Friends often tell me that when lovers cheat, even when they are in love, there are some seven-year itchy marriages. Therefore, once I dream of this mirror, I am very worried about whether lovers really want to cheat, and some people even have physical conflicts with lovers. Dreaming of lovers' infidelity must represent lovers' change of heart? Let me analyze it for you.
Love lacks communication and subconsciously wants to be closer.
This kind of situation usually happens in marathon love, between married men and women. The real situation here is that the other party did not cheat, just because the enthusiasm of the two people declined and the interest points became lower and lower, which led to poor communication. Recalling the early days of love, people can't stop peeing in it. Many people don't think about their own problems, but they can't help thinking, has the other person changed? What the dream presents is that the lover is derailed, even the lover turns his face and even commits suicide.
Keywords: marathon love, seven-year itch, lack of communication
Solution: As we all know, love is divided into love and * * *. In the period of first contact or passionate love, it is the love part that dominates our love, and the position of * * * in communication becomes very little. After experiencing intense love and getting familiar with each other's living habits and bodies, * * * takes part in communication in love. So, Chen Peng's advice is, don't fall asleep immediately after every * * *, this time is the period when the human body can accept each other most. At this time, you can talk to each other and listen to each other's voices.
Dream example: Wang Shuai (a pseudonym), male, 35 years old, has been married to his lover for 5 years and has no children. Wang Shuai himself is a salesman, and he often travels. Recently, he always dreamed that his lover was cheating, but after several follow-up investigations and even surprise inspections, no information about his lover's cheating was found. He was very painful and found out the truth of my dream.
I learned that his wife is engaged in public relations, and she is in contact with senior executives every day, one year older than Wang Shuai. Wang Shuai himself is an excellent salesman. He often travels for 2-3 days a week. Because they are the backbone of their respective companies, they don't spend much time together, that is, 1 ~ 2 times a week, and sometimes they are sloppy. Sometimes I think, if we are not together, we can only give up.
After knowing this information, the result of my dream interpretation for Wang Shuai is that this dream is actually a hope for marriage and happiness, because of sexual dissatisfaction and the decrease of communication. So my suggestion is, let him try to call * * *, so that both sides can be satisfied when they are on a business trip. Because there is no imagination space aroused by scenes and language, the love enthusiasm of both sides can be greatly improved.
Less than a week later, Wang Shuai called me. After thanking me, she said it was so effective. Now, instead of thinking about provoking wild flowers every time I travel, I look forward to communicating with my wife. Back home, both sides are in love, and it is better to leave than to get married.
Inferiority leads to distrust of lovers.
Because the other side is excellent, there are many suitors, or there are too many excellent members of the opposite sex in the other side's circle, or the other side is too annoying. Although the other person is with himself, he always feels unreliable and thinks that the other person will leave him one day. This kind of person dreams of cheating lover because of inferiority.
Keywords: inferiority complex
Solution: crack each other's peach blossoms. A ring is enough. If you are in love, wear it on your middle finger. If you are married, wear it on your index finger. The best thing is that this ring should look solemn, if it is not expensive. If you remind me again and again that the other person took it off by himself when he was not paying attention, then you can rule out that the other person is uncomfortable wearing it or the ring doesn't conform to the other person's aesthetics, and you can be sure that the other person wants to erase himself.
Dream example: Xiaohua 19 years old, unemployed, and her boyfriend is a room supervisor in a hotel. He is very handsome and there are many girls around him. Although Xiaohua's boyfriend accompanies Xiaohua after work every day, Xiaohua always feels that her boyfriend is surrounded by women and is very uneasy. Recently, I dreamed about the scene of my boyfriend frolicking with other girls every day, and she ignored her next to her, even when she cried. Xiaohua said that she cried for countless nights and woke up.
I learned that in fact, Xiaohua found that her boyfriend didn't do anything special when playing with girls, just interacting with colleagues. Xiaohua's boyfriend will send gifts to accompany her all day on every festival and memorable day, but when she goes out, she will always meet many beautiful girls to greet him and make jokes. I also learned that Xiaohua 159 weighs 45 kg. She is on a diet to lose weight because she feels baby fat on her face. Every time she squats on the ground, she feels dizzy.
The result of my dream interpretation for Xiaohua is: I suggest Xiaohua stop losing weight and drink some red jujube porridge every day to replenish her vitality. The first thing to be solved is the symptoms of physical weakness. Then give my boyfriend a ring to wear on his left index finger every day and tell him that you are my man. What I want is to have you by myself. Because the index finger represents love, which means showing the world that he has a woman. Even if he talks to a woman at work, there is no need to filter. Unless there are ambiguous actions, language expression is equivalent to a warning, indicating that Xiaohua really cares about him and hopes to spend his life with him.
