200 family rules and family precepts

1, heartbreaking, self-hosting.

2, the exclusive name is the way to fold happiness.

3. Hard bones and muscles are getting stronger and stronger, and pampering is getting weaker and weaker.

4. All aristocratic children have the same food, clothing, housing and transportation as the poor, so they can achieve great things. If they are tainted with wealth and habits, it will be difficult for them to succeed.

5, people's temperament, because of natural, it is difficult to change, but reading can change temperament.

6. If a person wants to stand on his own feet, he must be stubborn.

7. The mediocrity in the world, ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign, is defeated by a lazy word; Talented people in the world, both ancient and modern, all lost to a brave word.

8. Be dignified and say nothing.

9. Don't abandon great beauty with small evils, and don't forget great kindness with small grievances.

10, the greater the self-esteem, the smaller the equipment.

1 1. A gentleman is not as good as a man, but in your eyes he knows people very well.

12, official, from frugality to extravagance, from extravagance to frugality.

13, young people should be "determined and persistent" in reading.

14, thunderbolt means bodhisattva's heart comes first.

15, calm down first, think again, and do it after five or six minutes.

16, scholars have three indisputable: do not compete with gentlemen for fame, do not compete with villains for profit, and do not compete with heaven and earth.

17, a journey of independence, without favoritism, but with compassion. In the matter of high righteousness, we should avoid small suspicions, but we must not worry about being tired.

18, bitter and complacent.

19, literati are rich, and daily life will bring market. Wealth can be poetic, and it is shabby to spit out the genus.

20. Don't drink when you are upset, and don't write when you are angry.

2 1, decision on matters.

22. Just say that you are superficial.

23, peace of mind, and then you can break through the dangers of the world.

24. Too lofty hurts benevolence, too obedient hurts righteousness.

25. It is better to see the world full of bad people than to see the world full of good people.

26. Big softness is not soft, just not rigid.

27. Serving relatives is based on joy.

28. Filial piety is auspicious, diligence is meticulous, and forgiveness is meticulous.

29. Talent is conceited, self-esteem, villain taboo, gentleman taboo.

30. Books, vegetables, fish and pigs are the vitality of a family; Sleep less and do more, and one is angry.

3 1, everything is arranged in secret, and you know it yourself.

32, guard against arrogance and laziness, and protect your family.

33. Only those who can eat simple meals can taste the strange smell, those who can make a fuss can visit famous mountains, and those who can endure hardships can make a name for themselves.

34. People who get rich, enjoy their blessings, and there will be sudden disasters. Poor people are uneasy about their poverty, and there must be unexpected worries.

35, frustrated things come, be patient, don't be frustrated. Come on, take it lightly, and you won't be confused by quick success and instant benefit.

36. Vegetarian food is not turbid; Stay alone, not turbid; Sitting still is not turbid; Reading is not turbid.

37. Those who are good at watching others view themselves, and those who are good at watching themselves view their hearts.

38. Xuan Jing is also false. Love in hiding is privacy.

39. Jue Lu can respect his body and not his heart. An article can express itself, but it cannot express its behavior.

40, fame and fortune, money, voice, these are called desires, all of which can be killed.

4 1. Sincerely regret, forgive, complain and bear the burden of humiliation.

42. A clever debater is contrary to the Tao, and a clumsy one will be sparse, so he would rather neglect the world than violate the Tao.

43, yee language retrogression, miscellaneous learning confusion.

44. Those who are satisfied are happy, and those who are greedy are worried.

45. Those who accumulate widely will leave their children in trouble; Too much debauchery, one axe lost his life.

46. Stomach and abdomen are not the cause of the disease; If you think wrong, you will be killed.

47. Ancient people cultivated themselves to avoid fame, but today people decorate themselves to be famous. Therefore, the ancients did not seize the big festival, but today people see small profits and are easy to keep.

48. A gentleman is loyal when he goes out, filial when he enters, knowledgeable when he uses it, and foolish when he gives up.

49. Smart and hardworking people are crazy, while weak and heavy-handed people are arrogant.

50. Good people are virtuous and auspicious. The wicked plant and frame the blame, which will cause disaster in the future.

5 1, selling a false name to a villain, not listening. Leaving goods and wealth to future generations is not as urgent as others.

52, profit can be * * * and not alone, seeking less but not more. Single interests lead to failure, and collective efforts lead to failure.

53. If you ignore it, you will put your foot in your mouth.

54. People who are good at winning people will have no place to win people, will win people, and will not win people.

55. A gentleman does his best to die, and his destiny lies in personnel.

56. Smart and sensitive people should add profound knowledge.

57. Evil is greater than destroying people's goodness, and virtue is greater than the injustice of white people.

58. Let a gentleman be modest, not a villain be shallow.

59. People should save trouble and be not afraid of things. People should be refined, not vulgar. Should not be timely, not timely.

60. Follow two things and make a mistake all your life. Only by inspiring the spirit can we break this disadvantage.

6 1, and suspicious people * * * things, things will not happen. You will participate in things that are beneficial to others.

