Second, we should set an example, and parents themselves should set an example of filial piety to their elders. Children's attitude towards their parents is directly influenced by their parents' attitude towards their elders. There is a story worth learning. Once upon a time, there was a middle-aged couple who were very unfilial to their elderly parents. They drove the old man to a shabby little house and gave him some spoiled food in a small wooden bowl every meal. One day, when they saw their son carving a piece of wood, they asked the child what he was carving. The child said, "carve a wooden bowl, and it will be easy to use when you are old." At this time, the middle-aged couple suddenly woke up, invited their parents back to the main room to live with them, threw away the small wooden bowl and took out the best food at home for the elderly. As a result, the children's attitude towards them changed, and the three generations of the family lived in harmony. It can be seen that the role model of parents has a great influence on children. Nowadays, middle-aged couples still ignore their parents. Some middle-aged couples not only don't take care of their parents, but do everything possible to "scrape" the property of the elderly, which has a worse impact on their children. Therefore, we should not only take care of our small family, but also take care of our elderly parents at all times. Never forget Lao Tzu after adding a son. If you can't get along with the elderly because you live far from home, then try to take time off to take your children to visit the elderly on holidays, help them do some housework, play with them and do their duties and obligations.
Third, let the children know how hard their parents have worked for him and his family. Nowadays, many children don't know their parents' jobs and how their parents get their money. All they know is asking their parents for money to buy this and that. They think it is natural for parents to eat, dress and use their children well. How can such a child sincerely honor his parents? To this end, parents should consciously and often tell their children about their work and income outside. The more specific they are, the more they will let their children know that their parents' money is hard-won. Children will naturally cherish their own lives gradually, and they will also feel grateful and respectful to their parents from the bottom of their hearts. After such a long time, children will gradually develop a good habit of respecting their elders and honoring their parents.
Cultivate children's good habits and methods of honoring their parents.
First of all, it is necessary to establish a reasonable family relationship between young people and old people.
"Reasonable differences between young and old" is different from feudal paternalism and centralized management. The so-called "rationality" means that all family members (including children) are democratic and equal first. Parents should respect their children's independent personality, especially when dealing with their own affairs, they must fully listen to their children's opinions and do things according to their reasonable wishes as much as possible. At the same time, the family is a whole and cannot be independent. Someone has to be a parent to "lead" the family, manage and guide the life of all family members. Parents are the providers of family life and have rich life experiences, so they should naturally become the core and subject of the family. Children (especially minors) should live and study with the guidance and help of their parents. Nowadays, in many families, children are "little suns", but their parents have become the moon and attendants around them, which provides the soil for children to form a bullying character centered on me, let alone cultivate a good habit of filial piety to their parents. Therefore, it is necessary for children to understand the relationship between themselves and their parents, and to know that parents are elders and masters of family life, and they should not reverse their priorities and let children be brave and fool around in the family.
Second, let the children know how much effort their parents have put into him and his family.
Nowadays, many children don't know their parents' jobs and how their parents get their money. All they know is asking their parents for money to buy this and that. They think it is natural for parents to eat, dress and use their children well. How can such a child sincerely honor his parents? To this end, parents should consciously and often tell their children about their work and income outside, and the more specific they are, the better, so that children can understand that their parents' money is hard-won. Children will naturally cherish their own lives gradually, and they will also feel grateful and respectful to their parents from the bottom of their hearts.
Third, we should start from small things and train and cultivate children's behavior habits of respecting their parents.
The general requirements for educating children to be filial to their parents are: listen to their parents' teachings, care about their health, share their worries, participate in housework, and not add chaos to their parents. To turn these requirements into children's practical actions, we must start from daily trifles. For example, care about parents' health: ask children to greet their parents who come home from work every day; When parents are tired, children should take the initiative to help or ask their parents to rest; When parents go out, children should remind their parents to forget things or pay attention to weather changes; When parents are sick, children should take the initiative to take care of them, say more words of comfort and receive guests for them. Children have to bear the housework they have to do, even if they put chopsticks at dinner. According to children's age, ability and learning situation, reasonable distribution, specific guidance, patient training and enthusiastic encouragement. This not only helps children to develop the habit of doing housework, but also helps children to constantly enhance their concept of filial piety to their parents: