I am the foreman of a construction site. I am 32 years old. I fell in love with a female manager on the project. She is 28 years old, handsome, tall and slim.

After reading your description of the problem, I think it is still possible. The reasons are: first, the occupations are similar. They are all engaged in the construction industry and can take care of each other. The second is to be nice to each other. I can see that you still like each other. Ask her out for dinner so much that you have an affair. I think these are all expressions of mutual goodwill. Third, the demand is similar. Each other's families have suffered misfortune, and both have the need to pursue friends of the opposite sex.

1. In view of the current situation, I would like to make two suggestions for your reference.

Take the initiative first. As a gay man, you like her very much. You should take the initiative to care for her, make allowance for her and express your thoughts as soon as possible. There are indications that she likes you, too, otherwise some things will not develop so fast.

Second, we should face it bravely. Your family faces many practical problems. You need to face them bravely, work together to overcome them and take responsibility. As long as it is true love, go for it boldly. Wish you all the best! !