Question 1: What to do if you have bad luck. In short:
Please stop lamenting about bad luck, follow these 4 simple rules, and you will soon have good luck.
Opportunities: Lucky people usually maintain a more relaxed attitude and are more willing to try new things.
Intuition: Sometimes trusting your intuition can bring you good luck.
Hope: Those who we consider lucky will always have hope that their wishes will come true, and have a strong hope that good luck will always be with them. If a person spends a few minutes every day thinking about the pleasant things that happened that day, he will feel that he has always been accompanied by good luck.
Positive Mentality: It is possible to turn bad luck into good by looking at things positively. For example, imagine a challenge that awaits you with a good outcome. A good attitude "attracts" good luck. Even if the final result is not satisfactory, I consider myself lucky. Remember that things could have been worse.
The above are some methods of psychologist Richard Wiseman. There are Chinese translations of his books in China, "The Psychological Mysteries Behind Luck" and "Weird Psychology: Revealing the Unbelievable Everyday Life" Phenomenon", "59 Seconds", etc.
Dr. Richard Wiseman is a prestigious professor of social psychology at the University of Hertfordshire in the UK. He has spent more than ten years studying the impact of people’s daily behaviors on their lives. The impact on the trajectory of life, in other words, is what behaviors are linked to luck, and what behaviors miss the good things that should have happened. In his book "The Luck Factor" published in 2003, he talked about many of his own behaviors and processing patterns related to luck. He believed: "Luck is not magic, nor is it a gift from God. Lucky or not , is determined by your thoughts and behavior." He believes that probability accounts for about 10%, and the remaining 90% of luck factors depend on oneself.
Richard meaningfully said that "lucky" people are aware, they are sensitive, they do not hesitate to try, and they welcome the emergence and occurrence of opportunities and new things. If luck means being in the right place at the right time, or doing the right thing in the right place, then the so-called correctness depends on whether thoughts and actions are in a so-called "correct" field.
Question 2: What does human luck have to do with, and what to do if you have bad luck. In fact, "fate" and "luck" are completely different things. "Fate" is innate, destined, and cannot be changed. But "luck" can be adjusted and changed. "Luck" will change because of your choices and efforts. Everything has a process from birth to death, and people also live within this specific law, but people have not completely lost the ability to control "destiny". As long as we choose the best position for ourselves and find the path suitable for our own development, happiness and success will follow.
So how do we change our current situation and then our destiny?
1. Understand yourself
It is not easy to truly understand yourself. Many people live for most of their lives without truly understanding what kind of person they are. What do you want, your own strengths and weaknesses, your own likes and dislikes, so you can't find your place, you can't see clearly the direction of life development, and you have missed the best time once you wake up in a state of confusion.
Therefore, if you want to truly change your destiny through your own efforts, the first thing you need to do is to understand yourself, what is good for you, what is harmful to you, and your own life positioning, life direction and goals. , can you truly take control of your own destiny and change your destiny in a targeted manner. Otherwise, everything is empty talk. Even if you are full of ambitions, you are likely to hit the wall. Even if you are full of knowledge, you are likely to be unrecognized. .
2. Understand the environment
From birth to independence to starting a family, we are constantly affected by the surrounding environment and the people and things around us. No one can block external forces, so We should also try our best to explore and explore the environment in which we live, whether it is as large as the entire world or a country, or as small as a unit, a department, or a family. Only by understanding the environment can we adapt to the environment and change the environment to our benefit.
3. Beliefs and mentality
"Some people are always very lucky." You often hear others say this. However, have you ever thought about why these people can still create so many opportunities even in the face of adversity? It is undeniable that some people are born with good luck. They always get twice the result with half the effort, and there is always someone to help them when they are in trouble. However, such people with good fortune or good luck are, after all, very few and far between. The vast majority of them are rare. People do not have such a good destiny, so they have to strive for and work hard on their own. Only with righteous thoughts can we walk well, fast and steadily.
In addition to those who are born with good luck, people who are lucky have one outstanding characteristic, that is: they all know how to attract good luck and how to inspire others to help them. . These often come from the person's beliefs and mentality. A sunny, positive and happy person will always have a group of people around him who are willing to get close to him, help him, and share good things with him, while a dark, complaining and melancholy person will always have a group of people around him. There will be fewer and fewer people. No one is willing to listen to his complaints and complaints all day long, let alone endure his sarcasm and meanness. For such people, the road often becomes narrower and narrower. So it is self-evident what kind of mentality we should have and what kind of beliefs we should adhere to.
