One: stop being kind inside.
The best feng shui in the world is kindness, and the kindness of the people is the biggest pattern of feng shui. Empathy in everything, consideration for others, knowing how to help others in life, letting go of what you know, regardless of gains and losses, are all great merits. Rather than relying on money donations, relying on charity, relying on fame and reputation. Therefore, the ancients said, "Don't do it with small goodness, and don't do it with small evils."
Two: stop at the hair.
Keep your hair and face clean and tidy at all times. Give people the impression of cleaning up the sunshine, so that no one will despise you. Because keeping your hair clean and tidy is also an attitude towards life and a respect for others. How can a person who knows how to respect others not be respected by others?
Three: stop trying.
A year's plan lies in spring, and a lifetime's plan lies in diligence. Everyone can only see the seemingly beautiful side of the winners, but they can't see the efforts of each winner. There is a man in this world who suddenly made a fortune by virtue of God's reward. But most, the vast majority, even those rich second generation and the second generation of officials, will not think that they are not diligent. In other words, diligence is the foundation of all success. And what I'm talking about here is diligence, not just action, but more thinking. In other words, physical diligence alone is not enough, but also the synchronous growth of thought and behavior.
Four: Stop being kind to filial piety.
The Buddha said, "There are two Buddhas in front of the hall.". When you were born, you probably brought two bodhisattvas. Whether the waiter is good or not, he cares about your growth. Looking back when I grow up, the happiest thing is that growth stage. Modern people, on the other hand, are very grateful to others for giving them a little kindness. They even call their husbands when they are rich and their fathers-in-law when they are rich, completely forgetting their parents' selfless dedication to themselves for decades. If you have time and conditions, visit the elderly more and be less corrupt and vain. Even if you buy symbolic things for the elderly, it is your heart. Besides, how can a person be good to his friends, respected and trusted if he is not good to his parents? There are also some girls who only care about their feelings when looking for a partner, regardless of whether the man knows how to be grateful. How can a man who is not filial to his parents deserve your life?
Five: don't talk.
A gentleman is cautious and independent, and a gentleman is cautious. Don't be complacent when you are happy, and don't get carried away when you are proud. I have read a sentence saying that you should share your happiness with your friends. To tell the truth, happiness and pain can not be analyzed. Only wine and meat can be shared. Even if it's ten dollars, remember to change it if you spend it or borrow it. If we don't change it, there will be shortcomings of others everywhere, and we will be one point shorter than others everywhere. Because you owe someone else. When someone gives you a cigarette, you should remember to exchange it for a bottle of wine. There is no such thing as a free banquet. If you eat someone's mouth short, they will be soft. Those officials who began to be corrupt from the beginning were all ambitious young people at the beginning.
Six: stop loving beauty.
When people come to this world, everyone is unique. This is a gift from heaven and a wonderful arrangement of the creator. Whether you are rich or poor, beautiful or ordinary, remember that the world exists because of you. If one day, you leave and the world disappears. Therefore, we should be kind to the world and everything around us, even if it is a grass and a tree, a mountain and a water, and don't deliberately destroy it. Learn to be grateful and know how to nurture, and you can reap all the blessings that fate brings you. Beauty lies not only in scalpels, cosmetics, beautiful clothes and luxurious jewelry, but more importantly, whether you can love, understand love and learn to love.