1, how to get a good marriage? Whether married or unmarried, the methods and principles to achieve a happy marriage are the same.
There are two articles on the Internet, namely, Inductive Sharing and Collection of Marriage Theory and Method and Master Yin Guangda's Marriage Method, both of which are real cases of successful marriage and are well worth reading.
2. How to get rich? There are also two articles on the Internet: "I have been released for three years" and "When my fellow initiates did my work well, I also got a salary increase, and my family's annual income increased by140,000 RMB in three weeks! 〉
3. How to achieve smooth progress in career and study? "A Girl's Invisible Wings" is available online. Find it yourself.
4. You can also use the keywords of "sense of release", "sense of missing Buddha" and "sense of reading" to find a large number of successful real cases on the Internet, which is very shocking.
5. There is a book with great reference value called Self-determination. Huang Yuan was a famous all-rounder in Ming Dynasty, and he wrote Self-determination. History books say that there was never a shortage of talents in the Ming Dynasty, but a generalist like Huang Yuan was rare. His creation covers all walks of life and all aspects. No matter what kind of study, as long as he wants to learn, he can learn well and master it well. He summed up his successful experience in four points and wrote a book. The name of the law is Fan, so "self-reliance" is also called "Fan Four Laws". The original work is ancient Chinese, and modern translations can be found online.
The following is the introduction of the first article:
In the case of marriage induction (1), no wife can ask Guanyin.
Text: Miao Yin Lyman.
The biggest worry of contemporary young people is how to find a suitable partner. My master told me in 1997 that I should give the task of finding a wife to avalokitesvara. To tell the truth, I dare not ask Guanyin Bodhisattva for my own self-interest, but with the growth of age, the trouble of finding a job will follow, and my eight characters have a very strong message that my marriage is not smooth, so I have been worried for many years.
After several emotional setbacks, I was originally poor and charitable. By 200 1, I am 27 years old, with only 8,000 yuan in my pocket (I need at least100000 to get a wife here), and I am often ill. My emotional torture, lack of money and incurable disease forced me to have the cheek to ask avalokitesvara and apply the principles and methods of transforming fate in Buddhism to change.
So, I changed Master Yin Guang's requirement for my son to marry, vowed to do a thousand good deeds, read popular books three times a day, and worship Bodhisattva forty-nine times, and always kept the immoral precept of not doing it, urging my mother to read Buddha and survive in the West. I ask the Bodhisattva to give my wife the standard of 1, honor my mother, help me learn Buddhism, help me make up the economy, and help me get by in the future.
After half a year, the induction came. My mother went to draw lots at the beginning of May in the lunar calendar, and the result was that she could get married after autumn. But I had nothing then. My mother was very surprised. She went to draw another constellation in late May of the lunar calendar. This sign is even more terrible. It is said that June 19 of the lunar calendar is a lucky day for avalokitesvara to get married. I don't believe this marriage at all because it was arranged by avalokitesvara. I still have nothing, but there are only 20 days until June 19. Even then, it took about a year to fall in love. How can I possibly hear that I can get married in more than ten days, let alone an intellectual? But how did this person know that I was asking for Guanyin? I wonder in my heart!
A few days later, a friend introduced an object, and I couldn't say it. I didn't want to see it at first, but my friend was so enthusiastic that I had to see it. When we met, my wife looked a little dark because of the dark light in the coffee shop. On the whole, I feel sick and don't want to continue. At that time, I really couldn't see what my wife looked like. First of all, the light is very dark. Second, I only looked at it once or twice. But at noon the next day, I had a dream when I was sleeping. I dreamed that my wife smiled at me and woke me up. I complained to myself, "That's it." Because in my dream, she was clearer than I saw in reality, that is, the day before yesterday, the clothes I wore were exactly the same as a dress in her closet (I didn't know what she looked like before, let alone what the clothes were like).
Later, when we met again, I realized that my wife was beautiful, but I couldn't see it clearly that day. On June 18, I met my wife's parents (according to the custom, when I met her parents, my marriage was half done), and the timing was so accurate that I was really shocked. After marriage, all five criteria for seeking bodhisattva have been met. My wife is virtuous and filial to my mother, not only supporting me to learn Buddhism, but also following me. She has helped me a lot financially and given me a lot of support in my future.
Suggestion: Your wife is your lifelong companion, which directly affects your life trajectory. It is still very important to find a like-minded wife, so please ask the Bodhisattva to bless you. Looking for a wife based on the Indian owner's search for a child seems to have a good effect. You might as well give it a try, because everyone says it's inspiring to find children.
33-year-old divorced women have better psychological expectations.
There are two kinds of mentality of divorced women. One is that they don't think about themselves, but only ask for their own wishes. The other is the husband's infidelity and cowardice, forcing them to divorce.