4. Correctly use external forces
In previous articles, we have successively talked about these methods of using external forces, such as: adjusting one's own aura, adjusting the Feng Shui environment, and using the power of noble people. Wait, using the help of these external forces correctly and effectively can often achieve very good results, but the prerequisite is your own efforts and efforts. Pies in the sky will not fall into the sky, no matter how good fate, luck, or Feng Shui are. , if you don’t work hard, even if you gain something, it won’t last long, just like someone who gets rich overnight but ends up in poverty and desperate situation. In the face of this help, we must be grateful and use it as motivation and assistance to move forward. We cannot place all our hopes on these people, things, and things. Only with a right view can we truly use these external forces to seek a happier and happier life for ourselves.
5. The power of faith
It is undeniable that there are forces unknown to us in this world, and there are always some energies that we have not explored and understood. Often expressed or realized through different beliefs, whether it is one's own firm goals or religious beliefs, it is a kind of energy, especially popular beliefs, which can form a powerful magnetic field with the aura of the group, thereby putting the individual in a In a strong energy field, if this kind of belief is good and positive, then we can obtain positive energy from it. This is the principle of "when everyone adds fuel, the flame will rise".
Question 3: What should people do if they are unlucky? Every day during the year, some people will face unfortunate events such as unemployment, demotion, bankruptcy, separation, illness, broken love, car accidents, natural disasters, etc. It can be summarized in one sentence - bad luck, so why do people have bad luck? Have you ever thought about whether you have any problems yourself? When people encounter misfortune, they are often negative, and bad luck is just Randomness is short-lived. You can change the situation through some of your own methods. Let's take a look. Here are some ways to change people's bad luck: 2. Only by doing good deeds sincerely can you accumulate virtue - no matter you do any charity or help people in need, you must have a sincere heart. 3. Only by accumulating more virtue and doing more good deeds can you get more rewards. 4. Engage in various arrangements happily, and treat the people and things around you with enthusiasm and a true heart. 5. Believe that you can realize your dreams, and you can succeed as long as you work hard. 7. Don’t be frustrated, don’t complain, don’t be angry, and face life optimistically. 8. You must choose the friends around you correctly. Don't make some cunning friends who will not help you at all. Being close to the red will make you red, and being close to the ink will make you black. Being able to make good friends will also be helpful to you in the future.
Question 4: What should I do if I have bad luck? What should I do if I have been having bad luck? What should I do if I have bad luck? People have ups and downs of luck. No one will have bad luck in his life, and no one will have good luck in his life. Luck is like the tide, rising and falling. However, luck is erratic and unpredictable. Good things come one after another when good luck comes. , when bad luck comes, you can't drive it away. Everyone wants good luck and tries to avoid bad luck. Good luck is the stepping stone to our success. However, when bad luck comes, we don't have to be too negative to deal with it. We must do our best to contend with fate. As the saying goes, success depends on people, planning depends on heaven, and we must work hard to do our best. In addition, there are certain ways to cooperate well. Taoyunge will explain to you what to do when you have bad luck? How can we change our bad luck? First, psychological factors. Psychological factors can affect a person's immediate luck, and they can also affect your luck in life. A person who has hatred for the world, hatred for the rich, and jealousy of talents will find it difficult to get along with others and blame all his pain on others. Good luck will also keep away from other people. If you hate the world, the world will hate you. If you tolerate the world, the world will tolerate you. If the world tolerates you, you will own the world. If we want to have good luck, we must first learn to cultivate. The heart nourishes the nature. Second, there is no good luck, which is a bit cruel. What I have to say is that many people really don’t have good luck, so there are too many tragedies of the lower class people, and their fate is low. Even if they are lucky, they are just a little better than before. They have worked hard all their lives, but they have no results. gained. So I suggest that if possible, try to do something you like. The other type is those with high level of horoscope but no good luck. They are generally not poor and have good food and clothing. There are too many people like this, such as the second-generation rich people who have failed in their careers, or the frustrated executives and white-collar workers in office buildings. They just need to be careful in everything to avoid unnecessary disasters. Third, those whose good fortune has passed. This kind of people usually have good luck in their early years, but in their middle and later years they have bad luck or go against their destiny. When people reach middle age, they feel depressed when they see that their friends around them are all successful in their careers and their houses and cars change every year. In Taoyunge's view, this is not necessary. Everyone's luck is destined by God. Since good luck no longer exists, it is good not to focus on your career, but to experience the joy of life. . Fourth, according to your own numerology and horoscope characteristics and your zodiac sign's fortune, for example, when some people encounter evil spirits such as their birth year, Tai Sui, white tiger, tengu, five ghosts, etc., their fortune is likely to be relatively low. At this time, you should take measures to To resolve the fortune of your own zodiac sign, Taoyunge will explain the fortune of each zodiac sign at the beginning of each year, so you may wish to pay more attention. Fifth, do good deeds and accumulate virtue to change your destiny. Correct behavior can change the good or bad changes in luck, but it cannot change a person's nature and talent, as well as the destined good and bad luck; while accumulating one's own quality and virtues can change a person's nature, and even the innate wisdom, which changes the destiny. The nature of good and bad fortune. Therefore, doing good deeds can change luck, accumulating virtue can change destiny, and doing good deeds and accumulating virtue can change destiny. The way to change your destiny by doing good deeds and accumulating virtues must be based on yourself and constantly improving yourself. Correct behavior and dealing with things are the real way to change your destiny. However, fate is doomed, the fate of human talent itself is doomed, and nature is difficult to change. Therefore, although there are good ways to change fate, in fact, only a few people can change their fate. Most people will survive under the rules of fate. However, although you cannot change your destiny by doing good deeds and accumulating virtues in the right way, you can more or less improve your destiny.