Xiaohua was relieved and returned to a happy life. In less than a month, she found a job as a shop assistant and got rid of the habit of dreaming often. Xiaohua sent me a text message saying that now, she woke up with laughter several times.
Crisis, just from TV series.
Some people, especially those with rich emotions, especially like association. After watching "Dwelling House" on TV, they wondered if their women would cuckold themselves outside. There are so many love triangles in TV dramas that some men and women especially like to embed themselves in scenes, and there are some sad love songs that can also make these people feel sad and doubt their lovers. It's really embarrassing. Of course, it is themselves who suffer, because in their dreams, they are full of scenes of being abandoned or having an affair with their lovers.
Key words: obsessed with TV, rich in feelings, fond of communication, hoping that a lover will love himself wholeheartedly and unconditionally.
Solution: Go out in front of the TV, don't listen to sad pop songs, don't read romance novels, and do more aerobic exercise.
Dream example: Zhang Qi, female, aged 23, is a cashier in a supermarket. Recently, she always dreamed that her boyfriend went out to steal vegetables, and she would come back to show off. Once she wants to say a few words in her dream, she will be beaten. She's in pain. Why is she always beaten by her boyfriend in her dreams? In real life, she is in love with her boyfriend. I was beaten badly, even crying in my dream, which made my boyfriend often inexplicable but didn't know how to comfort him.
Knowing that the boyfriend in love is not too close to women in his usual living habits and work, and has no history of violence, Zhang Qi is an emotional person, and even a stray cat in the street can make her sad for a long time. Zhang Qi added that if you watch TV before going to bed, you will often have scenes from TV coming into your dreams. The men in your dreams often hit women and are always flirting with women. So I asked, is every shot close to or even overlapping with TV? Zhang Qi nodded his head. The dream was suddenly enlightened. I told her that it was because I saw it during the day that I entered a dream.
I said to Zhang Qi: If you are in love, can you leave the TV for a while? She hesitated for a moment and finally nodded. Because she stopped looking for me later, I thought that if she could really get rid of the nightmare caused by this TV syndrome, it would be a lifetime of happiness for her and her family.
The real crisis lies in the discovery of evidence.
I can't deny the prophecy of dreams, nor can I deny the cognition of the subconscious. There are two problems here. One is that the evidence hasn't been found yet. I just feel the clues. The other is that I have completely discovered the truth, and I just deceive myself to endure it or wait for the prodigal son to return. The truth revealed by the analysis of this dream only makes the dreamer more sentimental. Most people don't want to analyze this dream. I was asked to analyze this dream just for comfort. Let me say, all this is an illusion, not true. This is the performance of marriage crisis. I hope my dream interpretation process can bring the other party how to save the marriage, how to find the factors of lovers' infidelity and then try to solve the problem. If there is domestic violence, persuade them to get out of their misery as soon as possible.
Keywords: evidence of infidelity, domestic violence
Solution: Find out the root cause and solve the problem. However, every family has a difficult experience, and the analysis result of this dream is easy to get, but it is difficult to solve the problem.
Example of dream: Xia Hong (pseudonym), 42 years old, female, housewife. In her dreams, her husband often cheats on women and flirts openly in front of her. She is too depressed to have such a dream, but every time she uses any method, she just dreams about these scenes. Xia Hong said, the spirit is going to collapse. I heard from a friend that Chen Peng's name is good at interpreting dreams, so I came to see you.
Xia Hong looks very good at maintenance, unlike a 42-year-old woman at all. Her clothes are fashionable, but it is obvious that she doesn't get enough sleep under the cover of cosmetics. Knowing that her lover is the owner of a well-known local enterprise. He is busy with official business all the year round and seldom goes home several times a month. His sex life is seasonal, but once he helped him wash clothes, he found condoms, so he decided that his lover was having an affair outside. But because I already have a child of 13 years old, I have to endure it. Xia Hong said, is there any way not to have these dreams?
I know the layout of Xia Hong's bedroom. You can see wedding photos when you blow them. The decoration was designed by my husband, so the overall style is masculine. My suggestion is: rearrange the bedroom, paint her favorite pink tone, dispose of it with her favorite pattern, and change the location of the wedding photo as long as she doesn't pat her head. In addition, close the distance with children's topics, learn to cook well, and let men feel the importance of family harmony again.
A month later, Xia Hong called me and said, Teacher Chen, your method is very effective. After the bedroom was renovated, I really didn't have those annoying dreams. The relationship between husband and wife is still half dead, however, she has learned to cook her husband's favorite mutton with scallion, which tastes the same as that in a five-star hotel. I can hear that Libo is very proud of his words.
Seeing each other's dreams of emotional infidelity mostly stems from the above incentives. As long as we understand the root cause, the truth, try our best to solve the problem, and have a beautiful love and a happy marriage, isn't it under our control?