I think we should buy what we want and not let others pay for our desires. However, my colleagues often tell me that I want to buy a book. Will you buy it for me? Once told me to change my wallet. Can you buy me a wallet? And told me to buy clothes. Shall we buy matching clothes? No shoes to wear. Can you buy me a pair of shoes? Tell me, too, that's delicious. I have no cash with me. Will you buy it for me? I wonder who I am and how he can ask me for these things so confidently or naturally!
Tucao 2. I don't think you should treat yourself as an outsider when you get along with your colleagues. However, as a colleague, I often don't treat myself as an outsider. When I first started working, I bought a box of milk and put it in the office. I drank it every morning. I will definitely share it with my colleagues. These are small things. What bothers me is that my colleagues just hold their own drinks. He also sends it to people in other units every time. Someone else realized that there was no such thing. A box of milk usually lasts less than a week, and then I don't buy it. Sometimes when I am hungry at work, I buy all kinds of snacks and send them to the office. Because I hate this colleague, I gradually don't want to invite him to dinner, but he is conscious. Every time I put a snack on the table, he picks it up and eats it, saying, "Ah! Delicious. "
Two days ago, a colleague of a small partner company invited him to dinner and said that he could bring his family and let me accompany him to eat. I said I'm not going. After all, colleagues from other companies had dinner together. What do you mean, I went, so I refused? My colleague lives with my little friend, and he actually asked to take him, but he went rudely ~ Last night, he invited some friends who had a good time to have dinner with me. He gave me all kinds of suggestions and asked me what time to get off work. I'm really sorry. After the phone call, I asked, "Do you mean I want to invite you to dinner?" He even replied, "Yes, let's go together." I looked at another colleague in the office and said, "This is embarrassing. I'm not going to invite you to dinner. " Later, at dinner in the evening, my little friend received a phone call from him and asked him what he was doing. The little friend said he was eating, and he said he could come. So my little friend said, "Why does he have to come?" Come on, come on. After he came, he said he wouldn't eat. He just wants to sing and then fish out some food in each partner's hot pot.
Tucao 3. I think you can find a way to get what you want, but you can't use other people's practices as an excuse. However, my roommate fell in love with the boy who lived with him, and often stayed at my house and didn't go back. My roommate and her boyfriend have separate rooms, and colleagues share a room with other boys. One night, my colleague came to my house for dinner and told me that it was not good to live with my boyfriend when my roommate was in love. Others will say that my roommate's boyfriend doesn't go home and still occupies a room, and others will have ideas in their hearts. I really want to ask what it is about you! He just wants to live in my roommate's boyfriend's room. Why are you talking to me about this? In fact, my colleague has moved to my roommate's boyfriend's room now. I don't mind that my colleagues often have their own small thoughts, because everyone has small thoughts and can understand them. I just want him to say what he wants directly. Why do you have to come up with so many high-sounding reasons every time? Aren't you tired?
Tucao 4. Since you have chosen to accommodate others, please stop complaining. When making a choice, no one will force you. However, I remember when we divided rooms, because there were three bedrooms, they had five boys. It was a lottery. One boy lives in the living room, two boys live in a room, and the other two boys each have a small bedroom. At that time, my colleague was assigned a small bedroom, but because a boy insisted on a small bedroom, my colleague gave the room to that boy. Let it go. Since then, I have complained in front of me over and over again why I should give my room to someone else. Sometimes at noon, another friend and I want to pack rice and take it home, and all our colleagues agree. But after my friend left, he began to complain to me, "What a trouble. Just eat in the shop, pack it and take it home ... "Yesterday, I finally got angry. If you want to eat in the store, you can eat by yourself. We will take my friend's food home! In the end, he was left alone to eat in the shop, face to face, carrying him. Is it hypocritical?
