So my personal point of view is that proposing marriage has no effect, just a means of self-comfort. On the contrary, in society, many people like to pin their problems on the gods to solve them, but they don't go deep into the problems to find solutions.
So, in my eyes, this idea is very stupid, especially for many people in marriage. Personally, I think if I have been single, I can't find the right person. It is mainly related to one's own social circle and one's own ideas, because one's social circle is relatively small and his thinking is not open enough, so it will greatly affect one's decision and opinion of finding the other half.
But I have never seriously thought about these problems, and only left some important problems to luck or gods to solve. But such a solution will not help you at all, just give yourself a little comfort.
Therefore, I should always keep a clear head. When I face various problems in marriage or life, I should carefully study the process of the problems. Only in this way can we solve the problem in time, otherwise there will be no thinking and direction, and the result may eventually affect our own value judgment, thus delaying our own life events. Therefore, the same is true for marriage. We must take the marriage into our own hands. Problems in marriage should be solved in time. Not relying on others is the best decision.