It's bigger than that, it's a big hurdle, it's a big risk, and your words are not official! Eternity, perseverance, prosperity and adversity!
According to the hexagrams, your relationship is very dangerous now, and you are always quarreling together, which is not suitable for being together at all, mainly because you can't argue with her at all, and there is nothing you can do about her! You both have good conditions. If you want to be together, you have to go through both parents, mainly her family, who have opinions on you and are not very satisfied! But if you have perseverance, you will still be together after marriage and be happy!