When a person lives in the world, there are always some things that he cannot be sure of. At this time, they need a mirror. They hope to find a way out for themselves through this mirror.
First of all, we all know that people have a very strong spirit of gossip, and people on Guangzhihu are the same. They want to pry into other people’s inner worlds and know what others are thinking. Part of the reason It's out of curiosity in my heart.
We often say that curiosity killed the cat, but even if they know that curiosity may put themselves in danger, some people still can't stop their curiosity and want to find out about those unknown things. As for They had no clear idea of ??what to do after knowing the truth of the matter, but the curiosity in their hearts at that moment was particularly strong, and this strong idea supported their desire to get to the bottom of it.
Secondly, many of us will encounter choices in real life. These choices will make us feel particularly confused, because you don’t know how to choose the right one, and you don’t know your own path after making the choice. What will it be like? At this time, I really want to have someone who can give me ideas and become a target for me to learn from. But in real life, it is difficult to meet someone who encounters the same situation and problems as me, so it is difficult to find someone. Taking the example for reference, the Internet has become their best tool at this time, especially on social platforms such as Zhihu, because there are many users, and everyone may have some unique insights, and some People may have encountered similar situations to themselves, so by snooping on other people’s thoughts on Zhihu, you can learn about what other people would do when they encounter your own situation. This can give you some reference opinions and give you courage. .
I don’t object to everyone looking for answers to some questions on Zhihu, or looking for a way out of their own confusion on Zhihu. After all, three cobblers are better than one Zhuge Liang. Maybe some words and some The ideas will coincide with yours, and they will give you some inspiration, allowing you to find the path to victory.
But we should also see that everyone’s experience has specific circumstances and cannot be generalized. You just believe what others say. You must combine it with your own reality to find a better answer. For a proper and effective method, everything cannot be copied.
For those who are really bored, just want to pry into other people's privacy, and have full curiosity and gossip spirit, if they have this time to waste energy on the Internet, it is better to work hard to improve in reality. Your own and other people's lives, whether they are joyful or miserable, are actually very far away from you. All you can participate in is your own life. It is useless to want to know what others think, because you cannot control their thoughts, but But you can control your own thinking and make it go the right way.