends more of his money on eating, drinking, having fun and buying racing cars. He is a famous fun trio with Aaron Kwok and Qiu Shuzhen's husband Shen Jiawei in Hong Kong. Three people can play for a week. Zhang Zhilin felt that it would be more valuable to use the money to buy a house for other things, so he decided not to buy a house. A large part of his expenses are spent on buying his favorite sports car. For all these, Liangliang also provided the greatest understanding, support and tolerance without too many complaints.
However, Zhang Zhilin's words in a TV show interview moved all the female viewers on the TV. This love story has almost exploded in the circle of friends and is praised as the most beautiful love story. He said this:
I often walk with her on the road. When I go shopping, a picture often appears in my mind: I am the only one walking. Even holding her hand made me feel like I was alone. I always feel that people will grow old. How beautiful can a beautiful woman be? That girl is eighteen years old, as beautiful as a fairy, and as beautiful as a flower. You suddenly think of her turning into forty-eight years old. Can it always be the honeymoon period? Impossible. Thinking back to the beginning, when you and your wife first had dinner together, didn't you also think she was beautiful? It was equally sweet. It's better to keep that feeling in your mind. There will be a day when I will walk alone, or she will walk alone, since today I can hold each other's hand. Why is there so much dissatisfaction?
If you can have it at this moment, you should cherish it.
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