Tomb-Sweeping Day had better not take the children to the grave. There are the following taboos: First, children are too young to understand. Some parents said that taking children to the grave can let them know how to be grateful and never forget the kindness of their ancestors. In fact, children under the age of three simply can't remember too many past events. Even unforgettable things will soon be forgotten when they grow up, and they will not lead by example. Chatting with children in his spare time, saying that he was naughty when he was a child, either smashing furniture or being beaten, but he just smiled and couldn't remember it at all. Children are too busy to care about their own growth, and they don't remember being beaten and humiliated, let alone going to the grave on Qingming Day. Second, seasonal changes and abnormal climate. The ancient poem goes, "It rains in succession during the Qingming Festival, and pedestrians on the road want to break their souls". Qingming is the wettest season. After the rain, the clear air was wet and cold. If you take your child to the grave at this time, the child will easily catch a cold, cough and other epidemic diseases. Although Qingming is in warm spring, the weather at this time is the most moody, and it is common to spend spring, summer, autumn and winter in a week. Therefore, for the sake of children's health, it is not recommended to take them out to sweep graves.
Third, it is easy to scare children. As we all know, the cemetery is full of yin, and the children's brains are still a blank sheet of paper. If they are exposed to a shady environment too early, it will inevitably affect the child's character formation and mental health. Especially the grave where the coffin is exposed after rain erosion, and don't bring children, so as not to bring psychological shadow to the growth of children. Finally, for the healthy growth of children, try not to take children to the grave, especially children under three years old, so that children can have a healthy psychology and a happy childhood. If parents have to take their children to the grave, it is best to wear thick clothes to prevent colds and wear masks to avoid pollen allergies.