I think as a boy, I can be considerate and careful, but not endless nagging and capricious indecision. But I often ridicule my colleagues "You are just like my mother, no, more nagging than my mother" because my colleagues have stayed in the unit longer than me and are really more experienced at work. Sometimes the leader gives me a task. Maybe I put it on hold because I am doing something else, but my colleague has a really good memory. He can remind you every two hours that he is already very busy. If he talks too much, he will naturally feel annoyed. There are often contradictions between colleagues. For example, let me go to his house for lunch, and he kept asking me to go. I'm really embarrassed to refuse. I said yes, and he asked me, didn't I just say no? Sometimes I go to his house to sleep at night, because my roommate's boyfriend sleeps in my house, and there are vacancies in their house. He invited me to go, but I refused. He said that my friends would go to the movies together, and I agreed. He said, then why did you go to my house to sleep? These wayward words really make me feel beaten in the face every minute!
Tucao six. I think it's all right for a person to like joking and having fun, but it's necessary to distinguish the relationship between different occasions and different places. However, my colleagues are cute and playful. I remember when I first started working, my mother called me. Because I was answering the work phone at that time, I asked my colleague to answer my mother's phone for me. He is very nice. As soon as the phone was connected, I called my mother, and my mother hung up. Later, I called my mother to torture my "boyfriend". I worked overtime some time ago. My friend called me on the way to work, and he shouted "marry me". Another time at work, my friend called me, and I just answered. He said, "What do you call during work hours? I will deduct your salary. " My friend asked weakly over there, "Did your leader scold you? I'd better hang up first and then contact you. " I worked overtime two days ago, and my parents and I made a video. He washed the grapes directly and fed them to me. I refused him again and again, and my parents thought he was my boyfriend again! I can't figure it out. He and I are not even close colleagues. He made this joke in front of my friend's parents. Did he ever think about my feelings?
Seven, I think there is nothing wrong with a person judging the appearance of others, but always judging the appearance of others is a lack of the most basic respect for people. However, my colleague, as long as he feels familiar with girls, will say, Oh, why are you so fat? He will look at others and laugh, "Are you fat again? Look at the meat on your stomach. " "Eat less and lose weight." He was in a bad mood two days ago. Finally, he couldn't help saying, "I think you studied in college for several years." He replied, "I also feel that I am still here after finishing college, and I don't even have a stable job ..." Actually, I didn't finish. I didn't have the heart to say it after all. I don't want to insult others when I can't stand it in the future, such as "Before saying how bad others look, please think about whether you are Gao Fushuai". Some time ago, we heard through the grapevine somewhere and asked him if he had ever been with his seniors. He said that the senior was "short, dark and ugly" and he couldn't have a crush on her. At that time, I said it was not good for you to say that about others. He even said that only in this way can the relationship between them be made clear in front of others. No matter who is said that, you will feel sad. Isn't it selfish to hurt others to save yourself?
Tucao 8. I think all careful flattery will make people who hate you feel pity, so don't please someone who has made it clear that he already hates you. However, two days ago, my colleagues obviously felt that my attitude towards him was particularly bad, because the unit began to meet the year-end assessment, and it was necessary to do assessment materials, and it was only in August that I joined the work. I was not familiar with this job before August. If I don't understand, just ask him. He will get impatient and make an old-timer gesture. I asked him a lot of questions, and finally after I couldn't help saying "You are amazing", I finished all the evaluation materials myself. He may have sensed my dislike for him. He went to work to buy fruit, popcorn, snacks and milk tea, but I refused. He said it was for me, but I still don't want it. I said if you want to eat, buy it yourself.
I sometimes think he's funny. He went to Urumqi for an exam, had no money, stayed in the cheapest hotel and only ate one meal a day. After coming back, I ate the snacks I bought and the instant noodles prepared for lunch without asking me if I ate them. A boy always says that he has no money and rarely carries cash on the grounds that he will not spend money without money. However, who should pay for him? Who has this obligation? As a boy, I always lack a sense of responsibility, a backbone and self-knowledge.
Perhaps, what I think is just what I think, and I have heard others say that what you think is not all what you think. However, I have not been polished. I still know what kind of people I like and hate. I haven't learned to flatter people I don't like. I still have my own bottom line I can choose my own lifestyle and attitude without affecting others' lives and interfering with others' work. I know there are thousands of Qian Qian people in the world, and I can accept and understand others' differences. Therefore, the code word is just to spit in the middle of the night, and it is difficult to get it out.