People often say that the kind of wife a man chooses is equivalent to the kind of future he chooses. Whether a man can stand high or go far in his life depends on whether he can find a good wife.
A good wife not only makes a good man, but also makes generations happy. A woman who is considerate, intelligent and sensible makes a man feel at ease. Being considerate, intelligent and reasonable is a sign of high emotional intelligence, not a compromise or humiliation. Instead, he knows how to take care of other people's emotions, deftly resolve embarrassment, and not embarrass others while maintaining his own bottom line.
When Zhang Jiahui and Guan Yonghe were in love, Guan Yonghe was the leading lady, and Zhang Jiahui was a walk-on. In everyone's eyes, Zhang Jiahui was not worthy of Guan Yonghe. Not only are there differences in career and family conditions, but my girlfriend's career is getting better day by day, and I am still a walk-on. Zhang Jiahui, who was under excessive pressure, was on the verge of collapse. He left without saying goodbye and went to South Africa to stay for 8 months. After learning that his sister was seriously ill, he rushed back to Hong Kong and saw Guan Yonghe, who had been taking good care of his eldest sister. At that moment, he realized that this woman was always by his side and in his heart. The gap between environment and performance, the pressure from public opinion and self-esteem, all made Zhang Jiahui think about giving up. But Guan Yonghe said to him: "Just because you are like this now does not mean you will be like this in the future." Guan Yonghe knew the pain in his heart, so he minimized his work, silently supported Zhang Jiahui's career, and gave him enough self-esteem and great encouragement. With the understanding, companionship and support of his wife Guan Yonghe, Nick Cheung slowly honed his acting skills, gradually improved himself, and gradually reached the pinnacle of his career, becoming the "Seventh Best Actor". To this day, Nick Cheung, who has gained both fame and fortune, says: "My wife is my biggest gain in the entertainment industry!"
A man's biggest trump card is not being wealthy or famous, but having a person who is understanding and wise. coexisting wife.
As the old saying goes: "A virtuous wife brings peace to her husband." A wife who is virtuous, sensible, and understands her husband's difficulties is the most stable Feng Shui for a family. A woman who is assertive and enterprising is a man's greatest asset.
In life, you must move forward courageously in the face of adversity. You cannot wait for miracles to appear, but you must become a miracle yourself. A woman who works hard and enterprising will definitely win at the finish line, even if she loses at the starting line.
In 2012, Obama said affectionately to Michelle in his re-election victory speech: If it weren’t for the wife I married 20 years ago, I wouldn’t be standing here today. Michelle is The soft force that keeps moving forward in my life. Michelle excelled in her studies since she was a child, skipping a grade, enrolling in a gifted class for gifted children, and finally admitted to Harvard Law School, where she received a doctorate in law and entered the legal profession. After her marriage, Michelle left the legal profession that everyone envied and changed her position several times in the field of interest, from a city hall assistant to a hospital project leader to a director of a non-profit organization. Step by step towards glory in your career, and most importantly, become the way you want to live. Before Obama was elected President of the United States, she was associate dean of the University of Chicago Medical School and executive director of several institutions. It laid a solid foundation for success in the future when Obama ran for president.
People who are not enterprising often get together, but being diligent and motivated can make each other become better people. Even in the hard times, even in the miserable wind and rain, we can support each other and go on. The self-confidence and independence of a hard-working and enterprising woman are the driving force and confidence for men to move forward, inspiring men to overcome obstacles and realize their life goals. Women who are good at business and love life determine the tone of the family.
In a TV program, the wife of Hong Kong movie star Jordan Chan once said that the wife is the weather vane of the family, and it is the woman who determines the direction of the family.
Before getting married, Jordan Chan was well-known in the entertainment industry for his bad temper. He smoked and drank all kinds of things, and went to nightclubs as a daily routine. He couldn't help but beat up paparazzi when he saw them. Negative news such as "Jordan Chan acting like a big name" and "Jordan Chan ignoring reporters" are constantly emerging.
But since being with Ying Cai'er, this once violent man has become gentle, and he has become a good gentleman and a model husband. After marriage, Chen Xiaochun restrained himself a lot. He most likes to stay at home and spend time with his wife and children. Cai'er Ying's delicacy, optimism, and gentleness created a happy and warm living environment for Jordan Chan, turning the low-self-esteem, cold and closed-minded Jordan Chan into this warm and mature man. Chen Xiaochun's changes after marriage illustrate Ying Cai'er's extraordinary wisdom as a wife in running a marriage and family, and the extent to which she dominates the happiness of the family. As a wife and mother, she fulfilled her duties, took good care of her husband and children, and arranged her family life in an orderly manner.
In a family, a wife plays multiple identities and shoulders multiple responsibilities. She is not only a wife, but also a charming woman, a loving mother, and a person who spreads warmth and love in the family.
We must not only learn to be a good daughter-in-law, a good wife, and a good mother, but we must also learn to come and go in human relationships. It is undeniable that the position of wives and the kindness of women make them more infectious in the family and hold the vane of a happy family. A woman who knows how to manage will make people feel happy and comfortable at any time. He has a good temper, does not get entangled in small matters, and is easy to discuss big matters. Giving men equal love is actually a kind of great wisdom. A woman who is good at managing herself and her life is the warmest harbor for her family. A woman with vision and structure determines the happiness of her family.
Philosopher Bacon said: "In life, a wife is the lover in youth, the partner in middle age, and the guardian in old age." The wife's cultivation and pattern not only determine the future of her children, but also It determines the height of the husband's life and is the key to a happy marriage and family.
Baidu founder Robin Li once worked as an engineer in Silicon Valley. With his extraordinary ability, he quickly became a top expert in the field of information search. Just when Robin Li was satisfied with his achievements and stopped moving forward, his wife Ma Dongmin, a highly intelligent academic student, put forward higher demands on her husband. She believes that Robin Li is an expert in the field of information technology, and he should start his own business independently because he is so outstanding. His wife's words inspired Robin Li's entrepreneurial passion, so he resolutely returned to China and founded Baidu. Robin Li's ambition was given to him by Ma Dongmin, and Ma Dongmin was a woman who knew how to manage and support her husband's career, and was ambitious and ambitious. Later, Baidu became the Internet company with the highest market value.
The wife determines the husband's future, destiny and height in life. As Bill Gates said, the smartest decision in his life was to find the right person to marry. How far the wife's vision is and how big the pattern is determines how far her husband can go on the road to success and how much he can accomplish. The role of a wife is not only a wife, but also a source of strength. She can rule the world with a man when he wins and make a comeback with him when he loses. A good wife is the most valuable person in a man's life.
I often hear old people say: Marrying the same relative will bring prosperity to three generations; marrying the wrong relative will harm three generations. Men are the backbone of a home, but women are the soul of a home. If the soul is noble, the roots of the family will become better and better.
A good woman makes a good husband and nourishes a happy family.