Question 5: What should people do when they have bad luck? People have different horoscopes and they all want good luck, but everyone will definitely have bad luck. It is said that when people are unlucky, they will choke when they drink water. Many people know this. If you are not lucky, burn incense and worship Buddha. Some people will definitely do this, and it may be useful. Sometimes some methods still work. A friend of mine has been choking almost every time he drinks water recently. I have never seen him so unlucky. Stepping on dog poop is nothing, losing money on the stocks he just bought, and losing valuable things when he went out. What’s even more hateful is There was also a thief in the house, but luckily I found it in time, but it was a pity that he ran away. My friend complained to me about his bad luck all day long, and he couldn’t understand why. He also complained about God’s injustice, saying that he burned incense and prayed to Buddha all the time, and he was doing well on the first and fifteenth day of the lunar month. Why didn’t he bless him for peace? , instead of getting rich and becoming a high official, at least you should be free from disasters. Seeing him being so unlucky made me feel downcast and my mood wasn't much better. I was worried that the bad luck would be contagious as well.
It's not that I dislike him, I'm really afraid of bad luck, and I don't want to be unlucky too. Who doesn't want to live a stable life? I could only find a way to help him. Helping him also meant helping myself. I decided to give him a little hope and help him get rid of his bad luck, and came up with one of my trump cards. There is a kind of blessing bag in the store that helps you get rich on Taobao. The sellers Yuan Ying and Fan Fei said that this bag is consecrated and can drive away bad luck. Carrying it with you will improve your luck. Everything you do will go well and you will be in a good mood. stand up. I was very unlucky for a while, and it was really uncomfortable. So it was hard for me to understand my friend's mood, and I didn't want to be unlucky too. Later, I bought a wish bag for myself, but I didn’t expect it to be really useful. My luck improved quickly. Unlucky things didn’t happen again, and I felt much better because of it. This is my great discovery. When my friend is in trouble, I want to share my good luck with him, so I give him a wish bag, hoping that he will get better soon and that good luck will definitely accompany him. I think he will thank me soon, and his good luck will come soon. Everyone needs good luck, and only with good luck can they be in a good mood.
Question 6: What should a person do if he has bad luck? Patience and activity. If you endure the current situation and move around more in different places, new opportunities may arise.
Question 7: What should a person do if he has bad luck? Isn't this simple? Find someone lucky enough to be with him every day.
Question 8: What should a person do if he has always had bad luck? I've always had bad luck. It shows that you are psychologically immature. I always like to use bad luck to get rid of my own responsibilities. Think about the happy things, or you won't feel like you're constantly down on your luck. Don't be too hasty in doing things, and don't take the risk of uncertainty! Maybe slowly you won't feel this way anymore. . . . .
Question 9: What should people do if they have bad luck? A person is born with a destiny, which is determined by the good and evil in the previous life and has nothing to do with the good and evil in this life. What changes the good and evil in this life is luck, so we can Change destiny, but destiny is not easy to change. You must accumulate merit to a certain extent before it can be reversed. Therefore, there are people who are not bad people, but are unhappy and short-lived. That is because they have not done enough and have not been able to do anything powerfully. Break through your innate destiny.
