As the saying goes, "one household opens two households, and people and money are empty", what does it mean? What makes sense?

Words are not rough, but proverbs are not necessarily vulgar. The proverb shared with you today is "one family has two households, and people and money are in a dilemma." As the name implies, if a family opens two doors, then there may be a phenomenon that people and money are scattered to the disadvantage of the family. Speaking of which, some people will definitely retort that this is pure nonsense. In fact, I am not surprised by this rebuttal. After all, such an explanation has no scientific basis. I also asked some old people in the village, and their explanation can be summarized as follows: we might as well read it first and then draw a conclusion! 1. Opening two gates will bring security risks to the house: everyone knows that the structure and materials of previous houses were very simple, especially in rural areas, just like the house in my hometown, which was made up of 4-5 single earth walls. It can't be as strong as reinforced concrete now, let alone have any load-bearing design. Therefore, if two doors are opened on the same single wall, it will inevitably have a certain impact on the wall, and even collapse seriously. If the collapse means that the personal safety and property safety will be affected to a certain extent for the owner, then it can be said that the loss of both people and money is not worth the candle.

2. Opening two doors will affect the family's fortune and fortune: real rural people will know that building a house in the countryside is very particular about the door, which can be said to be careless at all. Whether it's across the hall, through the wall, or closing the door, they have to ask carpenters or masons, or masons to kill chickens and pray for God. In other words, rural people attach great importance to the feng shui of the door. Therefore, when building a house, the position of the gate is absolutely not allowed to be changed, and it is not allowed to open another gate. In addition, rural people have a traditional concept that the gate is the "financial gate" and "air inlet" of a family (there is a custom of opening a financial gate on New Year's Day). Of course, I hope that all kinds of wealth in the family can only enter and not go out. If you open two doors, it will never survive. Besides, the main function of the house is to shelter from the wind and rain. If you open two doors, it is equivalent to an additional air inlet. In cold weather, the house is as cold as an ice house, so it is not surprising that one family can't open two doors.

3. Opening two doors will affect the unity and harmony of family members: for family members, access must be the same door. If you go in and out through two doors, family members will take care of each other like "strange strange bedfellows", and there will definitely be no harmony. Speaking of which, it reminds me of a family in my hometown. My son lived with his parents when he first got married, and it didn't take long for various contradictions to follow. Daughter-in-law and mother-in-law quarreled for three days and quarreled for five days. There are a lot of troubles at home, but if we split up, there seems to be no spare house at home. In the end, there is no way to split the house in two. Parents-in-law live in the first room, while sons and daughters-in-law live in the back room. However, the front door was opened on the wall of the main house, and it was obvious that the son and daughter-in-law could never leave the main house again. In the end, only one door was opened on the back wall, so it is generally said that a family opens two doors because of family discord.

To sum up, it is not difficult for everyone to understand the meaning of the sentence "one household opens two households, and people and money are empty".

Of course, as for whether it is meaningful, I believe everyone must have an answer in their hearts.

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