In the traditional concept of China, the mother plays an important role in the wedding. Is the bride's relatives, but also a witness to the newly married life. The mother of the bride can help her daughter make the bed to show her blessing and care.
Pay attention to making the bed:
1, bed making time
The bed is usually made the day before the wedding. You can find a good day for sleeping according to the lunar calendar. However, if the day before is not suitable for sleeping, you can also choose a good day before the wedding.
It is best to make the bed in the early morning or morning, and try not to make the bed in the afternoon, otherwise it will have a bad hint for future marriage.
2, the choice of bedding
It is suggested that the bedding of the wedding bed should be red. Generally, there should be four quilts, four mattresses, two pairs of pillows and two pairs of cushions on the bed.
After making the bed, sprinkle red dates, peanuts, longan, lotus seeds and other happy fruits, meaning early birth and happiness.
3. Who makes the bed
We must find a "blessed person" to make the bed, that is, a "predestined relationship" with healthy body, parents and children alive and harmonious marriage.
When making the bed, Quanfu people should say auspicious words while making the bed, which means that the married life of husband and wife is happy and smooth.
Newcomers don't forget to prepare red envelopes in advance and give them to Quanfu people who make the bed. Thank you.
4. Who presses the bed
After the wedding bed is ready, you need to find 1-2 lively and healthy children to roll on the bed, wishing the couple a happy baby.
To sum up, according to the local wedding customs, the process of making the bed will be different. The main process is to sweep the bed, spread the mandarin duck pillow and the dragon and phoenix quilt, and then spread the account and scatter the auspicious fruit on the bed, which is a good wish for the children's happy marriage.
Legal basis:
protection of women and children of the people's republic of china
Article 32
Women enjoy equal rights with men in rural land contract management, income distribution of collective economic organizations, use of compensation for land expropriation or requisition, and use of homestead.
Article 33
No organization or individual may infringe upon the rights and interests of women in rural collective economic organizations on the grounds of unmarried, married, divorced or widowed women.