1. The most fundamental thing is to stimulate children's self-motivation and curiosity. 2. Set an example: Parents should set an example for their children. 3. Counseling is better than coercion. 4. Correct children's shortcomings by affirming their advantages. 5. Respect children and be their bosom friends. 6. Appreciate children properly. 7. Punish them moderately: It's not too late. 8. Gradually strengthen the child's self.
How to effectively educate disobedient children
First, the spring breeze turns to rain: correcting children's rebellious and rebellious psychology
For rebellious children, parents should always keep in touch with them and urge them to pour out their thoughts and feelings. Then, through persuasion, suit the remedy to the case, guide the children to the right path of life.
1. Resolve the rebellion in children's hearts, and treat the symptoms rather than the root cause. 2. Active guidance: let children vent their emotions. 3. Understanding and caring: reducing children's psychological burden. 4. Facing the "generation gap" conflict, solve it in the right way. 5. Treat children equally, from confrontation to happy cooperation. 6. Respect children's privacy and don't interfere with their legal rights. 7. Lift the high-pressure policy. Listen to the children. Teach children to treat and accept teachers' criticism correctly. Help children eliminate teachers' misunderstanding of themselves 10. Eliminate children's resistance to teachers in time 1 1. Guide children not to taste the bitter fruit of puppy love 12. Don't tolerate children's disrespect for their elders.
Second, temper justice with mercy: change the child's bad personality.
For wayward children, on the one hand, parents should strictly control his unreasonable waywardness and nonsense, on the other hand, they should adopt the strategy of tolerance and guidance for his reasonable self-assertion, which is the educational method of combining leniency with severity.
1. Parents indulge their children, which will lead to their willfulness. Don't give in to their unreasonable demands. 3. Cultivate their self-control. Correct the child's unreasonable troubles. 4. Don't let children cry to achieve their goals. Don't let children ignore discipline. 6. What if children don't accept criticism from their parents? 7. Correct the child's bad habit of losing his temper. 8. Change children's unreasonable attitude. 9. Correct children's bad habit of asking for things. 10. Resolutely correct children's egocentric psychology 1 1. Help children become right. 13. Don't let children be too narrow-minded: "I can do it, others can't!" 14. Correct the shortcomings that children do wrong and refuse to admit.
Third, relax moderately: methods and skills to overcome children's playfulness
If parents want to change their children's playfulness, they must first identify the crux of their children's playfulness, and then adopt correct educational methods. Under the dual role of guidance and compulsion, relaxation and moderation have changed children's bad habit of being playful and put them on the right track.
1. Sometimes children are guided to play in a controlled way. 2. Restrain naughty children with appropriate rules. 3. Take advantage of the trend: develop the intelligent potential of "naughty bag". 4. Cleverly designate study time for playful children. 5. Correct the problem that children don't finish their homework on time. 6. Don't just focus on yourself. Give the children to the TV. 7. Don't indulge their children to have fun during the holidays. 8. Exercise their patience through "three-minute training". 9. Never let children get lost in the video game 10. Save the children who are addicted to the internet 1 1. Don't forbid them to play normally.
Fourth, comprehensive management: correct children's weariness of learning.
Parents should study and analyze the root causes of children's weariness of learning according to their children's reality, so as to suit the remedy to the case and be targeted. Experts believe that correcting children's weariness of learning requires comprehensive management, and multi-pronged approach from all aspects is the key to help children raise their ideal sails and establish self-confidence in becoming talents.
1. Let children raise their ideal sails and cross the swamp that is tired of learning. 2. Build self-confidence and find life coordinates for children who are tired of learning. 3. Guide children to change their "headache" impression of learning. 4. Don't put too much pressure on children. 5. Eliminate children's psychology that "teachers don't like me". 6. Guide children to learn gamification. 7. Make learning fresh: stimulate children's interest in learning by drawing lots. 8. Use a third party: urge and motivate children through others. 9. Use the power of example: Let children make more friends with excellent classmates. 10. Wake up children who are tired of learning: wake up thinking through thinking. 1 1. Use rebellious psychology to deliberately stimulate children.