Cold war with my husband, no talking, no communication.
I refuse to take care of my daughter's food and drinks, Lazar, except breakfast. I have no communication with her. She can do whatever she wants. I don't care if she doesn't wash her hair, eat or change clothes.
I don't care whether I study or not. If I study, I will not study.
My daughter knew that I was angry and advised me not to be angry again. I didn't answer.
The atmosphere at home was much quieter, and there was no laughter or laughter. Others say that a woman decides the atmosphere of a family. This statement makes sense. In fact, not only the atmosphere, but also this woman determines the future of this family! At least in this family.
But I want to ask who caused this? There is no hate for no reason, and there is no love for no reason.
Because in this atmosphere for a long time, children's psychology will be affected, either they are not good at communication or they are distorted inside. Moreover, there must be a constant quarrel between husband and wife, and the quarrel is endless. It goes without saying that the hostess will be exhausted, irritable and sensitive in this environment for a long time.
It is said that the whole family has become a person with psychological problems, and the mentality determines the fate. Children can't concentrate on their studies, husbands can't concentrate on their work, and women certainly won't work well in this state of mind. How dare you expect too much from the future?
At this point, the future of this family has been finalized!
I verified this sentence with my own personal experience, so as a woman, I don't want to be that kind of person, and I began to try to put it down, even if I was forced to try to put it down. I am trying to debug myself, but it is really limited.
Because I don't know what to do with children. I want her to control her time, get up on time and take the initiative to study. Cook for yourself when you are hungry, drink water when you are thirsty, and add clothes for yourself when you are cold.
Because I doubt whether the child's various dawdles are because I take care of too much and do too much for her. So she doesn't know what to do and what not to do, and she has no sense of urgency. So I don't care about her, see how far she can go!
As for Mr. Wang, I had a little conflict with him because of family matters. Many times, I prefer to be alone, deal with my own affairs and ignore him. For me, not being together is a relief.
Because I don't agree with many of Mr. Wang's views, it seems that we have nothing to do except nominally cook me dinner every day (as if he didn't eat it himself and cooked it for me). He doesn't have to cook this dinner now. Save it for me.
It seems that we are more like strangers living in the same house. I can't feel the warmth and happiness of my family. I don't feel brave enough to solve the problem for my wife. How to make women happy? How to take care of others?
For sir, I think that's it for the time being!
If the feng shui of this family is in my hands, it should be a good thing to let it take turns from time to time.
Women hold feng shui, men hold women. Whether a woman is happy or not depends on the men in this family.
So I want to say that it is not women but men who decide the feng shui of this family!