One day a few years ago, my colleague told me that if he couldn't find a better candidate to guarantee, he would definitely ask me for a guarantee.
It is said that there are new rules for guarantee. I am 40 years old and can only guarantee 14 years, not 20 years as my colleagues want.
I told him without hesitation: "well, no matter how they break the contract, as long as you ask me for a guarantee, I will definitely help you." You must rest assured. "
My colleague said gratefully, "That's very kind of you. I found someone, and she refused and said she was afraid. "
"Everyone in the world, I can't trust anyone, but I have to believe you. Do you believe it? " Now, it's my colleague's turn to grin embarrassedly.
Because recently, there have been many incidents in our county where debtors declared bankruptcy and guarantors shared the debts, and two colleagues in our school have to share as much as 6.5438+0.7 million yuan each, so that almost everyone can avoid the important and talk about the guarantee.
I remember at the end of last year, I was chatting with a friend who happened to ask me to fill out a guarantee contract.
My friends have repeatedly told me not to guarantee easily. Say no if you can. People can't be trusted now.
I told my friend again and again: nothing, if I can't trust him, then I can't trust anyone in the world. Besides, this is only the provident fund guarantee for buying a house, not anything else.
My friend was still worried, but I still "signed my name".
Because I am an unusual colleague.
More than ten years ago, because the child's nose was inexplicably bleeding and smelly, many treatments failed, so we had to take him to the First Hospital of the city for medical treatment.
Because we had no money, we borrowed 1500 from our colleagues (it was a lot of money at that time). Without saying anything, he took out all the money and gave us 1700.
I have repeatedly stressed that you must bring enough money when you go out. If it is not enough, he must help to find a way. The child's illness cannot be delayed.
Before and after that, we often asked him to borrow money for emergencies. He always gives me anything he wants and never asks me for money.
One day in 2006, early in the morning, my husband was called home by my cousin, saying that my father was dying and asked him to go home quickly.
I didn't hear from them at night (there was no mobile phone at that time). I asked my colleague to drive me back to my hometown, and he immediately went upstairs to get the motorcycle keys and sent me and my children home.
At that time, my father-in-law had died for a long time. If I were someone else, I don't know how taboo I would be and accuse me, but my colleague didn't say anything.
He just said that he couldn't refuse me because I was in such a hurry.
20 1 1 The summer vacation that makes me feel cold when I think about it is the most rare one for me.
Because the county wants to engage in the so-called "transfer", and the lottery is used to decide whether we will stay or not. As a foreigner, as a person with only a back and no background, I will definitely become the112 of the school.
The next morning, I washed clothes by the river. As soon as my colleague saw me, he said, "... A Qing, I didn't expect you to be transferred, too. Those representatives are really blind! "
At some point, he actually blushed and shed tears.
Colleague, my colleague is a boy. Looking at his tears, I can't help myself. ...
Someone once said that a friend in need is a true friend. Maybe people only know when they are down and out, who is the most suitable person for you and who is the one who really cares for you.
At that moment, I told myself that among more than 80 colleagues in the school, maybe only he is a true friend, not just a colleague!
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It is said that thanks to dripping water, when the gushing water comes back, A Qing can't gush, but I hope I can help my colleagues when they need it, that's all.
If I can't trust such a colleague, such a good man and refuse to vouch for him, then do I still have to be a man? Am I still human?