If you can feel at ease, be healthy and safe all your life, you can be truly blessed.
But there is a saying: "A person's happiness is made, not earned."
Indeed, happiness or misfortune has no door, but people call themselves.
Blessing doesn't exist from the beginning, but we need to practice by ourselves.
In life, if a person can do these four things, he will certainly become a blessed person.
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Always keep good thoughts and be kind to others.
As the saying goes, "good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil."
Life is a blessing or a curse, and no one can blame others. Every cause has its consequences.
As long as you have good thoughts, you will get warm rewards one day.
In the words of Buddhists-those who love it in return, those who are blessed will be blessed, and fate will never be kind to kind people.
There is a lady who works in a slaughterhouse. One day, she went to the freezer to get meat, but she was accidentally locked in the freezer.
At this time, it's just time to get off work. No matter how she called for help, no one answered. It can be said that it is a wrong number.
A few hours later, just when she was completely desperate and on the verge of coma, the door miraculously opened.
When she woke up from the hospital, she learned that the factory security guard had saved her.
Although he was grateful, he didn't know how he knew she was in it.
Later, the security guard explained:
"I have worked in this meat factory for more than 30 years. Hundreds of workers come in and out every day, but nobody cares about me. Only you won't turn a blind eye to me and help me when I pull the door.
I didn't hear you say goodbye to me that day, so I went in to have a look. Sure enough, something happened. "
Life is like this, you never know what kind of good luck your little kindness will bring you.
It is also the accumulation of good thoughts on weekdays that will bring real blessings to yourself.
There is a saying that is particularly good: people are not sages, although the disaster has not arrived, the blessing is far away; People are kind, although the blessing is not enough, the disaster is far away.
Kindness is a person's best feng shui!
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Be filial to your parents and know how to be grateful.
Ten thousand classics, filial piety comes first.
Since ancient times, filial piety is the only foundation for people to stand in the world.
Unfilial people, even if they have talent and strength, will become the object of people's spit.
And such people, because of unfilial, lost their blessings, and their fate is doomed!
As the Tibetan Scripture says, "Whoever disobeys his parents is killed by heaven and earth."
On the contrary, God will bless people if they are filial. People have filial piety, and their hearts will be lenient.
People who know how to be grateful are self-motivated, have a sense of responsibility, can inspire future generations, and will live a long life.
Wendi's mother, Queen Bo, was ill for three years. Wendi personally tasted soup every day to see whether it was bitter or hot. When he can drink it, he will take it to his mother's bedside and feed it to her.
It is precisely because of this that during his 24 years in office, Liu Heng emphasized the rule of virtue and advocated etiquette, and everyone called him the king of benevolence and filial piety, which led to the later "rule of cultural scenery".
Mencius once said, "Only filial piety can relieve troubles".
Love leads to home, and filial piety leads to harmony.
Only people with filial piety can obtain social status, generous salary, good reputation and the most precious longevity corresponding to virtue.
Filial piety is the key to your happiness.
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Self-cultivation.
A truly blessed person must be a man of noble character.
As the saying goes, "People are blessed with virtue."
People with virtue will be respected by others wherever they go; And people without virtue will be rejected by others wherever they go.
Zeng Guofan was a famous minister in the late Qing Dynasty, and he paid great attention to the moral cultivation of future generations.
On weekdays, I often educate my children to be modest, polite and cautious, and not to bully others.
Even his student Li Hongzhang said in his later years that my teacher Zeng Guofan taught me a lot, and the most important thing was "virtue", which benefited me a lot in my life.
Virtue is the source of all happiness.
A person's luck can't last a lifetime, but what really lasts a lifetime is himself.
The so-called blessing is just a good karma planted by good conduct on weekdays. When you have a good result one day, it will turn into your luck in doing things.
Romain rolland once said, "Without great character, there will be no great people, even great artists and great actors."
Being a man in advance is the first virtue.
Having good character and abiding by good virtue is the foundation of a person's life, the foundation of society and the most hardcore backer of a person.
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Diligence and self-improvement
Family failure can not be separated from a luxury word, and people can not be separated from an escape word.
Once a person has the desire for pleasure, he will be lazy and greedy, content with the status quo, and the scenery at home will come to an end sooner or later.
There is an old saying: "Although wealth is expensive, you can't rely on it, but diligence can last."
Whether it is a family or an individual, only diligence and progress will lead to a stable and happy life.
Read such a story:
There are two horses each pulling a truck to deliver goods to their owners. One horse walks fast, the other one walks slowly.
So in order to hurry, the shopkeeper had to move all the goods from the back to the front.
The horse behind smiled happily and said to himself: The horse in front is so stupid that he doesn't even understand the most basic truth that "the harder you work, the worse you lose".
After arriving at the destination, the master thought, since one horse can pull a cart, why should we keep two horses?
Finally, the lazy horse was slaughtered and eaten.
This is the famous lazy horse effect.
The same is true of being a man. If you are always lazy to have fun, you will definitely get the most severe punishment in the world in the end.
And really smart people know how to be their own aristocrats. They know that life has no end, only the process of continuous efforts.
Over time, with the improvement of personality and ability, the industry and family can flourish.
Remember, if you don't have the strength, work hard; Self-improvement, good fortune depends on each other.