For your own good, just accept her existence ~
Then observe your husband carefully, o(∩_∩)o ...
Stop at the bottom of the bucket and pull my husband's attention all over ~
In fact, there are many men only when she is of the same sex. Don't worry too much.
Be confident! Use your wisdom ~ I believe you can do it.
But don't nag When a woman nags, it's all over ~
Don't complain, don't get angry easily. Be sensible ~ let your child become an insurmountable obstacle for her invisibly.
But you can't talk about her influence on you in front of the child!
Say that she is good, suggesting that she can only be an aunt, and let the children tell her this fact inadvertently.
You have to pull her closer so that she can talk to you endlessly. Even if she comes to your house, she won't have time to chat with your husband. There's something else about how your husband dotes on you, and so on ... be ordinary. Otherwise, people won't believe it. Let her do more things for you. At first, it will be as difficult as possible. You really need her help. This will kill her.
When your husband complains, you say: You are so good with her, can't you ask her to help me? Aren't you a sister? Because you and she are sworn brothers and sisters, or I am Dont Ask For Help.
Be confident and be naughty. Let him know that you are jealous. I can't say clearly ~
O(∩_∩)o ... This is the most vicious trick.
It's up to you ~ it's also the best policy!