The mentality of a newly divorced woman? Get an introduction to divorced women! Just divorced, he must have some antipathy to men. Leave him alone. As long as you love her, don't worry. You should move her slowly and prove to her that you really love her. Don't care what others say. If you love someone, you can pursue it boldly. Even if you fail, you have no regrets. He and she just went through a failed marriage. You must have too much trust in men and confidence in marriage. Know yourself and know yourself before you can fight a hundred battles. Let's go
Forty-year-old divorced women are generally the most lonely and want a pain that can love them. My husband feels aggrieved and can cry on his shoulder. Forty pairs of sex are also more eager and necessary.
The mentality of divorced women is 1. Divorce in two or three months shows that the parties are relatively strong, dare to love and hate, and making friends is a kind of heart-to-heart.
2. If you have been injured once, you will not easily believe in the so-called love, and you will be more wary of men;
3. Good figure, 25, 6 shows that the parties can still be quite confident at present, but they have the desire to ride a white horse again, but they dare not rush into it;
4. Whether private life is relatively open depends on factors such as living environment and friends' social circle.
I want to know the mentality of divorced women. It's hard to trust other men after divorce. Full of doubts or fears about the future life. If I want to find it, I don't believe it either. If I can't find it, how can I live after this?
Moreover, women who have had sex are always prone to think of sexual happiness, and it is very sad not to get it or not!
Although the society is open now, there will still be people pointing fingers behind the divorce. Single women are always suspected by others, such as why they are divorced. Have sex with any man secretly? Or have any love life, just say something about stealing someone else's husband. ,,, This is always a mess! But this kind of thing is always the favorite thing of same-sex women!
There are also some men who know that you are divorced and hungry, and they all want to take advantage of you and spy around you, either sexually harassing or pretending to love! If you are not bored, you will get sick!
There are too many such things, which will cause certain obstacles to people's psychology and make it impossible to look at life more rationally and correctly! I always feel that the day is not like the day before, and people have changed their faces!
In fact, it's all the same, people are still like that, but your foothold is different. You think everyone else has changed!
In short, the reason is still the same, just because your mental state is not normal enough!
Live as before and be happy with yourself!
Live for yourself!
The mentality of a woman who longs for divorce. Divorce is a painful thing for both of you. Few people remain good friends after divorce and their mentality has changed. Now, you are enemies. Maybe you are indifferent to him, and he hates you. This is the general mentality of people after divorce. But you and a dead person don't have to care about this. You should be glad to get rid of such a person with no quality and no cultivation earlier! I admire your courage! Because I am still on the verge of marriage, but I don't have the courage to take the step of divorce. So I really admire you! For a person who doesn't care about the relationship between husband and wife for many years, for a person who has no quality and cultivation, I think you must have your own ideas to deal with it. I hope you can get your wish as soon as possible and break up with him completely! He will regret it! Do you know that?/You know what? Do you know that?/You know what? Usually, if a woman doesn't regret after divorce, then this man must regret it!
Divorced women's hearts Divorced women may know more about feelings, tolerance and consideration because of rough experiences, but correspondingly, they need men's care, care, comfort and understanding, and they need men's careful maintenance. Therefore, their requirements for men may be lower in some aspects, but higher in some aspects. In their minds, they will always compare the advantages and disadvantages of you and your ex-husband, so you may not be able to make them happy.
Men may think that they are mature because of a love experience, and they can bear the ups and downs of life side by side with divorced women; Maybe I'm tired. I just want to sort out my confused thoughts in the tenderness of a divorced woman and let myself enter another mood. But do you really understand the heart of a divorced woman? Do you know the world of divorced women?
Maybe the divorced woman's world is dull and soft, and so is her desire. A peaceful and quiet battlefield may not be suitable for young and ambitious wild horses. A divorced woman will look at that hairy guy with a smile, just as her mother looks at her lovely little child. Divorced women occasionally have strange temper. Do you understand or wonder? Confused, puzzled or angry?
Divorced women are worried about their failed marriage and regard marriage as a career in life. At the same time, they are also depressed because they failed to lead the marriage boat across the dangerous beach and resolve conflicts. Maybe she has more perfect requirements for men. Maybe she has no more * * *, and she is afraid of getting married. She is worried about herself. She longs for love, but dares not love easily. Do you know that she is as cold as ice? Do you understand her low eyebrow and little smile?
Divorced women are more likely to hide their feelings and look at you with their eyes. Do you know how to dig and appreciate?
Love, there is no need to locate first, and there is no need to separate divorced women from women. Love doesn't have to be pursued deliberately.
Psychology of divorced women at the age of 30. Many divorced women are morbid! My classmates and I have met daughters raised by single mothers! Single mothers want to get married, and all kinds of perverts should give bride price as much as possible, otherwise there will be no wedding. Finally, our choice is surprisingly consistent, that is, break up with this woman and don't entangle with the sick family there! Single mothers are particularly insecure and directly affect their children! After the marriage, both parents paid to help buy a house and a car!