2. Marriage has only appearance, and there is no complete emotional closeness. The implication is that its personal value is very low, and its value can only be measured by appearance and feeling. Once the appearance is no longer beautiful, or the feelings continue to be missing, it is completely worthless.
3. Low sense of value is extremely harmful.
(1) If there is excessive psychological shortage, it will require excessive compensation in reality.
Many women deal with rich men in order to continue to live a high-class life, but they are generally unfortunate. From the subconscious level, the despair of luxury is the reverse formation of women's belief of belittling self-worth and "unworthiness" in this relationship. Women actually tell men to rely on money to maintain this relationship.
(2) If the subconscious feels that it is not worthy, it will miss the real partner, because the subconscious will not agree.
Even if you meet the right partner, you will unconsciously interact with each other in a habitual low profile in the relationship.
When many people are under pressure, they will show that their self-esteem is crushed, dodged, hesitant and over-responsible, but they dare not express their true self. If it is suppressed to the point where it is really impossible, people will collapse and make disgusting behavior.
4. It takes a break-up activity to find a sense of belonging, but it can't seriously hurt your partner.
We must re-establish the self-evaluation mechanism (including creating a storm) through a remote activity, return to a sense of belonging, and let others feel it. As a result, people have not changed, but only changed their internal patterns, and then found that the content in the relationship is very different. When we spend a lot of time looking for love, maybe what we really need is to eliminate the obstacles related to love in our hearts. Think of a sentence: what you lost doesn't belong to you, for example, a lot of glitz corresponds to a sense of low self-worth that doesn't belong to you.