62, can't be poor, can't stand up, can't be wronged, can't do things.

63. Everything is done by human resources and nature.

64. Everyone expects to win, and the machine will be defeated in the middle. Everyone expects frustration, and there will be a way out.

65. If you love your talent, you should omit the details.

66. For people who do great things, the first meaning is to choose more than one, and there is no satisfactory choice, followed by menstruation Festival, so that they can be educated slowly.

67. Having no friends at home is the first hate.

68. If you are willing to be indifferent, you will have some real knowledge.

69, just a small one will make Pepsi go bankrupt, and it will also lead to the collapse of hundreds of businesses.

70. Believing in fortune telling and geomantic omen are all caused by delusion. Smart people live by benevolence and righteousness, so they don't believe in benevolence and righteousness.

7 1. It is said that it is quick for a while, but the person who does it hates it for life.

72. Today, people care about manipulating people and take great pains, but have they ever harmed anyone? It's just that I ruined my mind and my vitality.

73. Never be complacent, never do trivial things, never learn to be frivolous, and never get tired and dependent.

74. When you are in a hurry, you should behave better. Be more cautious when things are urgent. Be more cautious in the end.

75. If you want to support your career with the world, you must stand on your feet first.

76. Being a slave is shameful and willful and hateful. If you don't insist, it's the middle way. It's not unusual, but it's most elegant to make the Apollo stream popular.

77. Listen to you and be reasonable. Hearing this, you often lose more.

78. Those who have compassion will have shame and evil.

79. It's wise not to belittle yourself when Pingdan people are trapped.

80. Those who are smart and exposed are thin, and those who are too prosperous are blessed.

8 1, people who are good at decoration will gradually make mistakes. Partial listener, end of parameter.

82. People who are not as proud as others will be shallow, and those who are suspected of corruption will be villains.

83, feel at ease, and then you can understand the world is cold.

84. It is brave to feel private and then go.

85. Too lofty hurts benevolence, too obedient hurts righteousness.

86, each Ann * * *, the world is flat.

87. Those who practice the law seek it from heaven, keep it from the public, and do it with benevolence.

88. If you know that everything in the world is one, you can love.

89. If people get along well, they will be happy.

In the past nine or twenty years, the word "anger" has not been cleaned up, so it is the hardest to know self-denial.

9 1, I didn't know the temperament refutation until I was old, and I thought it was just a rough study.

92. If all goes well, the villain is eager to stay away.

93. What people learn is intolerable to others, and if others tolerate it, they will go on.

94. If people want to get better, they must get better first.

95, gas taboo, heart taboo, just avoid dew.

96, often quiet, is implicit and reasonable.

97. People who can be trusted by the whole world will eventually be gentlemen. People who are suspicious in the world will eventually become villains.

98. Evil is greater than destroying people's goodness, and virtue is greater than the injustice of white people.

99. A word of forbearance eliminates endless disasters, and a word of sufficient words saves endless demands.

100, people must be free from defects.

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102, the poor will be cheap, and the cheap will benefit the poor. Rich people will be generous, and generosity will make money.

103, rich people should persuade him to be generous, and smart people should persuade him to be generous.

104, the most important thing in the world is reading. However, reading occupies a position, but in character, it is not in position.

105, the only real word in the world is rare.

106, everything you can raise must be clear-headed, clear-headed and flat-headed, so that things can be right.

107, you can't do it in Taotao without deep thinking. People who gain without careful consideration are easy to lose.

108, loving your wife is unfilial. If you blame yourself with other people's hearts, you are a widow. If you forgive others with your own heart, you will give it all.

109, light wealth is enough to gather people, self-discipline is enough to convince people, breadth is enough to win people, and leadership is enough.

1 10, only the right people can transfer people, but the best people can serve people.

1 1 1. It is unpredictable to meet a deceiver. As soon as I treat him sincerely, I will be poor.

1 12. It's better to think quickly than to do it. It's better to be honest than to be attentive.

1 13, there is only one treatment for people in trouble. After doing your best, you must accept it frankly.

1 14, a hero of the prosperous times, with modesty as the first meaning.

1 15, no big talk, pragmatic.

1 16, saving trouble is the method of clearing the heart, and reading is the method of saving trouble.

1 17, don't live alone, don't pass the buck.

1 18, the bitter wisdom, the clearer it is.

1 19 always mentions its vitality.

120, everything in the world is hard, but it can last long.

12 1, don't criticize the ancients easily.

122, let go, be bold, and never look back.

123, those who learn from abroad are said to be clear, and those who learn from abroad are said to be sincere, sincere and clear.

124, no matter what happens in the world, it's expensive to think of it, it's very fine and expensive to do it, it's expensive to do it, and it's expensive for one person.

125, there is no good small profit.

126, don't change what you said today because of small interests tomorrow.

127, first observe the talents.

128, start a new stove and reopen the world.

129, bitter in heart, glorious in substance.

130, why choose land? Why choose the time? But ask yourself if it's true!

