There is a saying that "three flowers don't give away, but they become enemies", which means that flowers can't be given away casually, and giving away three kinds of flowers is easy to turn good intentions into bad things. Maybe many people have made this mistake.
Lotus lantern is a flower with bad meaning.
Thousands of flower varieties, whether cultivated or wild, are endowed with fixed flower language or meaning according to legends or habits, which is beyond the control of flowers, but people will care about its flower language or meaning in the process of raising flowers.
Take epiphyllum as an example. I've only heard of it before, and it gives people a feeling of being a mysterious and beautiful flower. It's really beautiful and fragrant when raised at home, and it's worth raising.
Because epiphyllum can be cut with leaves, I cut the leaves and share them with my best friend neighbors.
Later, I learned that it is not good to give people epiphyllum, because its flowering period is very short, which symbolizes "short life".
There are chrysanthemums, corn poppy, Margaret and so on. , has a bad meaning. It is recommended that you keep it for yourself and don't give it away casually, so as not to cause unnecessary misunderstanding and do bad things with good intentions.
Epiphyllum is easy to "hurt" people's flowers and plants.
Flowers and plants that are easy to "hurt" people are mostly poisonous or prickly varieties, such as rhododendron, cordate telosma, other flowers, lilies and so on. Are these flowers beautiful?
But in fact, the azaleas and flowers there hide toxicity under their beautiful appearance. Touching their juices or eating them by mistake will do harm to people.
The fragrance of lily and cordate telosma is too strong, which may cause respiratory discomfort and dizziness and should not be given away.
There are also plants such as mimosa, Datura stramonium, coral cherry and prickly cactus, which are easy to "hurt" people. It is recommended not to give it away to avoid becoming an "enemy".
Flowers and plants with unlucky flower names
Many people pay attention to the process of raising flowers, and some even pay attention to the names of flowers and plants. If there are unlucky and homophonic flowers and plants, people will have bad ideas, so they will not raise them.
For example, the homophonic "elegiac couplet" of bowl lotus will be unlucky; The homonym of "plum" and "mildew" in plum blossom will lead to bad luck; Fusang homophonic "mourning" will bring bad things.
Although these statements have no scientific basis, they will cause psychological discomfort, so try not to reveal them, lest the other party think too much and become an "enemy."
There are also homophones such as jasmine "unprofitable" and gladiolus "seeing difficulties", and it is not appropriate to give them away, so as not to cause misunderstanding and do bad things with good intentions.
Flowers and plants suitable for giving away
Longevity flower: it means health and longevity, because it has a long flowering period, good meaning and good maintenance, and will be liked by the elderly.
Orchid: Known as a "gentleman in flowers", it symbolizes high quality and is suitable for respected elders and the elderly at home.
Wealth tree, cash cow: it means "prosperous population and abundant financial resources", which is suitable for friends who open a shop or celebrate it.
In fact, there are many flowers suitable for giving, such as Phalaenopsis, carnations, roses, Liriodendron, happiness trees and peony flowers. Before sending flowers, look at what you want to express, and then choose the right flowers, so that everyone is happy.
Although the starting point of sending flowers is good, the varieties we choose are not suitable. Giving it to others is easy to cause misunderstanding. Doing bad things with good intentions makes everyone unhappy and loses the original intention of sending flowers.