2. If you have a good impression on a boy, you should take the initiative to talk to him, but don't be the one who broke the window.
No matter how anxious you are, don't take the initiative to mention marriage and house. Let him like it more and more, don't give too much pressure. Some things can't be urgent. It is suggested to talk about the relationship for three months first, and then talk about reality after the relationship is stable.
Don't always complain about the same thing.
5. Don't be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, but seek emotional value. Girls themselves should be more confident and feel more secure.
6. Every role has two sides. While seeing all the shortcomings, we should also see the advantages behind them. Accept each other from the bottom of my heart. If you don't like each other, they will feel it.
7. Set your own bottom line and principles. Don't step on each other's, and don't let them step on themselves. If you step on your bottom line, you must make it clear seriously, don't just endure it.
8. Don't progress too fast, your shortcomings will be exposed too early, and you will easily collapse when your emotional foundation is not stable.
9. Boys also need to be coaxed. Say something sensational to make him feel that you care about him.
10. Don't care too much about paying for boys with a strong sense of responsibility. Forget it, love rat. I don't know how to be grateful after giving.
1 1. Not too early.
12. If you don't compare, it's just right. I always tell him about my colleague's husband. I really want to go back and strangle myself. Really don't compare, it's you who are unhappy, which will hurt the boys' hearts.
13. Don't let parents get involved too much.
14. Be sure to cherish it, and don't be afraid to take the initiative to brave enough to love, otherwise it will be very painful after breaking up and you will regret it.
15. There must be a vigorous start and some good memories. This is easy to recover.
16. Don't break up easily, just be prepared for separation.
17. Don't break up if you don't want to. At first, he said that we should be apart for a while. I read a lot of Zhihu's posts, saying that it's better to break up for two to three months, and then it's cold when it's broken. . . Because everyone's situation is different, everyone's personality is different, so we must judge according to our own situation, and don't blindly believe other people's experience.
18. Speak moderately and don't say anything you shouldn't.
19. Don't do this. Boys will be more stressed at work than girls. I'm tired of trying to coax you when I come back.
20. Show weakness appropriately and make your boyfriend feel needed.
2 1. Make more surprises and romance, and don't be too dull.
22. Don't trust other people's experience. I have read too many Zhihu posts, some say this is important, some say that is important, but that is based on the respondents' own experience. Everyone has different experiences and needs. Don't blindly compare boyfriends with online dating experience, establish their own core needs, and at the same time understand each other's needs, what kind of partner he wants and what kind of life he wants.
23. Don't care about a guy's feelings just because he is nice to you. Be careful what you say. Don't force him to do something he doesn't want to do.
24. Don't express yourself without reservation. Sending out negative energy will only make him farther away. Of course, this is a problem for both sides. When sending out negative energy, girls just want to tell and channel their emotions. If boys can learn to listen, instead of straight men trying to help solve problems, or just a hug, girls will feel your existence.
25. Don't spit out the leader at the beginning of your understanding, which will make him doubt your work attitude.
26. If you want to sit upright, you must stand in the other person's position and defend him.
27. Thoughtful, feminine and coquettish.
28. Speak Tai Chi, don't kill yourself at once.
29. Give your boyfriend face when he is away.
30. Treat people with heart and sincerity.
3 1. Less published emotional theory
32. The wind and water turn, and no one should be high-key and low-key.
33. Don't cry easily.
34. Don't be lazy and don't dress up.
35. Don't be too true to yourself. When you want to refuse, be tactful and show that you are thinking about him everywhere, although you refuse.
36. Listen to love stories, don't take them seriously, don't fall in love with your brain, and keep your analytical skills.
37. When encountering difficulties, ask your heart, don't ignore your real thoughts, and follow your feelings. When I met the reality, I forgot to ask myself, if I go to the seaside, who do I want to go with most?
38. Be good at expressing love. As an engineering woman, it really hurts to have an independent personality but no delicate heart. Love must be expressed.
Be brave to the person you like. I believe that no matter what difficulties there are in the future, the two will go together.
40. Be brave to change. I thought it was difficult to change before, but in fact, the other party has been accommodating and adapting to me and changing for me. But I always think that change is useless, and acceptance can last long, which leads to the disappointment of the other party. Therefore, in the future, find a person who is willing to make changes for your relationship, run in with each other, change the way of thinking, and don't think too straight about the relationship between men and women, and the relationship will last.
4 1. As an engineering woman, don't be too slow and backward. To tell the truth, I don't know how to change this article. I can't understand what others say. When I do something wrong, I must learn from it. After being apart for a month, I still think I will come back. In fact, I had many opportunities to make it back, but I just missed it.
42. Don't overestimate each other's feelings for you.
43. About lovelorn, maybe you couldn't eat or sleep a few days ago. Like a walking corpse, I lost five pounds in two days. Thanks to lovelorn love, my weight has returned to 97, haha. But after a week, you can slowly regain your vitality, start eating and fall asleep, but you will feel heartache every night and morning, and then you will only think about it, but it will not affect your normal life. So, it's gonna be okay. ...
44. Send him a message when you miss him. Don't bear it. If you want to see him, go and see him. Until you find that all the messages you send are sinking into the sea, meet him and be indifferent to you. You never want to find him again, and you never want to give him a chance to hurt you. If you break the south wall, you will know that you are turning back.
45. After the pain, don't forget to reflect when you are awake. To get rid of your shortcomings is not to save, but to better yourself. Because some shortcomings will lead to this failure, and it will fail next time because of the same shortcomings. You can't fall in the same pit twice, which is the principle I have been following since I was an adult.