Su Mingyu, a sales genius who became the sales manager of Zhongcheng Group at a young age and was highly valued by Lao Meng, the chairman of the board, seemed to have infinite scenery on the surface, but in fact he was tortured by intrigue in the workplace and family ties. Whether dealing with the company's troubles or being forced to take over the mess at home, every "battle" played by Su Mingyu has become a highlight in the play.
The story is gripping and arouses the audience's frequent thinking. Have we all achieved the so-called "everything is fine"?
Su Mingyu appeared as a busy person in the workplace.
After her mother died, she was still dealing with the layoffs in the company. In the face of the big brother's accusation that "why didn't anyone accompany her when her mother died", she directly listed three reasons, as if dealing with a business.
On the other hand, however, he made an appointment for his mother's funeral. After repeated questioning by Master Meng, he didn't say his difficulties, only that it was a private matter. He went to the meat eater alone and sat there for several hours.
As a person in the workplace, she didn't bring personal emotions to her work, let alone complain to anyone and deal with her own affairs silently.
Afterwards, she flew to Chengdu and sincerely apologized to Mr. Hong for breaking her promise. In order to meet the angry manager Hong, she relented and moved the office to the living room. In Chengdu, she was forced to eat hot pot full of Chili peppers, disgusting rabbit's head and duck intestines, poured herself a large glass of white wine directly, and fell asleep in the bathtub after getting drunk.
When Master Meng was hospitalized, the company faced an audit crisis. She did not hesitate to sacrifice her second sister-in-law to save the country laid by her master.
When Mr. Meng was faced with the dilemma of giving up his family business and listing his company, Su Mingyu took out the evidence of his mother and brother in order to save the master family, volunteered and became a villain completely, pretending to bully his mother and let Mr. Meng be a good person to deal with it, thus successfully eliminating the "moth" of the company.
When he saw that Lao Yuan, an old employee of his Jiangnan branch, made a small mistake in his work, Su Mingyu did not pursue it directly, but did the opposite, let him get a promotion and a raise, and sent two more people to be his assistants. Because she knows that old employees have a lot of customer resources in their hands, they will be desperate only if they are in a hurry. In fact, the two newcomers sent by Jiapai want to disperse his client resources and try him when the time is ripe.
Stand in the long-term interests of the company, don't be impulsive, don't startle.
It is common to plead for others in the workplace, but Su Mingyu's handling of Zhou Jie for his second brother is refreshing. She didn't directly threaten her with her power and position, but encouraged her to be tolerant and forgiving by going beyond her former boss and letting bygones be bygones for what others did to her in the past.
In the face of the unreasonable behavior of the master's beloved son Meng Xiao, Su Mingyu is always one foot higher than the devil.
Meng Xiao tried to get himself fired by being rude and unreasonable, making noise by playing games and expelling customers, but Su Mingyu stopped withholding his salary and harassed him to play games. Finally, I touched Meng Xiao with the dream of national rejuvenation, and let him know the important task on his body, starting from the grassroots and taking on his own responsibilities.
Su Mingyu's family background is a true portrayal of most families in China. Because of her mother's eccentricity, she lives under the same roof, but she doesn't feel the same warmth. Stubborn, she fought for her unfair treatment and argued for her due rights.
/kloc-when she was 0/8 years old, she knew it was useless to rebel against her family and began to rebel against her fate. In order to support herself, she distributed leaflets, promoted herself in supermarkets, often drunk in the bathtub for entertainment, and was forced to eat super spicy hot pot and disgusting rabbit head to save the company's performance, forcing herself to become a sales wizard and beauty president.
Many children persecuted by their families can't be as rebellious, stubborn, strong and spineless as Mingyu. More and more people choose to give in to fate. They don't want to prove that they are right and others are wrong. They only blame their family origins for their career and family failures.
As long as there are some Chinese sons and daughters who are constantly striving for self-improvement, we should not complain about others. Being born in a family may be a stumbling block to our starting line, but it will never be an insulator between us and success.
Su Daqiang, played by Dahongni, is a typical selfish father. He was timid and afraid of his wife when he was young. After his wife died, he made all kinds of unreasonable demands and embarrassed his children.
In the face of his father's various demons, Su Mingyu saw the move. Seeing her father who was "sad" because of Su Mu's death groaning on his eldest brother's leg in the living room, she revealed the truth that her father wanted to go to America with his eldest brother in a few words and bought a lot of expensive clothes for his trip.
When her father ate duck neck secretly and had a stomachache, she asked Shi Dongpo to take delivery to her father, but she didn't let her family know.
When my uncle came to my father's house because my second brother owed money, he took out Sue's mother's household registration book before her death, and in a few words, he solved the problem that three people in Sue's family were helpless.
In order to reassure her eldest brother to return to the American family, she put aside her prejudices and took on the obligation of taking care of her father, drove away the nanny who cheated money and the house, took Su Daqiang to her mansion and cooked for her personally.
Although she hates her father's weakness, Su Mingyu can't give up her affection that blood is thicker than water. Cold-blooded and heartless on the surface, there is no obligation to support his father, but there is really a warm spring in his heart, and he has done a lot of warm-hearted things behind his back.
Many young people want to be as smart as Su Mingyu, distinguish between right and wrong, be filial and sensible, but they can't do it well if they want to.
The most direct reason is that the heart wants something but is unable to do it.
Not everyone is as successful and rich as Su Mingyu. Without saying anything, they can take their father to live in a big mansion and send him home privately. More people pay nine to five and four to five thousand yuan a month, take on hundreds of thousands of mortgages, eat cheap noodles, send their children back to rural primary schools to be left-behind children, and send some living expenses to their parents every month.
