Three taboos of marrying a woman. Before and after marriage, we need to know all kinds of folk customs and taboos, so that we won't touch some taboos and our fortune will be better. Let's take a look at the three taboos of married women and related content.
Three taboos for married women: 1 1. Don't go back to your mother's house for the New Year.
In our customs and taboos, married women are forbidden to stay at their parents' home during the New Year. Generally speaking, the Spring Festival is always at the man's house, and he will not return to his parents' house until the second day of the second year. According to the custom in some areas, if a married daughter spends the New Year in her parents' home, it will bring bad luck to her parents in the coming year.
2. Don't have children at home.
In fact, there are not many people who strictly observe this taboo now. According to traditional customs, if a married woman gives birth to a child at her mother's house, it will bring bad luck to her mother's house and her husband's family. But now, you must choose a convenient place to have a baby, and everything is health-oriented.
Don't go back to your mother's house on the day of sacrifice.
In our traditional Gregorian calendar year, there are days dedicated to offering sacrifices to stoves, and some places are also called Kitchen God Festival, off-year and so on. On this day, if the married daughter returns to her family, it will also have a negative impact on the fortune of her family and her husband's family.
Do you want to set off firecrackers at the married woman's house?
1, firecrackers are an essential thing in our traditional wedding, and the woman naturally has to set them off. Generally speaking, the time for women to set off firecrackers is relatively fixed. On the morning of the wedding, the bride waits for the wedding reception after finishing makeup.
2. When the man's wedding team is approaching the woman's house, it will set off firecrackers in advance. At this time, the woman needs to set off firecrackers to respond. When the man's wedding team officially arrives at the woman's house, firecrackers should also be set off to welcome them.
In addition, the wedding team successfully picked up the bride. When the whole team is ready to leave and return to the wedding scene, the woman should set off firecrackers at home, which means a farewell blessing. But now many cities are not allowed to set off fireworks and firecrackers, so you should know the local regulations clearly when preparing.
Three Taboos of Married Women: Two Taboos of Feng Shui when Brides Get Married
First, brides who have never been through the door should not eat wedding cakes often.
Speaking of wedding cake, I think everyone can understand its meaning. In folk customs, wedding cakes symbolize happy events and even marriage. There is a custom of distributing wedding cakes in folk wedding celebrations. If the girls in the workshop have decided that they will get married soon and get pregnant in the following time, they should not eat too many wedding cakes during this upcoming wedding period, otherwise they will eat up their future "happy events".
Second, the bride didn't marry the flower girl when she got married.
Sending a married child is also called flower girl in modern times. In the past, during the bride's wedding journey, flower girl was sent to get married. There is also the festive implication of marrying a flower girl, that is, having a baby early. In the seventies and eighties, it was unlucky and unhappy for the flower girl not to get married. Nowadays, many similar customs are gradually forgotten.
Third, the bride should avoid stepping on the earth to see the sky when she gets off the sedan chair.
Different places have different wedding customs. In some areas, there is a custom that brides can't look at the sky with their eyes open and step on the ground when they get married. For example, the ancient book "Tokyo Dream Record Marries a Woman" records: "Newcomers go under the eaves, walk on cloth strips or felt mats, and are not allowed to step on the ground." Some people are too backward, saying that if the bride gets off the sedan chair and sees the sky on the ground, it will offend the god of heaven and earth and bring bad luck. There are also some anecdotal sayings that the bride is not allowed to "step on the ground" or "look at the sky" when getting off the sedan chair, in order to prevent the bride from being above her husband's family after entering the door. However, more folklore experts believe that the purpose of preventing the bride from "stepping on the ground" and "looking at the sky" is to create a solemn atmosphere, so that the wedding can go smoothly and bring good luck to her husband's family.
Three taboos of married women, three feng shui taboos that make it difficult for girls to get married.
The bedroom is too dark or humid, and such geomantic omen will have an impact on health because the light cannot shine into the room. If unmarried women in the family live in it, it is more likely that they will be withdrawn and find it difficult to meet good partners.
If there is no wall behind the bed, such geomantic omen can easily lead unmarried women at home not to get married, and it is difficult to find a reliable marriage partner except for insecurity.
In the previous Feng Shui article, Master Chao Lingyun also said that it is best not to put fish tanks or plants in the bedroom of unmarried women, because plants emit carbon dioxide at night, which will lead to indoor humidity, and so will fish tanks, which will lead to insufficient popularity if placed indoors. Of course, unmarried women can put vibrant flowers in their bedrooms.
If you change the storage room or bathroom into a bedroom, because there are many unlucky places, even if you change it into a bedroom, it is still purely a bad atmosphere. This kind of home feng shui will not only easily lead to unmarried women in the family, but even lead to mental problems in the family living in it.
Besides not pointing the mirror at the bed in the bedroom, it is not allowed to put the mirror with irregular shape in the bedroom, which will easily lead to the thinking deviation of unmarried women, often having strange ideas and easily forming the idea of being alone. It's hard to have a good peach blossom for such a long time.