Therefore, if you are dedicated to good deeds, don’t worry about your future. Destiny is divided into destiny and luck. Fate cannot be chosen, but luck can be changed and created. Therefore, this destiny can be transformed through acquired efforts, because destiny can be changed by mastering luck. "Four Lessons from Liaofan"---tells us what destiny is, and tells us how to change ourselves to change luck, thereby changing destiny. "Four Lessons from the Mortal World" is a book that should be passed down to future generations. It is a classic. There are movie and TV versions of the book. You can search it online. Luck can be created. If luck is always good or bad, your destiny will change. The quality of luck depends on whether a person is good or not. Good luck will get better, bad luck will get worse. If you are always good, your luck will always be good. Many bad things that should happen will not happen or will hurt Xiaodian. This is the fate of a person. It will change, and the same goes for bad deeds. The key is to persevere, and your destiny will change. Of course, everything you do will change, because there is good and evil. Ordinary people often do things with a mixture of good and evil, which cancel each other out. If you want to change your destiny, You have to work hard and do more good deeds, then your destiny will develop in one direction and change a lot. Of course, kindness must be truly kind in heart, not Ah Q. In real life, many people think that weak people are good people. In fact, this is not necessarily true. Some people are bullied and dare not resist with their mouths. In their hearts, they may have cut the other person into pieces. This is not called kindness. Really Goodness means kindness with a large heart. This is what is meant by the so-called great blessings. Real kindness must be righteous and full of righteousness. This kind of righteousness can destroy evil spirits and suppress evil spirits and heretics. Never do what others say. It is said that good people don't have that kind of anger and can't suppress evil spirits. Therefore, such people are often bullied by bad people and can't get along with good people. Of course, some people want to question, aren’t there so many bad people in society living well? That's because everyone's destiny is different. Some have more blessings and some have less. Those with more blessings have a larger base and have greater inertia of fate. They can withstand consumption, but they are always decreasing. I remember that two people in our village killed a snake together. One of them got sick and died within a few days, while the other lived for many years. Therefore, everyone's luck is different, and some can withstand it. Some cannot bear it, and of course those who can bear it will lose their lives.
The best and fastest way to achieve good fortune and a long and healthy life is to quit killing and protect living creatures, eat vegetarian food, and release animals. Of course, you must be sincere.
When seeking marriage or children, you can pray to Guanyin Bodhisattva. Of course, you must be respectful and sincere. Where does the respectful and sincere heart reflect? Of course, you must be respectful when praying to the Bodhisattva (don’t pray while chanting in your heart) I’m thinking, does this work? It probably won’t work because your heart is not right.) What's more, it is reflected in one's own behavior, truly abandoning evil and doing good. This is called true respect and sincerity. Many people now don't understand this truth. Just blindly worshiping Bodhisattva, burning incense and donating money, but not regulating your own behavior and not being truly respectful, so it is not very effective. Some people feel that they have spiritual enlightenment, and many of them are inherent in their own destiny, rather than something they seek.
Question 10: What should I do if I have bad luck? I have been very unlucky recently. How can I accept my fate correctly? Further to the theory of destiny change, the main factors that affect a person's life destiny can be summarized in order of importance into one: destiny, two: luck, three: feng shui, the fourth: accumulation of blessings and merit, and the fifth: self-effort. In the past, people's lives were relatively simple, and it was difficult for them to have many means to change their own destiny, which is why fatalism emerged. But modern society is very different! The country can be changed, and so can the character. Prevention is better than cure. To change one's luck, we must start from the three major prerequisites of Feng Shui, accumulation of merit (cultivation), and self-effort.
After a person deeply understands his own destiny and the characteristics of his own resources, he will take the offensive and be proactive when good luck comes; he will switch to defensive when bad luck occurs to avoid unnecessary consumption of limited resources. . Only by understanding the possible signs and trajectory of the God of Disaster in advance, and then using personal willpower to take preventive control in advance, and cooperate with the help of Feng Shui, can we achieve the level of pursuing good luck and avoiding bad luck, and making good luck more good. There is a saying that "all phenomena are empty, and cause and effect are not empty." The words and deeds you make today will be the results tomorrow. Therefore, simply relying on changes in the external environment cannot meet the need to change your life. What is more important is your own Work hard, focus on the disadvantages in your destiny, work hard to change and optimize yourself, and adjust your own style and strategies, so as to truly change your destiny!
Everyone hopes that they can have good luck every day and have surprises waiting for them every day, but only a small number of people realize that this is possible, but for those who are unlucky, the most important thing is Just find the best way to change your luck. The first is to adjust your mentality. Mentality is the most important thing. The outside world is like a mirror. If you have a bad mentality and a bad mood, then bad luck will accompany you. On the contrary, if your mentality is relaxed, happy, and helpful, If you love life, your heart will have a positive influence, and the environment around you will slowly get better. The second is to do more good deeds. It goes without saying that when you do good deeds, your friends will understand. The key is what things count as good deeds? In fact, doing good deeds is very simple. For example, it is considered a good deed to relieve a depressed friend. Of course, if you can go to Hope Primary School to tell stories to the students or make donations to charities, it will be a great good deed. However, no matter how big or small a good deed is, the most important thing is the intention. Help the people you can help, God will usually favor such kind people, and good people will always be rewarded. The third is to get rid of bad luck. Prepare thirty-three pieces of glutinous rice, put three of your hair into the glutinous rice (three three three means scatter, scatter), and then put the glutinous rice and hair into a red envelope bag. When you go out, place the red envelope bag at the intersection closest to your home. , if people and vehicles step on it, the bad luck will disappear! Good luck will follow.