Every family has its own problems. Even though many people have the intention to mediate family conflicts, they don't have the wisdom and patience to find the root of the problem, and they don't have the ability to control the overall situation and reverse the old ideas of their families. Seeing the problem at first sight depends on a keen mind and long-term observation, and solving the problem depends on smooth and firm implementation.
If you just want to do it but have no ability to do it, you will live as a hypocritical Su Mingzhe. If you don't want to do it at all and blindly think that you are right, you will live to be an unrepentant Su Mingcheng who sucks the flesh and blood of your parents.
Su Mingcheng, the second brother played by Guo Jingfei, is a mambo dog that bites people. He bullied Su Mingyu blindly because of his mother's love for him and took her to the hospital, so he was detained by the police.
In the face of the intercession of the whole family, Su Mingyu did not relent, but took out legal weapons to dismiss them all. Finally, at the suggestion of her eldest brother, she decided to let Su Mingcheng go, but recorded a video of him reading the confession as a weight to protect herself.
In an era when everyone's ideas are distorted, everyone only cares about whether Cheng will be sentenced, and few people care about how seriously Mingyu is injured. Taking up legal weapons to protect themselves is regarded as heartless and cold-blooded, and even the video as an amulet has to be deleted under the pressure of family members. While we deeply regret Mingyu, should we also reflect on ourselves?
Mingyu has a touching line in the play: I gradually understand that relatives are also deeply connected.
When you grow up, you should also understand that some family ties are broken. Cutting off the messy family ties will not bring us benefits, but will only bring a series of unexpected effects.
Most of our relatives can't come up with 200,000 jade at once, but they may be uncles who will blackmail100,000. We always think that doing nothing is to give ourselves a way out, and we don't have the courage to say such rude words as "I really don't know you" like Mingyu.
Giving someone a rose and leaving a lingering fragrance in your hand is a sign of kindness. Being kind to people and becoming attached to them everywhere is a good reputation. However, if we don't have the energy to deal with complex interpersonal relationships, we may be able to play a greater role by properly cutting off some rampant human relationships and maintaining our core relationships.
Although Su Mingyu had to sacrifice his second sister-in-law because of the company's interests, it was clear between public and private. Please ask manager Meng to help her make it clear to her boss and let her get a promotion and a raise. When Ersao borrowed 200,000 yuan from her because her father bought a house, she also readily agreed. Later, from a neutral point of view, she gave reasonable suggestions on whether to divorce.
Su Mingyu is not only well-organized in dealing with workplace and family affairs, but also slightly better than the average person in dealing with love.
God is fair. If you close a door, you will open a window. Born rich but yearning for freedom, Shi Tiandong is the window to Su Mingyu from heaven.
When meeting the right man, Su Mingyu sprayed perfume, lying on the sofa exuded seductive charm, and offered a kiss on her own initiative, which firmly captured Shi Tiandong's heart. Fatal temptation and looming distance make the rhythm of love just right.
Even if I break up on impulse, I will bow my head and admit my mistake when I calm down later, and save the love I shouldn't have lost with a set of carefully prepared lettering props.
Su Mingyu is resilient and brave in pursuing love. When she makes a mistake, she puts down her self-esteem and admits her mistake, giving people a step down. Both gentle and kind, and coquetry.
When fate comes, how to correctly grasp the timing of love is not our trouble. At an ignorant age, I met someone I like, or I was too eager to confess, or I was too shy to confess, and I missed a beautiful marriage.
The biggest tragedy of this play is that Su Mu married Su Daqiang, and they were dissatisfied and disliked each other, but they stayed together for life and death. Su Mu can't stand Su Dajiang's weakness. Su Dajiang was extremely afraid of Su Mu's strength and sharpness, but said that everything was for her children.
What did their stubborn marriage bring to their children? Is it all kinds of care? Extremely pampered Or have plenty of food and clothing? However, Su Ming is well-fed, Su Mingzhe got his wish abroad, and Su Mingyu? Only the hatred of parents' preference is left.
It is the best choice if the Su family and his wife recognize the reality as soon as possible and stop insisting on an unharmonious marriage.
In a loveless marriage, it is much harder to stay than to leave. Unhappy marriage is the grave of love and the chief culprit of children's abnormal psychology.
Su Mingyu in the camera taught us a painful life lesson with her own way of doing things. Since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety have been in a dilemma. If we can do things neatly and resolutely, it will be difficult to protect everyone's interests. If you can devote yourself to your career and achieve something, then you will miss your family and can't always accompany your family to serve you.
You can't light a candle at both ends. Su Mingyu finally untied the knot in her heart for many years in the finale and chose to forgive herself for resigning as general manager just to spend more time with her father.
Throughout the whole drama, Su Daqiang's various behaviors make people feel sick. As a man, he is not strong and has no financial ability to support his family; As a husband, you cannot protect your wife and let her bully you; As a father, I can't take charge of the overall situation and let my daughter suffer.
I've always hoped that Su Mingyu can be a little more ruthless, and even if he doesn't retaliate, he can be left alone. But Mingyu has repeatedly defended him, taking him to buy brand-name clothes, taking him to eat western food, living in a mansion and seeing the best doctor.
Finally, I realized that the more people born in bad families, the more they yearn for the warmth from their families. Not all parents in the world are full of love, and not all families are safe havens. Although they don't have enough money to buy materials for the senior high school entrance examination, they will also blame themselves for not providing a good environment for their children. Isn't this a sign of love?
It is the most difficult thing for most of us to let go of our preconceptions about our families and be gentle with those who were unable to love us. But only by opening your heart can you not miss more warmth.
Since this life has become a family, it is doomed. Don't wait until "the tree wants to be quiet but the wind doesn't stop, and the child wants to raise it and not wait for it" to regret it. It's not too late to cherish. Make a phone call to find out about the situation at home, and there will be unexpected gains.