13 1. One is to be ambitious, the other is knowledgeable, and the third is perseverance.

132, blame yourself and others.

133, it's time to hone the hero.

134, people who are defeated by fierce virtues probably have two ends: arrogance and talkativeness.

135, reputation lost, doubt in the distance.

136, the more you use it, the more it comes out. Don't be too precious because you are weak.

137, the human spirit can't be sent.

138, those who do good are always blessed, while those who benefit are always in trouble. Peace of mind is a blessing, and mental fatigue is a curse.

139, I try my best to resign myself to fate, and I am only cautious every day.

140, it must have the meaning of Ning Zhuo Jojo, and then it can last.

14 1, those who don't enjoy fame realistically will have a strange disaster.

142, when you encounter difficulties, you must start with the word patience.

143, don't follow the crowd.

144, think slowly when you do things. If you think carefully, you will feel it. If you slow down, you will feel it.

145, an elf with almost two eyes.

146, broad-minded, we should work hard from the word plain.

147, I'd rather not go to war for a few days than go to war without any arrangement and calculation.

148, the war is unhurried, seeking stability first and seeking change second; Do things in obscurity, be precise and simple.

149, God is right and God is evil.

150, people must be sincere, and the industry can last for a long time.

15 1, everyone is a sage and never depends on the amount of reading.

152, living with bad neighbors, sitting with bad friends, and being cautious is also the capital to enter Germany.

153, strange too straight, people are ashamed and hate, in my opinion.

154, talented, you must show it.

155, when you are frustrated and humiliated, you must grit your teeth and motivate yourself, and you will learn from it.

156, do not do whatever you want, do not do whatever you want.

157, due to improper mouth and abdomen; If you think wrong, you will be killed.

158, the profit can be * * * but not alone, and the plan can be less but not public. Single interests lead to failure, and collective efforts lead to failure.

159, without prestige, the king can't be kind.

160, health care is based on less anger, and things are based on winning goodwill.

16 1, you can only laugh when you doubt.

162, can't stand poverty, can't stand quality, can't stand injustice, can't do anything.

163, things fail quickly and thinking is slow.

164, if you can be indifferent, you will have some real knowledge.

165, only seeing small will make Pepsi fail and lead to the fall of the whole line.

166, people who have been wrongly attacked in their previous lives can be more self-sufficient; Those who didn't have it in previous lives can create it themselves.

167, brothers and, although poor and self-sufficient small families will prosper, brothers will not be harmonious, although aristocratic families will fail.

168, not greedy for money, not faithless, unnatural, with these three provinces, natural people respect.

169, evil is looking at the eyes and nose, true and false look at the lips, fame depends on the spirit, wealth depends on the spirit.

170, people should not be too smart.

17 1, dignified and heavy is your phase, and modesty and tolerance are your phase; It is rich to give something back, and it is rich to help.

172, specialized diseases are not refined.

173, all kinds of ills stem from laziness.

174, where to do great things, knowledge is the main thing, supplemented by talent; If you achieve great things, people will live half a life, and God will live half a life.

175, keep honest, avoid cleverness, stay strong and avoid stubbornness.

176. Advise people not to refer to it, but to be beautiful first. If people are happy, language is easy to enter, if they are angry, language is difficult to enter, and anger is better than personal reasons.

177, a gentleman can help others in distress, and it is good for others to be in a hurry. If you can't boast, that's good.

178, so cheap that you can't make money with * * *, and even the suspicious can't do anything with * * *.

179, the country is strong and the people are strong.

180, people are mainly qi.

18 1, we only have two things to study, one is to enter Germany, and the other is to study.

182, if people can make up their minds, what can a sage hero not do? Why use people?

183, be diligent in the state, be frugal at home, keep your word and do what you want.

184, to be self-sufficient, to be satisfied with yourself, to be taboo for villains, and to be thin for gentlemen.

185, calm down first, think again, and do it after five or six minutes.

186, self-study is not difficult to cultivate.

187, you must first set up a firm ambition.

188, home and peace are blessed.

189, leave room for everything, and be generous to accommodate people.

190, I'm afraid to do anything wrong.

19 1, too lofty will hurt benevolence, too obedient will hurt righteousness. So, you should learn from the middle.

192, feel at ease, and then you can get through the dangers of the world. Entanglement can test my talent; Waves and currents are all the rage, so you can test my operation; Difficulties and obstacles.

193, mortals must concentrate on one thing and not change their minds.

194, it is always appropriate to reward its strengths and standardize its shortcomings.

195, where there is prosperity, there is decline, so we must plan ahead.

196, you must taste the ups and downs, and right and wrong are always in people. It's not easy to die in peace. Everyone should try to cultivate themselves.

197, the way to stand, rigid inside and soft outside; The way to a fat family is to obey. If you don't agree, you can't pick things up, and if you are not strict, you can't manage them.

198, diligent in the state, frugal at home, keep your word, and do what you want.

199, all useless books are playthings.

200, home diligence is prosperous, and people are diligent and healthy.