In the folk, there is a saying that birthdays are celebrated with a whole life, but some whole lives involve unlucky figures, which people think is impossible. Then, in Feng Shui, why can't women celebrate their 4th birthday? Next, let's take a look at the analysis of Feng Shui knowledge!
Why can't a woman celebrate her 4th birthday
According to the ancient custom, at the age of 6, it is called longevity, and under 6, it is called birth.
There is a folk saying that "men don't do three things, women don't do four things". In addition to the taboo of "no three no four", there is another reason: men's thirties and women's forties are a hurdle in life, and most men will not stand in their thirties, while women's forties will be old, which is of little significance. It is a "no three no four" life state in one's life.
Another saying is "Don't have four", which says that it is best not to celebrate a woman's birthday when she is 4 years old, mainly because after she is 4 years old, it shows that women are gradually aging and some of her body functions are declining, and women don't want to get old, so it is not suitable to hold a banquet to celebrate her birthday when she is 4 years old, so remember to stagger it.
If you must have a birthday between the ages of 3 and 4, the common way is to spend the 36th birthday with friends, which means to wash away the bad luck in this birthday, and friends will also help him in this birthday. Relatively speaking, the birth year is dangerous, but the career can be slightly successful, enter the initial state, and begin to enter the prime stage of Xiaojin.
at what age is it inappropriate to have a birthday
children before the adult ceremony should not hold a special birthday
In ancient times, the adult ceremony for boys was set at 16 and that for girls was set at 14, which is a sign of their true "adulthood", so traditionally, children should not hold a big birthday before the adult ceremony. Of course, there is also a saying that this is to remind Yan Ye of the "fierce pass" of this year, so the child kept a "low profile" when he was a child, but his birthday was to prevent Yan Ye from including his name in the "life and death book".
Birthdays on 9th and th should also be paid attention to
In the traditional theory of Yin and Yang, 9 is the maximum number of Yang, and the extreme of Yang is yin, which represents emptiness and nothingness, so both and 9 are unlucky on birthdays. Therefore, when the age is nine (that is, 19, 29, 39, 49, 59, 69, 79, 89), it is the birthday of the next year. For example, a birthday at the age of 39 is called "4th birthday". This is to balance the extreme yang of 9 with the "empty of ". When you reach the age of 4, your birthday becomes your 41st birthday, just to avoid the empty space of , and to win the day, you should avoid these two numbers and say one more year.
it's not appropriate to hold a special birthday for the elderly aged 6-79.
The 6-year-old Jia Zi has a reincarnation, so the ancients thought that people's health, luck and life span would undergo severe tests before and after 6 years old. This age is a "life-and-death pass" for people, so it is absolutely not suitable for birthdays, so as not to disturb the death of Yan, so don't celebrate birthdays for nearly 2 years, once you reach 8.