Nine years without going home? This is the most unacceptable and controversial point for the audience. Whether you choose to study abroad to take care of Chen Ting privately or not, it's really unreasonable that you haven't visited your family once in nine years. However, according to the latest plot, the screenwriter secretly laid a lot of foreshadowing, a scar on his shoulder, taking so-called health care drugs, and staying up at midnight, all of which suggest that his life may not be good these years, and there must be some secrets hidden behind him.
Moreover, Chen Ting is not a simple role. As soon as Ling Xiao returned to China, he bombarded all kinds of things. She always seems to care about the phone, WeChat and language, but in fact she wants to tie Ling Xiao to her side. This love is suffocating. From Chen Ting's voice, it is not difficult to find that Ling Xiao didn't tell her this time, and it can also be seen that Chen Ting is a big obstacle for him to return to China.
Calling instead of Dad Ling and Dad Li was accused of being unfilial. From the conversation between Ling's father and Li, we can see that the two brothers often call Li's father and infer that Ling's father is injured and concussed on the phone, which shows that he doesn't care about his father, but these are not shown.
Besides, and Ling's father are both taciturn people. Ling's father has been busy with work and has been in a state of stocking. There is little communication between them. Every time he calls, he doesn't know what to say. After being away from home for so many years, it is inevitable that I am a little rusty.
Baiwenhang? Ling Xiao abandoned this family and chose to study abroad for Chen Ting and Little Orange. After all, Chen Ting was so serious that he was living in the intensive care unit, and there was no one around to take care of him. Neither her family nor her husband's family cared, and even if there were many mistakes in those years, they could not be completely ignored.
Some people may say that Chen Ting's family is rich and can be taken care of by a nanny, and the little orange can be taken care of by grandparents. However, for a sick person, mental state will have a great influence on his condition. It is no exaggeration to say that without Lingxiao's company, Chen Ting would not be able to live and walk in the fields. Ling Xiao once told Jian Peijun that Chen Ting was in a bad mental state. It can be seen that Chen Ting's condition must be quite serious, and the actual situation may be worse.
Take advantage of Qi's feelings? I have kept in touch with her all these years, and even used her to understand Sharp's living conditions, and asked her to take pictures of Sharp, so smart that he could not fail to see Qi's feelings. First of all, Ling Xiao always thought that Yue Ming liked Qiu Zi, while Yue Ming always regarded himself as a good friend. Maybe Ling Xiao didn't think much. Secondly, knowing that the female colleague in the hospital likes herself, Ling Xiao immediately told the other party that she likes someone and kept her distance. This shows that Ling Xiao is not a person who teases others' feelings.
Good for little oranges? Ling Xiao went abroad partly because of her, and it can be seen that he is very kind to little oranges. The appearance of Xiaoju undoubtedly shook Sharp's position and divided Ling Xiao's love into more than half, which is why the audience hated her. In fact, Ling Xiao's love for her is more to make up for the regrets of that year. The death of his sister is a hurdle in his heart. Ling Xiao always thinks that his sister's death is related to himself. As it happens, Xiaoju has the same birthmark as her sister, which is an alternative remedy.
Spying on your sister Before going abroad, I asked Yue Ming to secretly take a photo of myself. This move was considered abnormal by netizens. After all, life is under constant monitoring, and no one can understand it. On the phone, I always stressed that Tippy should not fall in love. Tippy is like a tool man, waiting for nine years. After returning home, I also let Jianjian break up with her boyfriend. The tube is too wide, which makes people feel too much.
On this point, everyone has his own opinion, which can be understood as both Ling Xiao's affection and his abnormal condition. After all, this kind of behavior is indeed a bit excessive, but for Ling Xiao, the sharp point is the light in his life and his salvation. Ling Xiao grew up in an unfortunate family. After his sister died and his parents quarreled for a long time, he was abandoned by his mother. Sharp's appearance undoubtedly lit up his dark life. It is better to say that Ling Xiao can't live without Sharp, which makes his behavior a bit extreme.
In short, everyone has a different understanding of Ling Xiao. There are 1000 Hamlet among 1000 audiences. He is not a perfect person. Some people think he is affectionate, others think he is unbearable. Everything is relative. Everyone can keep their own ideas. After all, only different viewpoints can promote the continuous progress of film and television dramas.