The reasons why the ashes cannot be taken home are as follows:
1. From the perspective of the soul of the deceased, the urn should not be placed at home.
The reason is that if the urn is placed at home, it means that the soul of the deceased has returned to the home, and the deceased has to watch his family eat, drink, and litter in the world. With the chaos of the world, we all talk about the deceased. Rest in peace, how can the deceased rest in peace like this. Although this solves the missing feeling of the living people and expresses their filial piety, it is a kind of imprisonment for the deceased. The same reason is why placing the urn at home to prevent the deceased from resting in peace.
2. From a physical perspective, the dead and the living are different species with different magnetic fields.
The urn is a very taboo substance for people. Even if it is a family, the sensitivity to it is different. Since everyone’s physical quality is different, some people may have physical or psychological problems due to it. discomfort.
3. From a Feng Shui perspective, the ashes of the deceased will also have a Feng Shui effect on future generations.
Chinese people pay great attention to the burial of their ashes. Putting the ashes in an ungrounded place like home will not have a good Feng Shui effect.
Notes on the burial of ashes
1. According to the almanac, choose an auspicious day for the deceased to be buried.
2. Relatives of the deceased, accompanied by the undertaker, first burn a small amount of yellow paper in the tomb, commonly known as "warm cave", to show that the deceased also has a "warm home" ".
3. The relatives of the deceased will personally sprinkle some Fuyin soil on the bottom of the tomb. Fuyin soil has the functions of moisture-proof, insect-proof and protecting the urn. Then you can sit facing south or west and carefully place the urn.
4. After placing the urn, you can put gold or silver cloth on it, commonly known as "gold and silver covering", which means honoring the deceased and symbolizing prosperity and wealth in the next life.