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Cao Rui is the third generation leader of the Wei State's organizational structure, and he is also the leader who best embodies the complex contradictions of the Great Opening and the Great Reunion.
On the one hand, he is calm, wise, and decisive. Although he is young, he shows calm, perseverance, and decisiveness in handling state affairs. He is well versed in the way an emperor controls powerful ministers, and can well balance the relationship between the clansmen headed by Cao Zhen and Cao Xiu and the senior ministers of the gentry headed by Chen Qun and Sima Yi, giving them opportunities to fight each other and restricting each other. The fetters prevent the crisis of one person being the dominant one, and also allow them to work together to stabilize their own country and society. They can have the heroic momentum to go to the battlefield and defend the country, and they have the ambition to govern by themselves.
Cao Rui has excellent talents in managing courtiers and is good at appeasing and winning over them.
He arranged a luxurious mansion for Sima Yi, who had been dismissed by his father Cao Pi and returned to the court. He thanked Sima Yi for saving him at all costs, otherwise he would not have become the emperor today. He hoped that Sima Yi would assist him well in the future. .
Outside the court, he always called Cao Zhen uncle, eldest uncle, uncle short. On the surface, he kept them very close to him. Everyone was a member of the Cao family, and he acted as if he valued and relied on them. Whenever the fight between Sima Yi and them became too tense and intensified, they would be punished slightly to save the face of the clan.
Although Cao Rui did not go through the military test and training on the battlefield like his grandfather and father, he focused on the court and knew how to line up and deploy troops.
Zhou Li, the governor of Poyang in Soochow, asked to surrender. Cao Rui ordered the great Sima Cao Zhen to lead an army of 100,000 people, and Sima Yi was the deputy general to lead an army of 50,000 people. The troops were divided into two groups and marched into Soochow from Xunyang and Hanshui River. . Sima Yi naturally raised objections, and after some back and forth, Cao Rui finally appointed Jia Kui, recommended by Sima Yi, as the military governor to supervise Grand Sima Cao Zhen. Cao Rui made a resolute decision and planned the military campaign quite comprehensively. He took charge of the country for the first time, and his methods and ideas of governing the country and the imperial ministers have begun to emerge.
Zhuge Liang's Northern Expedition to the Kingdom of Wei launched a three-pronged surprise attack. Sima Yi was sent to Xincheng to lead the attack against Mengda, and Cao Zhen was sent to garrison at the Xiliang defense line. However, the main force of the Shu army marched into Pingyang and took Nan'an and Nan'an. Tianshui and Anding counties. The fall of the three border towns made Cao Rui furious. The war situation was reported to the court. In order to remedy the situation, Cao Rui ignored the advice of his ministers and decided to conquer Chang'an personally. He said: "I don't want to lose an inch of the land left by my ancestors." This shows the domineering ambition of the emperor.
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The other side that is in sharp contrast to his ability to distinguish right from wrong and assess the situation in government affairs is his madness, hypocrisy, cunning, dark and mean, easy to hold grudges, etc.
After Sima Yi returned to the court to attend the funeral for Cao Pi, Cao Rui put away the kindness he had just pretended to do and coldly threw away the filial hat on his head; in the palace, Cao Rui summoned painters to paint his biological mother Zhen Mi. The paintings of the painters could not satisfy Cao Rui, so the surly Cao Rui ordered all the painters to be killed, and made a decree to summon folk painters to paint his biological mother Zhen Mi. Anyone who could satisfy him would be rewarded with ten thousand gold and be granted the title of Marquis of ten thousand households. His own father, Cao Pi, was buried in the funeral. As his son, Cao Rui excused himself from heat stroke and could not go to the funeral. When he was not in court, Cao Rui was extravagant and extravagant. He kept a male favorite in the harem, indulged in wine and sex, and lived a life of indulgence. There was a great famine in Guanzhong, but Cao Rui did not show consideration for the people's sentiments and waste money. Don't care about the common people.
Such a distinct and unique personality, both positive and negative, can be traced back to the circumstances of his childhood.
The good thing about Cao Rui's growth is that his biological mother Zhen Mi is not only naturally beautiful, but also good at poetry, poetry, music, chess, calligraphy and painting. She is a woman who combines talent and beauty, so Cao Rui grew up at a young age. Under the influence and guidance of his mother, Shi Ye's intelligence should not be underestimated. He has been exposed to how his grandfather Cao Cao and father Cao Pi managed the government in the turbulent and ever-changing political situation since he was a child. Under his influence, he has a deep understanding of the imperial power and the way of governing people. , naturally have an instinctive ideal of governing the country and safeguarding the country.
On the other hand, Cao Rui's biological mother Zhen Mi was not favored and was ruthlessly sentenced to death by Cao Pi. He grew up in the grief of losing his mother. He was still brooding over the death of his mother, Zhen Mi, and found it difficult to forgive. My father was cruel and ruthless, and he attributed all his pain and anger to his father's beloved Queen Mother Guo Zhao. When he came to power, he viciously vowed to make Guo Zhao "suck rice bran in his mouth and cover his face with hair."
If his father Cao Pi doesn't love Zhen Mi, he doesn't like Cao Rui very much either. He doesn't get close to and care for her. In ancient male society, father's love is the real mountain. Without the support of the mountain, there will be no sense of security and no health. The root of mentality, and the relationship between parents also affects the child's inner development trajectory.
Children see right and wrong, while adults sometimes only see pros and cons.
For Cao Rui, after experiencing misery as a child, he was unable to solve it. His distorted temperament was full of hostility. No one sincerely cared about him. Everyone only valued their own interests and power. Since childhood, On the road of growth, he also lives cautiously and tremblingly, walking on thin ice. He may need to constantly watch his words and suppress himself.
Liu Huan, as the actor of Cao Rui, performed the role very vividly. His eyes were always cold, and there was almost no emotion, anger, sorrow, or joy on his face, and he hid them properly. Regardless of his anger, sneer, roar, emotional instability, smashing utensils, etc., he is very vivid. The long-term repressed palace life has caused serious psychological disorders in him, thus forming a multi-faceted life with multiple personalities, making him look half like The water is half like a flame.
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There was once an article "Father's Pattern, Mother's Emotions, Is the Feng Shui of the Family" which was widely read in the circle of friends as a parent education model. It mentioned: If The father has a big picture, which will have a good influence on his wife, future generations, and the mother's emotions determine the temperature of a family and the degree of harmony in the family.
If the father is the mountain, the mother is the sea. The mountain gives people support, and the sea comforts the people.
If the father is a lamp, the mother is the fire. The lamp illuminates the direction, and the fire brings warmth.
Family is built by father and mother together. The father's pattern and the mother's mood determine the feng shui of the family.
Good parents are learned: there are no born successful parents, and there are no parents who do not need to learn. Successful parents are the result of continuous learning.
Many parents blame the school, teachers, and children for their children's misfortunes, but they do not blame themselves. Excellent children are mostly the result of high-quality education, while problem children are mostly the product of problem families. Most of the children's problems are not caused by the children themselves, but are a reflection of the parents' problems. Without the changes of the parents, there will be no changes in the children.
Give your children a harmonious home: The most important thing for children to grow up healthily is a harmonious family environment. First of all, the family atmosphere gives him psychological security and happiness, which allows the child to develop in an all-round way. Not only should we provide children with a harmonious and enjoyable learning space, but we should also cultivate their life skills. Finally, take time to accompany your children, and enjoy the joy of successful learning and games with your children. Your children will definitely have a happy space for growth.