Born in the city since childhood, I don't have much feeling and understanding of Feng Shui. However, people in rural areas are very keen on Feng Shui. When building a house, moving a house, giving birth to a child, and getting married, people should be invited to see Feng Shui. It is often said that whoever gets rich has good feng shui.
I often think that such a statement is nonsense. Everything in the world operates according to its unique natural laws. Feng shui is nothing at all.
However, one thing happened last night, which made me really realize that the theory of Feng Shui is true.
The protagonist of this matter is my wife.
She began to tell me what to do. Why didn't you call me?
I said, why should I call you? It costs nothing to make a phone call?
She said, do you know how many times you didn't come home late at night and I went out to find you at night?
I said, are you stupid? Won't you call me? Why did you only let me call you?
She said, I didn't call you because I was afraid of hearing what happened with you that year on the phone.
I said, if you don't call me when you have a phone call, you should spy on me like a detective. You deserve it. I don't have time to call you or talk nonsense with a woman like you.
What she said at that time was that I went to work and was hospitalized in 2004. I was injured at work that year and my finger was run over by a machine in the middle of the night. The call was made in the hospital.
Her reason sounds specious and understandable. But what she did really made me angry.
I said, why do you want me to call you? After working outside for more than ten hours, I just want to find a quiet place to rest after work. When I got home, I was embarrassed to see your gloomy face. Who do you think you are?
So the war began.
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Today, during the day, I was lying alone in bed, relating the things I have been married for these years, especially those related to her, and finally came to a conclusion: a good woman is a man's feng shui.
We got married in 2000. At the beginning of marriage, there was nothing at home. Especially after adding children, life is even more stretched.
I have no choice but to find a part-time job. At that time, the economic level was not too high and there were not many opportunities. When I have nothing to do, I write something to contribute, which is only a few tens of dollars a month. But it is also peaceful.
It happened later. She always speaks ill of my mother behind her back. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been the most difficult contradiction in the world since ancient times. I understand and I put up with it. But that time, she actually made my mother angry. She was very ill. But in the end I put up with it.
She is a dog who can't change her mind and eats shit. Three years ago, she made my mother angry again. I can't help it I can't take it anymore. I pushed our marriage directly to the brink of divorce.
She may have been frightened that time. She's scared. But in recent years, she seems to have forgotten again. Directly challenge my bottom line and principles. I don't want to always use divorce as an old lady's reason, but I really have no choice. Actually, I'm tired of this marriage. I didn't mean to scare her. In fact, I have long had the idea of divorce, and I only need one reason, and she gave me a legitimate reason today.
Divorce. Although I am a decent person. But I don't think it's so embarrassing. On the contrary, you will get a kind of relief. Because she is a stupid woman. Living with such a woman all her life is tantamount to wasting her life. I'm halfway through my life, and the first half of my life has been wasted by this ignorant and fearless woman. I want to make the rest of my life easier.
She always said, it's a pity to marry you. You have never made a fortune in your life.
I said, why didn't you make any money? Has nothing to do with you? I opened an outpatient clinic in 14, and the business was good at that time, but this stupid woman suspected that I was having an affair with a female client and often secretly watched me, so she finally had to stop operating.
In the face of this stupid woman, I am really speechless.
This time, she really broke my taboo. I no longer tolerate her, and tolerating her will only bring cruelty to myself.
She begged me to spare her life again. I won't listen to her nonsense anymore, so the last thing I gave her was: get out! ! !