In fact, this truth is not difficult to understand. Elites and leaders in any field need time to settle down. A wise man needs not only extraordinary wisdom, but also the condensation of years. Without time and experience, he can't gain a respected reputation. Because of this, people in their later years should be transparent, with strange bones, and live aloof, not alive? Old fool? , qualifications? Asshole? .
Many people don't respect the elderly, most of them just don't know how to reflect on themselves, waste their time and have no knowledge. An old man in his later years will be very happy if he knows how to control himself in language without saying these five words.
Don't talk about old age, you can't sell old age by old age.
No matter at home or in social occasions, people who like to seniority and always ask others in their own way abound. The most obvious is reflected in? Sitting? Depend on. The Chinese nation is a country of etiquette, and it is understandable to pay attention to seniority, but many old people are almost meticulous about their seats and can't tolerate any overstepping.
Many occasions, such as the daily seating of the family, must be like the court in the past, with the oldest person sitting in the middle and others sitting on both sides; Even if you eat, you should arrange your seats according to the orientation of the house and the geomantic omen. As long as any junior sits wrong, the old man will reprimand him for being angry and even leave.
This has to make people feel: the feudal era has been dead 100 years, and there is such a harsh ranking? This idea of relying on the old to sell the old extends to public places, and it is even more out of control. It is often seen that some old people force young people to give up their seats when they take the bus and subway, and there is a dispute with those who do not give up their seats. This is a typical seniority.
Respecting the elderly is the virtue of the whole society, individuals and families, but as an elderly person, in his later years, he really shouldn't go around saying that he is old to win the respect of others. This is unfair, but it seems immoral.
Kidnapping relatives without filial piety and morality
The older some people get, the easier they get confused. They always feel that it is right to work hard all their lives and enjoy their old age. Buddha? Similarly, everything should be done by the younger generation like puppets, otherwise it is unfilial. Is there no exception? Tutor? 、? Family rules? It will stipulate that the younger generation will follow the intentions of their elders in employment and marriage. If they don't listen, it's unfilial and a typical moral kidnapping.
In his later years, he should be more tolerant and understanding, showing a broader mind and tolerance than the younger generation. He should not be embarrassed with the younger generation, but always stress filial piety and kidnap relatives with morality.
Don't talk about the glory of the past, and don't always brag about the past.
What young people hate most about old people is that they always talk? Think back to that time? Obviously, many of my own lives have been spent in calm, even ordinary, mediocre and inaction. There is neither that kind of grandeur nor too many legendary experiences to boast about, but they have to preach with their own experiences, which makes the younger generation very disgusted.
In contrast, Lippi, the former head coach of China men's soccer team and a world-famous football coach, is very low-key. In the eyes of his grandson, this is just an old man who can play football, no different from ordinary people. At this point, Lippi has undoubtedly done a very good job, without deliberately emphasizing his brilliant life or boasting about his past, which is admirable.
Do not gossip, do not offend others.
In rural areas and many streets and lanes, there are still some elderly people sitting together, and they are often made short comments by their parents and the Li family, and some of these comments have invisibly formed public opinion and brought people a lot of trouble.
There is a kind of person who becomes a man in his later years? Feudal guardian? I always like to ask others by my own standards. As long as I don't agree with my wishes, I will comment and make irresponsible remarks. No wonder the younger generation often says: You can give me some advice, but don't point fingers. When people get old, they should understand more, and don't comment on others casually, which makes others feel disgusted.
If you don't complain, optimism can make you live longer.
Different from commenting on others, some people are full of grievances and complaints in their later years. They are dissatisfied everywhere, complaining everywhere and sighing all day.
According to the truth, a dying person should see through everything and let go of everything. How can there be so many dissatisfaction and complaints? It is important to know that optimism can lead to longevity. If you want to have a peaceful old age, you should talk less and keep your mind at peace.
Conclusion:
So-called? Fish start to stink on their heads? When people get old, they should be honest, be strict with themselves, and be a person who abides by his duty and is cautious in his words and deeds. They must not make irresponsible remarks and leave a disrespectful image on the younger generation. In old age, only by not saying the above five points can people truly be detached and virtuous.